Define success
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I'm married with a child.
exactly. if a shorty dont wanna compete thats fine, i'm letting these chicks weed themselves out anywayThese chicks acting like they ain't going out with other men as well
ill rock with the last one standing...so far it looks like this Jamaican girl
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Givethanks
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Whatever the brehs wanna make it tbhDefine success
cyndaquil
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Lol why would she? If she isn't down to be on a roster why would she? If your sister or daughter told you that she saw the guy she was talking to walk another girl to an Uber you'd tell her to stop talking to that dude too no?one of my shorties saw me walking another girl to her uber the other day and dropped out of the race
these women dont like to compete
because she is 34 and told me she hasnt had sex in over 5 years.
nope. to do so would be naiive
because i understand how men work, i would tell her that if she likes dude, he's a good catch and she really wants him, that she should give him a reason not to talk to other women. she hasnt done that, meanwhile the jamaican girl i have mentioned above has. so much that I am sending her flowers at work tomorrow as a surprise
if she wants a nikka to go all in with her she gonna have to put in some effort. tbh there was a point in time where she was in 1st place. but so far, over the last few months ive been seeing her she has been playing it safe and preserving her ego. i can share examples of what i mean.
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Givethanks
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That's goals; one of my boys' is having a son and that's the biggest blessing. I'm hoping I'm blessed with a child in the next few years.
nope. to do so would be naiive
because i understand how men work, i would tell her that if she likes dude, he's a good catch and she really wants him, that she should give him a reason not to talk to other women. she hasnt done that, meanwhile the jamaican girl i have mentioned above has. so much that I am sending her flowers at work tomorrow as a surprise
same girl in question is 34 and told me she hasnt had sex in over 5 years. if she wants a nikka to go all in with her she gonna have to put in some effort. so far, over the last few months ive been seeing her she has been playing it safe and preserving her ego. i can share examples of what i mean
cyndaquil
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Yeah but it's all a thinly veiled facade. The implied but not said detail. And very necessary to date now in today's modern interconnected world. But human nature is still human nature. So a lot of folks hide it. People like to FEEL like they the only oneThese chicks acting like they ain't going out with other men as well
People gotta realize the internet is not your friend. These folks are looking to be entertained. Your mental health and well-being is nkt a concern to them. To them you dont exist like a tv show character that they can interact with.
nah, the thing is its just like a job until I get that job I'll still go to interviews etc.
Majority of these women are going out on dates with other men, talking to other men etc. until your fully committed you develop oneitis
when I was dating until committed I assumed every girl I was talking to was talking to other men, going out with other men. And I was never wrong!
cyndaquil
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What if she's not tho?
Back in the day we'd call these women hoes. Seems now it's different. There's brehs who date one woman at a time like @Lieutenant Daniels. If that's her she can leave and find a breh like him no?
Are we going to act like this "dating multiple people" shyt is causing these women to have more success dating? Seems the opposite.
i'll share one story. i got time today
in september it was my birthday. about a month before it she said she knows the perfect gift to get me. about a week before it she asked me what kinda cake i like (vanilla or chocolate) and implied she was making me a cake. around this time i was at her crib one day and also let her know i was gonna set up a reservation for this new restaurant in town thats been fully booked (a few wks in advance). remember all these pts lol.
so my birthday comes and she doesnt get me a gift (perfectly fine) and then at some point throws it out there that shes making some cupcakes but they turned out kinda bad...and asks me if i wanna come over and get some.
because of how she framed it, i take that as, she was just making some cupcakes randomly (that had nothing to do with my birthday) and she might throw em out but i can get some beforehand. she was too proud to just say, "hey i baked you some cupcakes for your birthday, when can i bring them?" i say sure, ima be chillin after work so she can bring some or i can come get em...to let me know when. later that night my brother visits and she doesnt follow up. around 9 or 10PM i ask her what happened. half hour later i hear a knock on the door and she brings some cupcakes but doesnt stay long cause my brother was over.
apparently i forgot to say thank you and she thought i was unappreciative (thats my bad, i fully thought i said thank you and wondered myself if i did when she left). unbeknownst to her, 4 girls either bought me or baked me cupcakes for my birthday that week lol (the jamaican girl above included). this isnt a humble brag or me being egotistical btw...she just wasnt doing anything to stand out.
a week later i asked her what that perfect gift idea was? she says she was gonna get me a watch the throne vinyl (thoughtful but i dont have a record player so its good that she didnt). i ask why she didnt go through with it. she tells me because she didnt think i did enough to warrant her spending 100-150 on a gift. i told her that i understand. however, the dinner i was gonna take her to at that restaurant prolly woulda ran me around $200, so whats the big deal? it aint like she broke either, shes a pharmacist. i tell her she shouldnt half ass it, and that if it was me in her shoes i woulda got her the gift if i thought it was the perfect gift for her regardless of the cost. she felt she had to be sensible. fair...no harm no foul.
so thats the kinda thing i mean when i say shes preserving her ego. she wants me to prove myself while i am busy messing with women who are equally proving themselves to me. she aint putting in effort to stand out so she hasnt given me a reason to focus on her.
in september it was my birthday. about a month before it she said she knows the perfect gift to get me. about a week before it she asked me what kinda cake i like (vanilla or chocolate) and implied she was making me a cake. around this time i was at her crib one day and also let her know i was gonna set up a reservation for this new restaurant in town thats been fully booked (a few wks in advance). remember all these pts lol.
so my birthday comes and she doesnt get me a gift (perfectly fine) and then at some point throws it out there that shes making some cupcakes but they turned out kinda bad...and asks me if i wanna come over and get some.
because of how she framed it, i take that as, she was just making some cupcakes randomly (that had nothing to do with my birthday) and she might throw em out but i can get some beforehand. she was too proud to just say, "hey i baked you some cupcakes for your birthday, when can i bring them?" i say sure, ima be chillin after work so she can bring some or i can come get em...to let me know when. later that night my brother visits and she doesnt follow up. around 9 or 10PM i ask her what happened. half hour later i hear a knock on the door and she brings some cupcakes but doesnt stay long cause my brother was over.
apparently i forgot to say thank you and she thought i was unappreciative (thats my bad, i fully thought i said thank you and wondered myself if i did when she left). unbeknownst to her, 4 girls either bought me or baked me cupcakes for my birthday that week lol (the jamaican girl above included). this isnt a humble brag or me being egotistical btw...she just wasnt doing anything to stand out.
a week later i asked her what that perfect gift idea was? she says she was gonna get me a watch the throne vinyl (thoughtful but i dont have a record player so its good that she didnt). i ask why she didnt go through with it. she tells me because she didnt think i did enough to warrant her spending 100-150 on a gift. i told her that i understand. however, the dinner i was gonna take her to at that restaurant prolly woulda ran me around $200, so whats the big deal? it aint like she broke either, shes a pharmacist. i tell her she shouldnt half ass it, and that if it was me in her shoes i woulda got her the gift if i thought it was the perfect gift for her regardless of the cost. she felt she had to be sensible. fair...no harm no foul.
so thats the kinda thing i mean when i say shes preserving her ego. she wants me to prove myself while i am busy messing with women who are equally proving themselves to me. she aint putting in effort to stand out so she hasnt given me a reason to focus on her.