Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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one of my shorties saw me walking another girl to her uber the other day and dropped out of the race :francis:
these women dont like to compete :mjlol:
Did she message you and state it? You should've acted like it was business as usual and not skip a beat when she called.... have her feeling confused when she realizes she is not following protocol
 

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Did she message you and state it? You should've acted like it was business as usual and not skip a beat when she called.... have her feeling confused when she realizes she is not following protocol
nah. i randomly hit her up one day and she was acting all passive aggressive. I said i hadnt seen her in a minute and she said "oh really, you havent seen me? 👀" or some shyt. so i had a feeling she mighta seen me with another girl

week later (today) i asked her why she was acting weird and then she told me she saw me with another girl so didnt feel like engaging in convo and didnt know what to think of it. I just said, "alright". Not gonna explain anything

she's the best looking out of the three but ironically has the least sex appeal and was a bit weird so she had already fallen in the pecking order anyway
 
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nah. i randomly hit her up one day and she was acting all passive aggressive. I said i hadnt seen her in a minute and she said "oh really, you havent seen me? 👀" or some shyt. so i had a feeling she mighta seen me with another girl

week later (today) i asked her why she was acting weird and then she told me she saw me with another girl so didnt feel like engaging in convo and didnt know what to think of it. I just said, "alright". Not gonna explain anything

she's the best looking out of the three but ironically has the least sex appeal and was a bit weird so she had already fallen in the pecking order anyway
You did act like "business as usual".:myman:... she's probably not used to dudes being so nonchalant... has her shook..... she'll be back knocking at Coaches door in 2 weeks... :myman:
 

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nah. i randomly hit her up one day and she was acting all passive aggressive. I said i hadnt seen her in a minute and she said "oh really, you havent seen me? 👀" or some shyt. so i had a feeling she mighta seen me with another girl

week later (today) i asked her why she was acting weird and then she told me she saw me with another girl so didnt feel like engaging in convo and didnt know what to think of it. I just said, "alright". Not gonna explain anything

she's the best looking out of the three but ironically has the least sex appeal and was a bit weird so she had already fallen in the pecking order anyway

There was a time where I was in a situation like that, straight out of a rom com

Having dinner in a spot with a girl, Colombian, really bad, and I start looking out the window and see someone smoking a cigarette, and like staring and staring into the place at me like a noir movie. It's a girl I had been sleeping with for months, even just 3 days before. It was way more than that, we talked and went out to dinner, but mostly she hit me up once a week, and cooked and I came over.

I told my date I need 5 minutes outside, and went out and talked to her. All I remember saying was does this change things between us? She was like you didn't see me when you came in? She's cute. Who is she? Her and her friend were sitting right next to us. It wasn't that awkward, but she was just like go ahead, go back to your dinner. She called me later and had her meltdown, but minimal drama.
 

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I've watched a few of her things and she suffers heavily from main character syndrome that a lot of folks dating have. It's only worse because she has the manifesting/affirmations crowd in her comments telling her that nothing is her fault and keep trying the same gameplan even though it's not producing results. Even when folks try to give her reasonable advice the majority drowns it out. :mjlol:

It’s hilarious seeing a woman headed off a cliff and her followers are telling her to keep going.
 

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She been listening to Ayesha Curry?

Even The Zuck gotta deal with this BS.





The pattern with these women is they get into the relationship thinking they'll be the STAR. When Ayesha saw Steph, she probably saw some skinny guy who was safe,(controllable), didnt have to compete, figured she would be get all the attention. But after building himself, she now finds herself in the position of having to keep him lol. She doesnt see the greatest shooter / one of the greatest players in HISTORY, she see's that little kid she went to church with.

Now this Zuck situation sounds like one of her asian homegirls was like "girrll you know he about to build this app" and she said fukk it or again.. (Controllable) vs the asian men she gotta deal with at Harvard (possibly less controllable)

:mjlol:
 

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The pattern with these women is they get into the relationship thinking they'll be the STAR. When Ayesha saw Steph, she probably saw some skinny guy who was safe,(controllable), didnt have to compete, figured she would be get all the attention. But after building himself, she now finds herself in the position of having to keep him lol. She doesnt see the greatest shooter / one of the greatest players in HISTORY, she see's that little kid she went to church with.

Now this Zuck situation sounds like one of her asian homegirls was like "girrll you know he about to build this app" and she said fukk it or again.. (Controllable) vs the asian men she gotta deal with at Harvard (possibly less controllable)

:mjlol:
i cant view the video. whats going on in it
 

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i cant view the video. whats going on in it

So the interviewer asked "Did you know he was the one?" and she said "no, i did not. It was an experiment. I was very concerned, i spent my whole life trying to get into harvard and this kids about to get kicked out, thats a big red flag"

The interviewer asked - "some people say who you marry , is the most important career decision, how did you know mark was the one?" she said "Mark has made me braver version of myself , always cheering me on, he believes in me.. but i have to say theres no fairytale moment, it works because we worked hard to show up for each other"
 

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So the interviewer asked "Did you know he was the one?" and she said "no, i did not. It was an experiment. I was very concerned, i spent my whole life trying to get into harvard and this kids about to get kicked out, thats a big red flag"

The interviewer asked - "some people say who you marry , is the most important career decision, how did you know mark was the one?" she said "Mark has made me braver version of myself , always cheering me on, he believes in me.. but i have to say theres no fairytale moment, it works because we worked hard to show up for each other"
As a stand alone that’s very reasonable and relatable
 

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So the interviewer asked "Did you know he was the one?" and she said "no, i did not. It was an experiment. I was very concerned, i spent my whole life trying to get into harvard and this kids about to get kicked out, thats a big red flag"

The interviewer asked - "some people say who you marry , is the most important career decision, how did you know mark was the one?" she said "Mark has made me braver version of myself , always cheering me on, he believes in me.. but i have to say theres no fairytale moment, it works because we worked hard to show up for each other"
those kinds of ppl are going to be very rational and tactical in who they choose as a wife/husband so i aint surprised.

i aint mad at her answer. we as men often complain at how picky women are and how they dont give men a chance or want to build with them. you could argue that she's the opposite. more power to her

i always say high risk high reward. she took the risk on a harvard drop out and is a billionaire because of it
 

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those kinds of ppl are going to be very rational and tactical in who they choose as a wife/husband so i aint surprised.

i aint mad at her answer. we as men often complain at how picky women are and how they dont give men a chance or want to build with them. you could argue that she's the opposite. more power to her

i always say high risk high reward. she took the risk on a harvard drop out and is a billionaire because of it

Yup. You're at one of the "Top" schools. these people are smart or connected. Yes you can still pick wrong, but for the most part, lots of opportunity to meet someone moderately successful.
 

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nah. i randomly hit her up one day and she was acting all passive aggressive. I said i hadnt seen her in a minute and she said "oh really, you havent seen me? 👀" or some shyt. so i had a feeling she mighta seen me with another girl

week later (today) i asked her why she was acting weird and then she told me she saw me with another girl so didnt feel like engaging in convo and didnt know what to think of it. I just said, "alright". Not gonna explain anything

she's the best looking out of the three but ironically has the least sex appeal and was a bit weird so she had already fallen in the pecking order anyway

These chicks acting like they ain't going out with other men as well :russ:
 
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