Y’all really watched 3 mins of a chick in a car? Lol
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Y’all really watched 3 mins of a chick in a car? Lol
It only took me 5 seconds to turn it off. The voice, bird hands, etc. who wants to come home to that shyt?
again, what were you doing from ages 16-29 (almost 30) ? … if went through all of these women’s history we could pick out who the “husband” was supposed to be.
i scrolled past any video of someone in a car lol
chicks can say in an interview how they can multi task in a job but can’t multi task in life lol
She is conventionally attractive enough to attract her Christian/ middle class/professional class counterpart. She's probably at the tail end of her attractiveness, if we want to be mercenary about it.
But I'm more than willing to bet there is some guy in accounting, IT/Tech, engineering, or some other secondary White collar profession. (As opposed to say banking or finance).
Additionally There are probably a bunch of Indian and Asian guys that would be all over that.
The real question is what are her personal issues and requirements?
Like I've said before, she is probably looking for a guy with an attractive face, good height, and maybe slightly more income. On raw numbers, that's a 1:1,000. Then she has to like the guy - funny, interesting, challenging, sexy, etc.
Even if she thinks those are modest asks, they aren't. Her best option was college , and those days are long over.
Now imagine if she was Black (c) Matthew McConaughey
Many women don’t realize they are simply not fun to be around/ a chore to be around. This is why they are so called good at what they do but nobody in those circles want to deal with them outside of work
Lotta chicks think they're pretty enough to get away with bytch behavior. Nobody that she wants will endure that BS.
And often times the assertiveness that she brings to the job becomes who she is 24/7.
Also women are not raised to “play nice” with others like boys are (as with boys they grow to be men thus this is done to minimize the threat of violence and encourage team work).
We spent so long talking about how boys are inherently “defective” because they dont behave like girls growing up not realizing the monster we created.
There are levels to this relationship dialog and I think because most dudes cant even get a response to a text they think shyt will be peachy clean once they actually secure a women not realizing what waits on the other side once the honeymoon phase (if they even get that as many dudes lock in women from simp servitude angles) ends/you are married and have a kid.
skyrunner1
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Idk breh, First just the fact she recorded this and posted online is already putting you behind the 8 ball before you even begin, based on looks alone this women has had the catch hand to get tons of offers from lets say the day she turned 18 on, something is obviously broken from her keep hand.. TONS.. Take the context of video where she says everyone around her is telling her she is doing something wrong, then she goes on diatribe of its just about her, about what she wants, what she built, me, me, me, I, I, I, yada yada yada..She doesn’t sound terribly unreasonable. Don’t know the back story but she’s established her career, seems to recognize she had some form of shortcomings she needed to work on.
Of course doing all that guarantees nothing.
Like I said, don’t know the back story so all that could be true but nothing she said in the video seems unreasonable to generally vent frustrations about.
Everything you said could be true but the content of the video didn’t seem to match labeling her as a “boss chick”’or whatever the phrase was.
skyrunner1
Superstar
Agreed overall, Im more just looking at the overall context.. the entitlement, I deserve this, I manifest this, etc.. On tiktok which would imply to me perpetually online or grew up with it, there is something overall going on when a generally attractive women based on looks is talking in a way that makes it seem people wont even look at her.
I could be totally putting that on her, but Im around successful women all the time (older and younger), there is definitely a change in the generations as a whole really. Something is up in the water, its not making sense like this.. All these gender war type ideas going mainstream via mass consumption of social media from content creators entirely motivated by dollars per video to repeat the same thing over and over with evergreen examples really seem to be reaching a breaking point. I could be 100% off base and open to that also
Oh for sure. I just think it’s a little dangerous to label everyone venturing frustrations as a boss chick with that narrative or that just because she’s attractive she’s had 100 opportunities at men that would have led to something long term. It can’t be that every woman older than 28 has blown these multitudes of potential husbands.Agreed overall, Im more just looking at the overall context.. the entitlement, I deserve this, I manifest this, etc.. On tiktok which would imply to me perpetually online or grew up with it, there is something overall going on when a generally attractive women based on looks is talking in a way that makes it seem people wont even look at her.
I could be totally putting that on her, but Im around successful women all the time (older and younger), there is definitely a change in the generations as a whole really. Something is up in the water, its not making sense like this.. All these gender war type ideas going mainstream via mass consumption of social media from content creators entirely motivated by dollars per video to repeat the same thing over and over with evergreen examples really seem to be reaching a breaking point. I could be 100% off base and open to that also
That said the problems you identified out weigh the problem of mislabeling.
Sometimes we just give our time to the wrong person too. We have all made mistakes rockin with women we thought might be good viable girlfriends or wives but turned out to be duds. Sometimes we have prolly even been the dudes who wasted womens time
This life shyt isnt easy.
Only difference ill say is that attractive women usually get to “choose” out of a lot. Men are choosing what they wanna go after but kinda are forced to stick with who will stick with them. Its a different dynamic
Vent to love ones not the internet. Venting to the internet is a sign you have nobody that loves or cares for you which is unfortunate but could also be a red flag you ran everyone off being unbearable. Another red flag is being a big mouth clout demon which = anti-peace. If you run to tell the internet about shyt when nobody in your life, so I want to deal with everything I do you running to the internet to tell?
Wasn’t really speaking to any of that but I hear you.
skyrunner1
Superstar
Yea the "boss chick" label is trying to force something into a box for their audience.. I didnt really play into that, just more going off what she said which is she is successful.. But I see what you mean overall..