Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

 

[Ohene]

If a man breaks up with a woman, she usually really bad. Men will put up with a lot of shyt, especially with how things are now before they willfully go back to the streets

 

[re'up]

I honestly didn’t even know who it was at first. Then I hopped on Hinge, saw her profile with the “new here” banner, and it clicked like ohhh, this is shorty from two months ago. So she probably came across my profile again, had that “oh I remember him” moment, and decided to shoot her shot in a “plausible deniability” way.

But like @Apollo Creed said, it really gives desperation mode. Like she lost a prospect or two during cuffing season and now wants to secure some stability. It’s that “panic pick” energy, man.

Is she bad?

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

That's someone working themselves up with alcohol to be "vulnerable" enough to text someone right? Over eager for some validation after a long night of drinking or a bad night. There has to be some trigger there. The only reason you text someone that late is

A) You are drunk

B) You don't want to think about them not responding, so you send it late and forget about it until the next day.

C) Sex, hail mary pass

D) (Street Dude edition and how I would've seen it in my former life) - Ol girl trying to set me up for a lick......

 

[re'up]

D) (Street Dude edition and how I would've seen it in my former life) - Ol girl trying to set me up for a lick......

The best way to do that is never, or rarely mess with any 'street' girls when you are vulnerable to that. That way you never have to worry. A regular guy is better to date street girls than someone who really has a lot to lose.

@Ahadi, this is just me digging at subject, and not trying to say I am right, or I know better

From what I see, a lot of the "rules" we talk about on here, as far bad communication, or someone appearing after months of nothing, are based around some sort of value system based around respect. To center this on myself for an example, I have not much to do tonight. Planning on getting some fire tacos and watching TV at my spot. There's women I can hit up, but I was out last night for dinner (solo) going out Sunday for dinner, and there's no one where there is already some kind of established pattern like "Come by at 10:00". It would all be spontaneous or arduous bullshyt. Basically like a slot machine pull.

Anyway, if some girl from months back, and there are a handful of these, hit me up right now, I would try to turn it into something for sure. Because I have nothing else going on tonight. A hinge match I get it, it's barely even a person. But, lets say it was someone you knew, you wouldn't hit them back, like lets meet at 8:00?

 

[Shadow King]

What show is this?

 

[Ohene]

yall ever be talking to like 3 chicks at once and wish you could combine their looks/personalities/ages into one?

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

yall ever be talking to like 3 chicks at once and wish you could combine their looks/personalities/ages into one?

That's the reason you got 3 chicks on rotation...

 

[Ahadi]

New hinge update

 

[Ahadi]

The best way to do that is never, or rarely mess with any 'street' girls when you are vulnerable to that. That way you never have to worry. A regular guy is better to date street girls than someone who really has a lot to lose.

@Ahadi, this is just me digging at subject, and not trying to say I am right, or I know better

From what I see, a lot of the "rules" we talk about on here, as far bad communication, or someone appearing after months of nothing, are based around some sort of value system based around respect. To center this on myself for an example, I have not much to do tonight. Planning on getting some fire tacos and watching TV at my spot. There's women I can hit up, but I was out last night for dinner (solo) going out Sunday for dinner, and there's no one where there is already some kind of established pattern like "Come by at 10:00". It would all be spontaneous or arduous bullshyt. Basically like a slot machine pull.

Anyway, if some girl from months back, and there are a handful of these, hit me up right now, I would try to turn it into something for sure. Because I have nothing else going on tonight. A hinge match I get it, it's barely even a person. But, lets say it was someone you knew, you wouldn't hit them back, like lets meet at 8:00?

She is cute. Nice frame, modelesque, big boobs, big lips, light skin, hot topic aesthetic. I didn’t realize she had “baby girl” tatted across her chest and she was into playboy modeling lol. Also she’s into the rock scene heavy, so who knows what other shyt she’s into lol. But I was just talking to anything that I thought looked good, I was more so into the interaction because I haven’t been out in a min.

If she was finer, I might’ve folded, but she’s just cool. Then her Dyke friend was asking my intentions and “if I’m gona treat her good”

 

[jay83]

Be careful some women were all in but now wanna come back, lol

 

[AceAge]

What show is this?

I posted on Alex in the locker room. she apparently is still on the same stuff she’s been on.


People don’t change. But it goes both ways. If you’re the kind of guy who attempts to bond with women like that, you likely have a deep rooted self-esteem issues and you’re likely going to fall victim to someone like that eventually and ruin your life or at least negatively impact it greatly.

What show is this?

 

[Ahadi]

 

[Ahadi]

 

[The ADD]

She doesn’t sound terribly unreasonable. Don’t know the back story but she’s established her career, seems to recognize she had some form of shortcomings she needed to work on.

Of course doing all that guarantees nothing.