Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I had a great date today! Incredible rack :wow: great career :wow: we feel the same about religion etc. I don't usually ask woman on dating app out quick but her, I was like F it due to use being fundamentally the same.
 

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lol fuk that I don't like dating women close to me. I would only do if it's some 47 year old woman, who know she just wants the D from a younger man
 
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@WIA20XX I forgot to ask.... since you have been across "enemy lines" (LSA) do they have a similar thread to this one? And if so does it have a set of level headed conversation? or is it all "Social Media Buzzwords" ?
 

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My friends go out over the weekend, some dumb ass drama, some girl my boy has been sleeping with for awhile, kinda dated a year or so ago, she was with someone else. He was mad about it, but he shouldn't really be, because he ignores her, put her to the side, only comes through to fukk.

Point is, they were all telling me all this, and they were going to post a picture on his instagram stories or something like that, a fake picture, of him on a date. They asked me what I thought. I said what kind of man posts pictures on instagram to get attention from some girl, he says he doesn't even care about?

But, the age difference is about 7-10 years. I am 40 to their 32. I told them it's just a generational thing. To me, a man doesn't do shyt like that. And it made me think about how much social media changed the world, because what they were doing is how EVERYONE thinks now. Small minded, petty, vindictive, and yes, I think pretty feminine. Can you imagine the men from the 90's doing that? Posting a picture to get a reaction from the girl you were fukking, but who is fukking someone else, probably? I said the real player shyt is that's all in the game.
 

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One more thing I noticed on dating apps. Every woman is using femininity and masculinity buzzwords. “I need a provider so I can bask in my femininity”. Or “ I need alpha energy so I can stay in my feminine”

Just say you want the man to pay for everything.

:mjlol:

and the big on during fall / winter

"intentional / intentionality" = spend money
 

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Funny I see yall talking about smashing neighbors because I been thinking the same but also no way I already move crazy as is, I don’t want my neighbors in it too. I had an old pawg test the waters the other day and I think it’s either the mom or related to a pawg across the street but I’m disciplined, I’m in a dry spell by choice because I have full confidence that I can go back to a few ex’s but I want some new.
 

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@WIA20XX I forgot to ask.... since you have been across "enemy lines" (LSA) do they have a similar thread to this one? And if so does it have a set of level headed conversation? or is it all "Social Media Buzzwords" ?

I swear all of their posts are about some type of pro female strategy.

But a parallel thread to this one? I think you need an account to access their relationship board, and that's a bridge too far for me. Anytime they analyze a celeb relationship gives me insight on the women they want to be themselves.

This is from the post about Big Sean and Jhene

"I would’ve never given him a child if he couldn’t even step up to the plate in the first place…."

**Given him**

Is the key phrase here. Like women don't want children a lot more than men do. A lot of dudes change up when they get a kid, but it's not like most guys/boyfriends are poking holes in condoms. Some do, but most don't.

Having a kid and dealing with a wife is putting a lot of plates on the bar - Assuming you're a good dude. but women just don't put themselves in a man's timberlands.

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There's a huge contingent of females that don't understand why some females choose to be with guys that are bad for them. And bad with a capital B. More than just unhygienic, but physically, emotionally, and financially harmful. The second we point that stuff out they obviously will clique up, circle the wagons, and start attacking us, but it's not like they don't see the problems.

I learn a lot from how they tear each other apart and attack any and everything. Like what does the word tacky mean? No one can define it, which is what makes it a perfect insult. All the weapons they use against men, they use against each other.

There are days on The Coli where I'm like a lot of y'all are really tripping. But five minutes at LSA got me thinking everyone on my ignore list is actually rather reasonable.

On the white side of things, even though Black women invade those spaces, and white women colonize black thought, any of the sub reddit about reality TV shows are gold mines. In my experience, women of different groups overlap in 99% of areas, and the 1% of difference is just not worth dissecting.

