something I been thinking about for ages and typing here and not hitting post
we need to stop thinking women's crazy moves are driven by emotion. This really means they're crazy and gives them space to dodge accountability. They cant help it. They were emotional. Can't hold them accountable.
Nah. It's all ego. All either boosted ego or bruised ego rooted in the knowledge that they wont be held truly accountable, cause "emotions drove me temporarily insane".
Every "why did she do that shyt" can be divided into those two categories. Is this cause of big ego? Is this cause of bruised ego?
Once you look at it from that angle, every "crazy/wrong" thing a woman does becomes instantly understandable. You'll never ask "why" again. For real. Think of any scenario that you've chalked up to "women being women", "women being crazy", etc etc
All of the "negative" traits that men swear they dodge in women, it really comes down to finding a woman who doesn't operate in those two modes.
adversely, its also why being seen as wrong or shamed or embarassed is, in their minds, the worst thing that can happen to a lot of them. Ego can't take it.
It's also why a lot of their go-to defense is to try to instill shame in others. Their ego makes them feel everyone will react just as negatively to shame (and everything else they don't like) as them.
We gotta stop charging it to "being emotional" and and start calling it for what it is. Narcissistic Egotism.