Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[cyndaquil]

gym date though? how does that work and whats the backstory lol

I know, I normally don't go for those. But shorty is a personal trainer. So how it happened was we were talking about what workouts we did that day and I sent her a video later of some dude embarrassing himself working legs and she was teasing like "this is you on leg day huh? "
I said "Guess you'll have to try one of my leg days and find out " she asked when I said next day on my schedule is Friday she said OK and even got the time down and everything that worked for her. Gym date would just be a chick running through part of your routine and then getting protein smoothies or shakes after.
Chick sees you lift, you wear the beater and gray sweat pants combo so she sees your back, shoulders, dikk print too with a pump.
You kill too birds with one stone, a workout and a date and if shawty flakes you still didnt waste any time you were hitting the gym anyways. But I'd only do it with women who lift.

 

[Ohene]

I know, I normally don't go for those. But shorty is a personal trainer. So how it happened was we were talking about what workouts we did that day and I sent her a video later of some dude embarrassing himself working legs and she was teasing like "this is you on leg day huh? "
I said "Guess you'll have to try one of my leg days and find out " she asked when I said next day on my schedule is Friday she said OK and even got the time down and everything that worked for her. Gym date would just be a chick running through part of your routine and then getting protein smoothies or shakes after.
Chick sees you lift, you wear the beater and gray sweat pants combo so she sees your back, shoulders, dikk print too with a pump.
You kill too birds with one stone, a workout and a date and if shawty flakes you still didnt waste any time you were hitting the gym anyways. But I'd only do it with women who lift.

Hmm honestly thats fair

There have been times i approached Chick at the gym and asked if she wanted to grab smoothies after

I cant rememeber the last time i went to the gym with a shorty though. Going fwd would only do it with a girl who knows what she doing like you said

Was it yall first link

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

How did this thread start off with some straight up philosophy to showing off dikk prints in the gym to attract bytches?

 

[cyndaquil]

Hmm honestly thats fair

There have been times i approached Chick at the gym and asked if she wanted to grab smoothies after

I cant rememeber the last time i went to the gym with a shorty though. Going fwd would only do it with a girl who knows what she doing like you said

Was it yall first link

Yup first link . The real telling part tho is that she would've sat up there and said nothing about it if I didnt ask even though we talked daily. If someone really has something come up and they need to reschedule they'll reach out and ask to reschedule with some days and times. Even then if she reschedules again it's two strikes you're out cuz how is your life that chaotic you miss an appointment twice? But they will never miss an appointment to get their hair or nails done. If it is I dont want no part of it either lol

 

[cyndaquil]

How did this thread start off with some straight up philosophy to showing off dikk prints in the gym to attract bytches?

What's the issue?

 

[Ohene]

 

[The ADD]

“Next Time Tho”

 

[re'up]

About canceling the gym date, a lot of that is very common, even in non date situations. The power of text, and the ability to instantly and from a distance communicate makes a major difference in how we all communicate. I think it has changed people's ability to just commit and follow through. Everything is feelings based and conditional upon the moment.

I get texts like that too, from women I have known for a decade. Honestly if you asked them down the line what as with with that? They wouldn't even have an answer that made any sense most of the time. There's one that I know that just refuses to tell me when she is dating someone. It's almost like a satire. She'll always respond and say something OMG sounds like fun, but I'm not feeling well, have fun if you go

People have also become both very passive and weirdly obsessively strategic, like they are playing chess for their lives with text messages.

 

[cyndaquil]

About canceling the gym date, a lot of that is very common, even in non date situations. The power of text, and the ability to instantly and from a distance communicate makes a major difference in how we all communicate. I think it has changed people's ability to just commit and follow through. Everything is feelings based and conditional upon the moment.

