Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I always used joke that it is a white man's worst nightmare if his daughter idolises Marilyn Monroe :pachaha:



When I see girls quote this, I'm thinking "You expect a man bring all his best qualities to the table all the time when you openly don't bring yours? :sitdown:"

I need a man, you are a boy dream last night.
 

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I look at the dating market like an actual market and this is how I envision it.

I want to walk into a store(market) but I can se through the big glass windows that it's insanity. People are throwing things around, there is food on the floor, in the aisles. Items mistocked, mislabeled, expired and etc. People are in the market with full carts yet snatching things out of other peoples carts, and people are in there just all out lost and confused.

I'm standing outside of the market saying to myself "I want a Steak. That's it. All I want is a steak. I want to go in here, get my steak and leave. I don't want the whole market, I don't need or even want a full cart of stuff I don't feel like eating. I just want a steak. I'd like to not have to fight other people off of me, just to keep my hands on the steak, I don't want to have to hurdle over unimaginable things to get to this steak. All I want is a steak. I've got the money for it. I've got the car to put the steak in. I'e got a house to cook the steak in. I've got everything I need at home to cook the steak. I know HOW to cook the steak the right way. I just want a steak."

But I just get disheartened looking at the all out insanity in the "market". There's 1000 pages of gut-wrenching stuff posted in this one thread, countless other pages of the same on the net. I've been through some messed up things to that I will never forget and they have left permanent scars man. It ain't masculine to admit it all, but when stuff meses up a man it really messes him up. It infuriates me when women ask "Why don't you have a girlfriend? You're smart/hansdome/etc" I just want to ask them if they even live on the same planet I do? Do they not see how people lie and cheat every day? I was there. In college working my ass off going for days without sleep trying to make something of myself and still got played for the fool by women I thought were ideal. I don't want to disrespect my mother and father because they didn't raise me to be a Pump-and-Dump type of guy, even though I could be. I've got decent money (been making 50k+ snce I was 19, but to these new age women I need to "Step my game up".) nice car, nice clothes, but I don't "flex" it. For what? p*ssy? I've had plenty of sex and honestly it's great but flexing for p*ssy isn't my thing. It's not worth it. Overall I just don't want to be what I despise, because I feel that that is what's killing the black community. But it seems like you are either the guy that's fukking someone elses girl or the guy who's girl is sharing herself. No inbetween.


Other races have slack to give, they are already powerful in real ways. But we tear each other down in our relationships with such viscousness it's hard to even go out and kick off something with someone. Only thing keeping me going is that there are 400 million people in this country, and I know there is one, there is at least ONE woman, who's mind is on the same track as mine. Will I meet her? Probably not, but I'm not goig to give up and be "that guy" because it's easier.

This is the thing, because as a black man, you're kind of caught between a rock and a hard place in this world when you just want to do the noble thing and go against negative stereotypes and be a decent individual. Women will bleed out a nice brotha and then go and hook up with the same kind of men they keep complaining about. This is why I stopped caring for their "no good black men" tirades a long time ago.

We've mentioned the option of traveling and seeing the world many times, because the western world for the most part is just a bunch of bullshyt. Better to see what else is out there before the western tentacles completely spread and permeate the minds of every woman across the globe.
 

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This is why I don't even lame the blame on most of the women. It's the men that come and justify these womens' actions
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Lets be real about this how many partners do you expect a woman or women to have at our age ...im 29 by the way

unless you're a pimp and that woman is one of your hoes, there is no reason a woman you claim as your own should have 71 bodies to her name. 71 is more than an active football roster. We can argue all day about which specific number makes a woman a hoe and which one doesn't, but 71 easily tells you a woman has no discretion about the men who she lets inside of her and it WILL come to bear with her actions sooner or later. It demonstrates she is a woman guided by impulse and as such, as soon as she gets bored with you and another man can give her the little emotional pump she craves, he'll be number 72.
 

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Bottom line is you keep a ho in a ho's position. You come in and try to save these hoes and wife them up, and this is what is going to happen. Her hoish nature will have a gravitational pull and as soon as she feels a tinge of boredom with you, she will seek solace in the bedroom of another man. You'll divorce her for betraying you and she'll walk out with over half your stuff, on top of child support for a kid that possibly isn't yours and alimony. You'll have jail hanging over your head if you fail to make those payments all the while she is using your resources to look pretty for another man.

Yall brothas better learn to control your jimmy and keep it out of these immoral women. How many negroes got to be broken down by these scandalous women until we get the hint? Evander Holyfield earned 250 million from boxing and he's filing for bankruptcy. Tyson earned hundreds of millions, and he lost a lot of that dealing with the wrong woman. Being we're in the black community, we're often encouraged to be playas and stick it in any woman, but you better value what's between your legs. You go putting it in the wrong woman and you'll be suffering for a very long time.
 
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unless you're a pimp and that woman is one of your hoes, there is no reason a woman you claim as your own should have 71 bodies to her name. 71 is more than an active football roster. We can argue all day about which specific number makes a woman a hoe and which one doesn't, but 71 easily tells you a woman has no discretion about the men who she lets inside of her and it WILL come to bear with her actions sooner or later. It demonstrates she is a woman guided by impulse and as such, as soon as she gets bored with you and another man can give her the little emotional pump she craves, he'll be number 72.

I just think all or most these women have bodies im just trying figures what is a acceptable...number and whats is not. I know some of these brehs in this room got "bodies" as well. I have had this conversation with my boys and some of them are in the 70s. I told them my number and they thought I was a virgin ..lol. Im just not wreckless or as wreckless I guess .
 

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Lets be real about this how many partners do you expect a woman or women to have at our age ...im 29 by the way


look at every stat out there breh, the more sexual partners a woman has the least likely you will have a successful relationship or marriage.

learn about sexual soul ties
 

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I just think all or most these women have bodies im just trying figures what is a acceptable...number and whats is not. I know some of these brehs in this room got "bodies" as well. I have had this conversation with my boys and some of them are in the 70s. I told them my number and they thought I was a virgin ..lol. Im just not wreckless or as wreckless I guess .

a mans count to me is totally different than a women.

It may sound sexist etc. but ah well, women deal with emotions men with logic.
 
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a mans count to me is totally different than a women.

It may sound sexist etc. but ah well, women deal with emotions men with logic.
...yeah I hate how I have to date 4 women and only 1 may like me ...lol. But yeah always combat your logic against womens emotions . To me its a man at his best when he gets logical and he know what he is talking about....like patrice oneal or corey holcomb.
 
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