Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I look at the dating market like an actual market and this is how I envision it.
I want to walk into a store(market) but I can se through the big glass windows that it's insanity. People are throwing things around, there is food on the floor, in the aisles. Items mistocked, mislabeled, expired and etc. People are in the market with full carts yet snatching things out of other peoples carts, and people are in there just all out lost and confused.
I'm standing outside of the market saying to myself "I want a Steak. That's it. All I want is a steak. I want to go in here, get my steak and leave. I don't want the whole market, I don't need or even want a full cart of stuff I don't feel like eating. I just want a steak. I'd like to not have to fight other people off of me, just to keep my hands on the steak, I don't want to have to hurdle over unimaginable things to get to this steak. All I want is a steak. I've got the money for it. I've got the car to put the steak in. I'e got a house to cook the steak in. I've got everything I need at home to cook the steak. I know HOW to cook the steak the right way. I just want a steak."
But I just get disheartened looking at the all out insanity in the "market". There's 1000 pages of gut-wrenching stuff posted in this one thread, countless other pages of the same on the net. I've been through some messed up things to that I will never forget and they have left permanent scars man. It ain't masculine to admit it all, but when stuff meses up a man it really messes him up. It infuriates me when women ask "Why don't you have a girlfriend? You're smart/hansdome/etc" I just want to ask them if they even live on the same planet I do? Do they not see how people lie and cheat every day? I was there. In college working my ass off going for days without sleep trying to make something of myself and still got played for the fool by women I thought were ideal. I don't want to disrespect my mother and father because they didn't raise me to be a Pump-and-Dump type of guy, even though I could be. I've got decent money (been making 50k+ snce I was 19, but to these new age women I need to "Step my game up".) nice car, nice clothes, but I don't "flex" it. For what? p*ssy? I've had plenty of sex and honestly it's great but flexing for p*ssy isn't my thing. It's not worth it. Overall I just don't want to be what I despise, because I feel that that is what's killing the black community. But it seems like you are either the guy that's fukking someone elses girl or the guy who's girl is sharing herself. No inbetween.
Other races have slack to give, they are already powerful in real ways. But we tear each other down in our relationships with such viscousness it's hard to even go out and kick off something with someone. Only thing keeping me going is that there are 400 million people in this country, and I know there is one, there is at least ONE woman, who's mind is on the same track as mine. Will I meet her? Probably not, but I'm not goig to give up and be "that guy" because it's easier.
I want to walk into a store(market) but I can se through the big glass windows that it's insanity. People are throwing things around, there is food on the floor, in the aisles. Items mistocked, mislabeled, expired and etc. People are in the market with full carts yet snatching things out of other peoples carts, and people are in there just all out lost and confused.
I'm standing outside of the market saying to myself "I want a Steak. That's it. All I want is a steak. I want to go in here, get my steak and leave. I don't want the whole market, I don't need or even want a full cart of stuff I don't feel like eating. I just want a steak. I'd like to not have to fight other people off of me, just to keep my hands on the steak, I don't want to have to hurdle over unimaginable things to get to this steak. All I want is a steak. I've got the money for it. I've got the car to put the steak in. I'e got a house to cook the steak in. I've got everything I need at home to cook the steak. I know HOW to cook the steak the right way. I just want a steak."
But I just get disheartened looking at the all out insanity in the "market". There's 1000 pages of gut-wrenching stuff posted in this one thread, countless other pages of the same on the net. I've been through some messed up things to that I will never forget and they have left permanent scars man. It ain't masculine to admit it all, but when stuff meses up a man it really messes him up. It infuriates me when women ask "Why don't you have a girlfriend? You're smart/hansdome/etc" I just want to ask them if they even live on the same planet I do? Do they not see how people lie and cheat every day? I was there. In college working my ass off going for days without sleep trying to make something of myself and still got played for the fool by women I thought were ideal. I don't want to disrespect my mother and father because they didn't raise me to be a Pump-and-Dump type of guy, even though I could be. I've got decent money (been making 50k+ snce I was 19, but to these new age women I need to "Step my game up".) nice car, nice clothes, but I don't "flex" it. For what? p*ssy? I've had plenty of sex and honestly it's great but flexing for p*ssy isn't my thing. It's not worth it. Overall I just don't want to be what I despise, because I feel that that is what's killing the black community. But it seems like you are either the guy that's fukking someone elses girl or the guy who's girl is sharing herself. No inbetween.
Other races have slack to give, they are already powerful in real ways. But we tear each other down in our relationships with such viscousness it's hard to even go out and kick off something with someone. Only thing keeping me going is that there are 400 million people in this country, and I know there is one, there is at least ONE woman, who's mind is on the same track as mine. Will I meet her? Probably not, but I'm not goig to give up and be "that guy" because it's easier.
welcome to the board excellent first post
I've been there breh, I've shared my story numerous times but I was the prototypical guy who believed in love and one woman, I was engaged was lied to ended it, years ago I said ill give it another chance and i did fell in love again, was the prototypical "your the first guy who ever treated me well and with respect" all i did was get cheated on, played like a violin. I became that pump and dump guy for awhile and it was so easy, some girls had bfs, i remember a girl blowing me and her phone rang and it was her bf I never knew she had, and she just pauses and is like "im with jenny, were just watching a movie, ill call yo later love you" then she hanged up and took my load in her mouth
ive been celibate for the past 3 years now, back in church etc., and even in church nothing but single moms, or women who res till out there drinking and clubbing on saturday, cursing, sleeping around then in church on sunday. I've already said all I want is a girl thats grounded, family orientated, no tattoos, no kids out of wedlock, doesn't smoke, curse like a sailor but even finding that is like a needle in a haystack
its never been easier to get sex, its never been easier to have a hot girl on your arm, but its never bene harder to find a woman of merit and integrity.
