cyndaquil
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it been one month. This like celebrating cuz you made a layup the first day of basketball tryouts
it been one month. This like celebrating cuz you made a layup the first day of basketball tryouts
after just a month of casual dating dude.
All of that is a lot breh. Just have fun and enjoy life that's all we can do. It is what it is. I think a lot of problems just come because we want to control to much and have these societal pressures and expectations on ourselves. We gotta just live breh lol.
Realize nothing and nobody is perfect. To me this thread is just a stop gap to sometimes vent and sometimes laugh about dating and the craziness. Everybody is dealing with it. But from reading what you said if you're serious about finding someone to be with long term monogamously and your odds are 3 out of 50 that's still pretty good considering you ONLY need to get it right once. I really don't think we need to make finding a mate into the calculus it is made into in this thread at times. That is actually partially the reason things are the way they are now imo
There’s someone for everyone brehAnd I gotta apologize to some of y'all.
She is tore up from the floor up.
- Bad hair
- Horrible accessories
- A face only a mother could love, made worse by bad makeup
- Horrible body
- Grating personality
- Obnoxious behavior through and through
And then to hear her requirements. My blood is low key boiling. How can so little demand so much?
But..
Y'all was saying there's a lid for every toilet
A fly for every pile of sugar honey ice tea
And I said y'all was wrong
And here I stand corrected.
Apologies to those I have doubted.

There’s someone for everyone breh![]()
i dont think its a lot at all.All of that is a lot breh. Just have fun and enjoy life that's all we can do. It is what it is. I think a lot of problems just come because we want to control to much and have these societal pressures and expectations on ourselves. We gotta just live breh lol.
Realize nothing and nobody is perfect. To me this thread is just a stop gap to sometimes vent and sometimes laugh about dating and the craziness. Everybody is dealing with it. But from reading what you said if you're serious about finding someone to be with long term monogamously and your odds are 3 out of 50 that's still pretty good considering you ONLY need to get it right once. I really don't think we need to make finding a mate into the calculus it is made into in this thread at times. That is actually partially the reason things are the way they are now imo
Also the "he is not on social media" cause she knows her own content is a huge red flag in itself.she said "a guy's girl" yikes. She shoulda at least did a retake and said girl's guy before posting that.
a month too early tbf. i'm interested to know if he hit yet. until he hit, it means nothing. hopefully it works out though
Ah gotcha. I'm bout to build out a roster rn. I got an LDR bout an hour 20 mins away only have time to see on weekends. Had a talk bout how this ain't a long term thing for me and I'm still figuring things out and looking for freedom. Long story short she wanna keep seeing me but I can smash other women if I need some cat during the week or on weeks where we can't see each other. She's cool with me having side pieces as long as she stays my main. We'll see how it goes.i dont think its a lot at all.
hope i dont sound high and mighty a lot of the messages in here are negative. why continue a cycle of negativity? somethings got to give unless dudes are just leaving out the good stories. What I'm saying is let's at least balance the thread out and start talking about success stories as @The ADD used to put it. Talk about some dope chicks yall met, some sexy hoes yall fukked, pleasant dates yall had, gestures women have done for yall.
we out here posting delusional dating profiles. I get it. women are delusional and stupid nowadays lol. but i thought we figured that out years ago.