I'm actually writing this chapter of the book right now, and one of the meta issues with seeing the other side's strategy, is that aside from conversational fodder, how useful is it?

It is very useful as a conversation starter, in that a Big Sean type question can get broads heated up. But I could do that with asking if they still eat chitlins, or some other unimportant thing that stirs passions

The essence of the red pill is that these hoes ain't loyal. And if you didn't learn that at 15, well now you know.

That's good to know from a defensive point of view, but it really doesn't help much in bagging more chicks, bagging hotter ones, or keeping a good one/good squad. These broads are gonna find something to get upset about because finding fault is in their nature. The chick that ain't complained is one that hasn't had enough time.

So I'll be behind the lines, trying to analyze what reads as insanity - but not really being able to make anything with it. It's like watching YouTube shorts on the Roman Empire. Interesting entertainment, but really just a distraction.
 

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My friends go out over the weekend, some dumb ass drama, some girl my boy has been sleeping with for awhile, kinda dated a year or so ago, she was with someone else. He was mad about it, but he shouldn't really be, because he ignores her, put her to the side, only comes through to fukk.

Point is, they were all telling me all this, and they were going to post a picture on his instagram stories or something like that, a fake picture, of him on a date. They asked me what I thought. I said what kind of man posts pictures on instagram to get attention from some girl, he says he doesn't even care about?

But, the age difference is about 7-10 years. I am 40 to their 32. I told them it's just a generational thing. To me, a man doesn't do shyt like that. And it made me think about how much social media changed the world, because what they were doing is how EVERYONE thinks now. Small minded, petty, vindictive, and yes, I think pretty feminine. Can you imagine the men from the 90's doing that? Posting a picture to get a reaction from the girl you were fukking, but who is fukking someone else, probably? I said the real player shyt is that's all in the game.
Crazy
 

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My friends go out over the weekend, some dumb ass drama, some girl my boy has been sleeping with for awhile, kinda dated a year or so ago, she was with someone else. He was mad about it, but he shouldn't really be, because he ignores her, put her to the side, only comes through to fukk.

Point is, they were all telling me all this, and they were going to post a picture on his instagram stories or something like that, a fake picture, of him on a date. They asked me what I thought. I said what kind of man posts pictures on instagram to get attention from some girl, he says he doesn't even care about?

But, the age difference is about 7-10 years. I am 40 to their 32. I told them it's just a generational thing. To me, a man doesn't do shyt like that. And it made me think about how much social media changed the world, because what they were doing is how EVERYONE thinks now. Small minded, petty, vindictive, and yes, I think pretty feminine. Can you imagine the men from the 90's doing that? Posting a picture to get a reaction from the girl you were fukking, but who is fukking someone else, probably? I said the real player shyt is that's all in the game.
Gen z be having sub wars via IG stories
Weird
 

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and the big on during fall / winter

"intentional / intentionality" = spend money

I said before anything new during fall is 80% chance a sucker who is going to foot the bae season bill and yall will break up in spring so she can be in the streets summer lol
 

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I said before anything new during fall is 80% chance a sucker who is going to foot the bae season bill and yall will break up in spring so she can be in the streets summer lol

Thats why its a clearance sale period. You just have to make sure you get out before they want to take the "talk" with you.
 

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One more thing I noticed on dating apps. Every woman is using femininity and masculinity buzzwords. “I need a provider so I can bask in my femininity”. Or “ I need alpha energy so I can stay in my feminine”

Just say you want the man to pay for everything.

:mjlol:
“Intentional dating “ lol
Reason why so many average chicks have seeking arrangement profiles lol



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Thats why its a clearance sale period. You just have to make sure you get out before they want to take the "talk" with you.
tyrese-gibson-eject.gif

:russ:

Only challenge is not “falling” for them during this time period cause your spending a lot of time together. It’s cold, gets dark early, nobody’s really doing anything outside so your shacking up all the time. Most men will be emotionally invested by the time spring rolls around :francis:
 
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