That's the way it is in this country man. Definitely do not sacrifice your morals and who you are for some of these scandalous women. True, you might get more attention from them, but what is their attention really worth? Honestly man, western culture is poisonous to raising a family and unfortunately it is spreading across the world... but you may actually have to see what other lands have to offer.
Beerus
Banned
How to deal with women thread right I hope its not all relationships.
Here's the situation.
I'm in a group with 4 other chick for a group project we had in school. shyt was cool we had an A
Now it's the finals(got one this upcoming friday) Saw one chick while i was going to get something in my locker chatted for like 2 mins, she's like well if u want to meet up to study id be down(told her ima be at the library all weeknd n the week studying for the final). I'm like iight cool.
Now i was thinking of just getting the rest of the group too or 1 or 2 more to come in and study.
Did a group imessage text(that's how we used to communicate) to ask if anybody was down to form a study group this week.
No fukking responses
not even from the one that I saw before.
Breh what the fukk not even from the first one that I saw
The fukks up b like shyt I was hoping to form a group so we could study quicker and get the stuff done since the teacher gives us essay questions before the final so we could all work on each and then share and debate now I'm on my own
Anyways I'm prob gon ignore em when i see em in school cuz that's some fukked up shyt to do to a nikka b.
Here's the situation.
I'm in a group with 4 other chick for a group project we had in school. shyt was cool we had an A
Now it's the finals(got one this upcoming friday) Saw one chick while i was going to get something in my locker chatted for like 2 mins, she's like well if u want to meet up to study id be down(told her ima be at the library all weeknd n the week studying for the final). I'm like iight cool.
Now i was thinking of just getting the rest of the group too or 1 or 2 more to come in and study.
Did a group imessage text(that's how we used to communicate) to ask if anybody was down to form a study group this week.
No fukking responses
not even from the one that I saw before.Breh what the fukk not even from the first one that I saw
The fukks up b like shyt I was hoping to form a group so we could study quicker and get the stuff done since the teacher gives us essay questions before the final so we could all work on each and then share and debate now I'm on my own
There's was like 2 chicks(including the one I spoke too) that I was tryna holla at but never had enough time to lay my seeds
How to deal with women thread right I hope its not all relationships.
Here's the situation.
I'm in a group with 4 other chick for a group project we had in school. shyt was cool we had an A
Now it's the finals(got one this upcoming friday) Saw one chick while i was going to get something in my locker chatted for like 2 mins, she's like well if u want to meet up to study id be down(told her ima be at the library all weeknd n the week studying for the final). I'm like iight cool.
Now i was thinking of just getting the rest of the group too or 1 or 2 more to come in and study.
Did a group imessage text(that's how we used to communicate) to ask if anybody was down to form a study group this week.
No fukking responses
Breh what the fukk not even from the first one that I saw
The fukks up b like shyt I was hoping to form a group so we could study quicker and get the stuff done since the teacher gives us essay questions before the final so we could all work on each and then share and debate now I'm on my own
Anyways I'm prob gon ignore em when i see em in school cuz that's some fukked up shyt to do to a nikka b.There's was like 2 chicks(including the one I spoke too) that I was tryna holla at but never had enough time to lay my seeds
Semester is almost over, they're planning events and texting thier friends/family/boyfriends/etc setting up fun stuff to do. They ain't thinkin about school man, they not trying to hear it. They're just trying to have some fun and you send out a blast message about studying. Don't blame them for that.
I had group chat for a grad school project. It's annoying. If you want to talk to the one girl, talk to HER. Don't do the group thing man. And honestly, from one scholar to another, it's better to study by yourself than with a female. You have a dikk, and if there's females in the vicinity then its going to be pulling blood from your brain to try and get you to do something stupid.
Beerus
Banned
I see
but Lol yeah I was not looking towards studying wit em especially for this class.
Oh well
That saying is real. Most women don't love you for you. They love the feeling they get from being around you. I'm sure many of you fellas experienced it. Some women you don't know just likes you for some odd reason and you just met her, but the more you reveal about yourself, then she starts drifting away, but if you stay aloof and reveal little, she loves it. It boggled my mind for the longest, because I sat back and thought, "How can you love me but you don't know me." The truth of the matter is, it's not all about a woman getting to know you and your interests like you thought. It's all about the feeling she gets when she's around you. This is why women do all kinds of things for some guy she just met who is some loser while she treats her husband like trash. The former guy makes her feel some certain way, and her husband she feels is too common. Once you become common in the eyes of a woman, you receive contempt. This is why it is advisable to never let her know everything about you and do that best buds, tell her everything type of things that a lot of you were taught.
You will come across a very select few who actually like you and what you are really about and not the fame or little feelies you give the woman. Like I said, if you have a decent woman, you better quit playing around out there.
You will come across a very select few who actually like you and what you are really about and not the fame or little feelies you give the woman. Like I said, if you have a decent woman, you better quit playing around out there.
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TrueAlphaMale
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You know women have gone to shyt when most girls quote MARILYN MONROE
A drug addict who was married multiple times, cheated on all her husbands and ultimately died in a pool of her own vomit during a drug overdose
Stay classy women
A drug addict who was married multiple times, cheated on all her husbands and ultimately died in a pool of her own vomit during a drug overdose
Stay classy women
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I ain't that dumb though ; )
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A Pound & A Prayer
I always used joke that it is a white man's worst nightmare if his daughter idolises Marilyn Monroe
When I see girls quote this, I'm thinking "You expect a man bring all his best qualities to the table all the time when you openly don't bring yours?
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