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gym date though? how does that work and whats the backstory lol
I know, I normally don't go for those. But shorty is a personal trainer. So how it happened was we were talking about what workouts we did that day and I sent her a video later of some dude embarrassing himself working legs and she was teasing like "this is you on leg day huh? 😂"
I said "Guess you'll have to try one of my leg days and find out :youngsabo:" she asked when I said next day on my schedule is Friday she said OK and even got the time down and everything that worked for her. Gym date would just be a chick running through part of your routine and then getting protein smoothies or shakes after.
Chick sees you lift, you wear the beater and gray sweat pants combo so she sees your back, shoulders, dikk print too with a pump.
You kill too birds with one stone, a workout and a date and if shawty flakes you still didnt waste any time you were hitting the gym anyways. But I'd only do it with women who lift.
 

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I know, I normally don't go for those. But shorty is a personal trainer. So how it happened was we were talking about what workouts we did that day and I sent her a video later of some dude embarrassing himself working legs and she was teasing like "this is you on leg day huh? 😂"
I said "Guess you'll have to try one of my leg days and find out :youngsabo:" she asked when I said next day on my schedule is Friday she said OK and even got the time down and everything that worked for her. Gym date would just be a chick running through part of your routine and then getting protein smoothies or shakes after.
Chick sees you lift, you wear the beater and gray sweat pants combo so she sees your back, shoulders, dikk print too with a pump.
You kill too birds with one stone, a workout and a date and if shawty flakes you still didnt waste any time you were hitting the gym anyways. But I'd only do it with women who lift.
Hmm honestly thats fair

There have been times i approached Chick at the gym and asked if she wanted to grab smoothies after

I cant rememeber the last time i went to the gym with a shorty though. Going fwd would only do it with a girl who knows what she doing like you said

Was it yall first link
 

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Hmm honestly thats fair

There have been times i approached Chick at the gym and asked if she wanted to grab smoothies after

I cant rememeber the last time i went to the gym with a shorty though. Going fwd would only do it with a girl who knows what she doing like you said

Was it yall first link
Yup first link :manny:. The real telling part tho is that she would've sat up there and said nothing about it if I didnt ask even though we talked daily. If someone really has something come up and they need to reschedule they'll reach out and ask to reschedule with some days and times. Even then if she reschedules again it's two strikes you're out cuz how is your life that chaotic you miss an appointment twice? But they will never miss an appointment to get their hair or nails done. If it is I dont want no part of it either lol
 

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About canceling the gym date, a lot of that is very common, even in non date situations. The power of text, and the ability to instantly and from a distance communicate makes a major difference in how we all communicate. I think it has changed people's ability to just commit and follow through. Everything is feelings based and conditional upon the moment.

I get texts like that too, from women I have known for a decade. Honestly if you asked them down the line what as with with that? They wouldn't even have an answer that made any sense most of the time. There's one that I know that just refuses to tell me when she is dating someone. It's almost like a satire. She'll always respond and say something OMG sounds like fun, but I'm not feeling well, have fun if you go

People have also become both very passive and weirdly obsessively strategic, like they are playing chess for their lives with text messages.
 

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About canceling the gym date, a lot of that is very common, even in non date situations. The power of text, and the ability to instantly and from a distance communicate makes a major difference in how we all communicate. I think it has changed people's ability to just commit and follow through. Everything is feelings based and conditional upon the moment.

I get texts like that too, from women I have known for a decade. Honestly if you asked them down the line what as with with that? They wouldn't even have an answer that made any sense most of the time. There's one that I know that just refuses to tell me when she is dating someone. It's almost like a satire. She'll always respond and say something OMG sounds like fun, but I'm not feeling well, have fun if you go

People have also become both very passive and weirdly obsessively strategic, like they are playing chess for their lives with text messages.
:manny: it is what it is. fukk all that jumping through hoops shyt tho. When you aren't pressed for p*ssy you cut the bullshyt off. This other chick tried to love bomb me off the apps. Got her number and said whats up and she responded with some "Hi honey how was your day?" :what: like im her husband.
I told her it's too early for pet names shyt we aint even been on a date yet. Then proceeded to say it's never too early and tell me her days are usually chaotic...nah
Love bombing red flag got unmatched
 

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:manny: it is what it is. fukk all that jumping through hoops shyt tho. When you aren't pressed for p*ssy you cut the bullshyt off. This other chick tried to love bomb me off the apps. Got her number and said whats up and she responded with some "Hi honey how was your day?" :what: like im her husband.
I told her it's too early for pet names shyt we aint even been on a date yet. Then proceeded to say it's never too early and tell me her days are usually chaotic...nah
Love bombing red flag got unmatched

I wouldn't even said nothing I woulda just stopped responding and ghosted lool
 
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