I get texts like that too, from women I have known for a decade. Honestly if you asked them down the line what as with with that? They wouldn't even have an answer that made any sense most of the time. There's one that I know that just refuses to tell me when she is dating someone. It's almost like a satire. She'll always respond and say something OMG sounds like fun, but I'm not feeling well, have fun if you go

People have also become both very passive and weirdly obsessively strategic, like they are playing chess for their lives with text messages.

it is what it is. fukk all that jumping through hoops shyt tho. When you aren't pressed for p*ssy you cut the bullshyt off. This other chick tried to love bomb me off the apps. Got her number and said whats up and she responded with some "Hi honey how was your day?" like im her husband.
I told her it's too early for pet names shyt we aint even been on a date yet. Then proceeded to say it's never too early and tell me her days are usually chaotic...nah
Love bombing red flag got unmatched

 

[Apollo Creed]

it is what it is. fukk all that jumping through hoops shyt tho. When you aren't pressed for p*ssy you cut the bullshyt off. This other chick tried to love bomb me off the apps. Got her number and said whats up and she responded with some "Hi honey how was your day?" like im her husband.
I told her it's too early for pet names shyt we aint even been on a date yet. Then proceeded to say it's never too early and tell me her days are usually chaotic...nah
Love bombing red flag got unmatched

I wouldn't even said nothing I woulda just stopped responding and ghosted lool

 

[re'up]

I do think that text responses increasingly fall into two extreme categories.The text is kinda bullshyt, no argument there. Everyone has their own response, but the two here are ghost or the kind of response that to me seems a little too serious.

I learned something about texts that's like if there's nothing to respond to in the text, than they probably don't want you to respond. That text is pretty close to nothing, there's no question, there's no reschedule, but there's a small window, to say something reasonable like "Sounds good. See you at the gym". It's not groveling, it's not pleading. It leaves a window. But, I also intentionally always put good faith forward, assume the sale, even if you see it for what it is.

I was reading some reddit thread a few weeks back when I was thinking about R&B and generations, and there was a quote in there like "People in this generation have lost the ability to say yes or no". A lot of the texts that irritate me the most are like this.

 

[re'up]

Just a week ago, I hit someone up, to go to MASTROS, and she's very responsive. Very poised. She said oh I love Mastros, I haven't been to the SD one yet, have you? I'm in Vegas tomorrow.

That's the kind of thing I am describing.

 

[cyndaquil]

I learned something about texts that's like if there's nothing to respond to in the text, than they probably don't want you to respond. That text is pretty close to nothing, there's no question, there's no reschedule, but there's a small window, to say something reasonable like "Sounds good. See you at the gym". It's not groveling, it's not pleading. It leaves a window. But, I also intentionally always put good faith forward, assume the sale, even if you see it for what it is.

Can't do that. It's 2025. If you dont cut em off early they will waste your time. I've got enough experience where I see specific patterns play out. The gym chick will respond a little more then stop responding all together soon after especially if asked to another meet up. The other chick is a habitual line stepper. Instead of respecting my boundary she asserted herself with "it's never too soon". Which shows me she ain't coachable in that if I tell her how I want to be treated she would ignore it or get defensive yet expect me to treat her how she asks me to. Dudes only deal with this stuff cuz they are pressed for p*ssy. I am not one of them.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Had a chick flake on a gym date we scheduled on Monday. Asked her yesterday were we still on she said "nah im gonna take a rest day today. I lifted too much this week. Next time tho"

Texted her back "Nah I value consistency and reliability I'm good take care"
goofy chick thought she could run the okie doke. She had the whole week. Could've made the day before a rest day or light day. She didnt care and assumed she could keep me hanging on
Nope.

Double entendre given the whole context... very nice.

 

[Astroslik]

Had a chick flake on a gym date we scheduled on Monday. Asked her yesterday were we still on she said "nah im gonna take a rest day today. I lifted too much this week. Next time tho"

Texted her back "Nah I value consistency and reliability I'm good take care"
goofy chick thought she could run the okie doke. She had the whole week. Could've made the day before a rest day or light day. She didnt care and assumed she could keep me hanging on
Nope.

I would have left her on read. No response and sent to the shadow realm.