Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

1)31
2) Nope. I’ve dated a whole lot but if we’re talking serious relationship, this is my second serious long term one. The first one I was on bullshyt and messed up with lots of lies and not doing things right so I learned the hard way when it ended. You could say that’s the first one where I was in it with intention and doing things the right way because she really seemed to be on that same wave.

There are always exceptions but I don’t think there’s a high probability to build and maintain relationship long distance.

 

[Deathstroke]

There are always exceptions but I don’t think there’s a high probability to build and maintain relationship long distance.

Funny I believe you told me that exact same thing years ago . But you right, it’s difficult enough when you deal with women’s emotions locally but long distance is another level. I keep thinking the right one would make it work but at the same time it’s starting the game with a handicap cause there aren’t that many who could. That was very good advice you gave me.

 

[The ADD]

Funny I believe you told me that exact same thing years ago . But you right, it’s difficult enough when you deal with women’s emotions locally but long distance is another level. I keep thinking the right one would make it work but at the same time it’s starting the game with a handicap cause there aren’t that many who could. That was very good advice you gave me.

 

[Panther]

1. I think she’s in the wrong area lol
2. Why would a straight man with options sit down unless he’s trying to use her for content?

Yeah that’s the Beltline in Atlanta. That general section she looks to be in doesn’t get a lot of foot traffic from straight brehs. If she did this on a weekend afternoon then college football and NFL………..

@Panther

1. No hate towards shawty but i think its all for content. She might even have a dude behind the scenes already and will pop out once her series is done
2. She's an average looking woman (no hate ) competition is stiff out here for 6 figures 6 certs brehs

 

[The ADD]

1. No hate towards shawty but i think its all for content. She might even have a dude behind the scenes already and will pop out once her series is done
2. She's an average looking woman (no hate ) competition is stiff out here for 6 figures 6 certs brehs

I think she said it was generally a legit attempt but it kind of blew up so I can see where the content took over.

Competition is stiff but good luck finding prospect on a weekend in the fall around here and it’a not sports related…….

 

[Apollo Creed]

1. No hate towards shawty but i think its all for content. She might even have a dude behind the scenes already and will pop out once her series is done
2. She's an average looking woman (no hate ) competition is stiff out here for 6 figures 6 certs brehs

To my other post the issue nowadays is the avg woman is out of shape and no swag lol.

Inflated modern egos aside id say in the past (like 15-20 yrs ago and the 90s definitely) the avg person looked better just from not being out of shape.

From the heterosexual male lens there used to be a decent middle ground of slim regular looking women without the stripper aesthetic and witjout the herbal tea feminist vibe that normal brehs would be like “she cool and cute” but because of how trash the market is those chicks are now a premium. And even for the brehs who into fat chicks (that theh call thick) uber eats and brunch parties/drinking every day got those women now morbidly obese but they still feeling themselves so it aint even the “she a cool fat chick that can cook” lol

When it comes to men the pool is thinning more so cause lotta dudes just saying no thanks and vanishing from the pool rather than the quality decline you see in what i mentioned above

 

[DaHNIC82]

all these chicks look the same lol. Like every overweight natural hair chick is weird as fukk 8 times out of 10 in 2025. Bunch of education and zero wisdom

For starters this isn't gonna work and it's lowering her attraction. Alot of dudes aren't trying to become "content "

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

1)31
2) Nope. I’ve dated a whole lot but if we’re talking serious relationship, this is my second serious long term one. The first one I was on bullshyt and messed up with lots of lies and not doing things right so I learned the hard way when it ended. You could say that’s the first one where I was in it with intention and doing things the right way because she really seemed to be on that same wave.

So you're not new to this. You both got so swept up in the "honeymoon" stage of things, you didn't take stock of the huge variables that would have to be addressed to arrive at any level of long term success.

You tried. No crime in it. It was fun while it lasted. Take the good moments and appreciate those amd the difficult/painful ones, use as lessons to refine what you will and won't tolerate.

If I had to "criticize" somethings it would be the meeting the parents so quick. But maybe it could not be avoided considering the long distance thing. The other thing I notice is you using "technical" dating language. To me that gives off the notion that you expect things to happen in a linear fashion. Just live in the present moments and let it unfold organically.

This wasn't your first rodeo, you were just caught up.....Such is life.

Also take @Ohene 's advice a smoke a spliff and chill.......... not when you' re feeling the most heartbreak tho... you're mind and body will play tricks on you..

 

[Canon]

Inflated modern egos aside id say in the past (like 15-20 yrs ago and the 90s definitely) the avg person looked better just from not being out of shape.

this is facts our uncles were eating

I be jealous when I look back and see some nostalgic shyt

 

[Apollo Creed]

this is facts our uncles were eating

I be jealous when I look back and see some nostalgic shyt

It’s why passport nikkas be with chicks many would call mid lol but read in between the lines nikkas just be happy with a slim chick that’s friendly and not a headache, it’s that simple

 

[WIA20XX]

and not a headache, it’s that simple

Not a headache, YET.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Not a headache, YET.

‘women are headaches based on what the system allows. That’s why you keep them chicks where they at lol and if you are there be a man and not the western wallet

 

[Astroslik]

Yeah that’s the Beltline in Atlanta. That general section she looks to be in doesn’t get a lot of foot traffic from straight brehs. If she did this on a weekend afternoon then college football and NFL………..

@Panther

Competition would blow her out of the water on a typical atlanta weekend

 

[Canon]

It’s why passport nikkas be with chicks many would call mid lol but read in between the lines nikkas just be happy with a slim chick that’s friendly and not a headache, it’s that simple

Yup

I was gonna edit my post earlier to say the same thing

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yup

I was gonna edit my post earlier to say the same thing

This what has chicks in shambles when their men dont want em in the sense of the post getting ran years the pool ofnsuckers has dwindled. Suckers in this = normal dudes who built themselves up settling for women who are burnt out lol.