Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

You're being too cynical reincar; she definitely made a mistake in getting close to me when she was still involved with him. Let me put this into context: she's 24, parents are still together, close family, religious beliefs (recently went on pilgrimage), waiting until marriage, only kissed one other man in her life. We were talking about intimacy and I asked her if she masturbated and she said no. If anything, she's a prude.

By the way, she left my house in tears last night because of her conflicted feelings. I told her though, that if it could happen with him then it could happen with me. Hell, I've already had a woman lie directly to my face before, so I'm not revisiting that.

The thing is you don't want to be with someone who is still "conflicted", you wanna be with a person who has had time to grieve and move on from a previous relationship.

 

[Theraflu]

The Timeline For A Girl Of Average-Or-Better Looks (Version 2013)

Age 15

By this age, most girls—with the exception of the latest of bloomers—will have gotten their first taste of the power of their femininity. Boys at their school will have already started doing things for them, in lame attempts to win their favor, and men on the outside will have started to lavish them with attention–setting off a long flow of ego-stroking validation. But, most girls will still be new at manipulating this new tool that’s fallen into their lap. What’s more, their underage status limits their opportunities to hone it, though Facebook, cell phones, and general social permissiveness has accelerated this process in recent years.

Age 17

By their senior year in high school, most girls have at least two years of experience using their female power. As a result, they’ve developed intermediate girl-game, which places them (a conservative) 8-10 years ahead of boys her age in terms of social intelligence. They spend a lot of their day admiring their own (and their peers’) beauty—mostly by constantly snapping pictures of each other and attention-whoring them out to their growing chorus of fawning admirers in the digital world

did you write this ?

 

[MikelArteta]

Man but I agree with it

did you write this ?

 

[El Dorado]

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[MikelArteta]

its sad how society goes

There is zero consequences anymore and I think there has to be consequences of single motherhood. In the 1950s, 60s there were social shaming and only 1 in 20 women were single mothers (including divorcees). Today it’s out of control. However the positive news is there are consequences (from what I understand) for the majority of single mothers by choice.

1) Plunging market value
2) Being used as a booty call by uncommitted men (i.e. single mothers are easy).
3) Dating poor guys and losers
4) Dating men you are SIGNIFICANTLY OLDER (i.e. old perverted men)

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Brehs,

It been over three years after I caught feeling over this one chic that I use the work with. To make a long story short, I caught feeling, make myself looking like a complete simp and she toss me in the bushes and ran back to her a$$hole boyfriend. Well today, while I had to go to Pearle Vision to get another pair of glasses, guess who I run to? The same bytch who toss me in the bushes looking all rough and beat down.

bytch: hello

Me: hello


I got my glasses and left right afterwards. As soon as I got back to my car all I could do is. Thank God i simp on her ass, got toss and avoid that disaster. Lesson learn, sometimes it better to lose than to win with some chics. The end results are not worth it.

 

[MikelArteta]

You never know, like I said before this chick got cold with me after two days I Google her email and find out she's going through depression.

This other chick I messed out recently found out she was a big whore sleeping with guys for money etc.

You may think you took a L, in the beginning because she's a dime NJT you never know in the end you probably will wjn

Brehs,

It been over three years after I caught feeling over this one chic that I use the work with. To make a long story short, I caught feeling, make myself looking like a complete simp and she toss me in the bushes and ran back to her @sshole boyfriend. Well today, while I had to go to Pearle Vision to get another pair of glasses, guess who I run to? The same bytch who toss me in the bushes looking all rough and beat down.

bytch: hello

Me: hello


I got my glasses and left right afterwards. As soon as I got back to my car all I could do is. Thank God i simp on her ass, got toss and avoid that disaster. Lesson learn, sometimes it better to lose than to win with some chics. The end results are not worth it.

 

[Shameonyou]

You're being too cynical reincar; she definitely made a mistake in getting close to me when she was still involved with him. Let me put this into context: she's 24, parents are still together, close family, religious beliefs (recently went on pilgrimage), waiting until marriage, only kissed one other man in her life. We were talking about intimacy and I asked her if she masturbated and she said no. If anything, she's a prude.

By the way, she left my house in tears last night because of her conflicted feelings. I told her though, that if it could happen with him then it could happen with me. Hell, I've already had a woman lie directly to my face before, so I'm not revisiting that.

man if this was a movie and you were the armchair quarterback what would you tell the person (you) to do in this situation?


shes clearly playing damsel in distress....women know what they want WHEN THEY GET WHAT THEY WANT....she doesnt want you, or the other guy...thats pretty much what im gettting from this.

the dilemma is why is she stringing both of you along? Is there a third guy both of you dont know of? Is that guy ignoring her? Learn the alphabet when it comes to women


there is the A guy, there is the B guy, and there is the C guy......you are one of these letters....if you aint A, and your gut tells you that, you already know its time to leave this soap opera and find someone who has their emotions in the right place....

 

[karim]

You're right breh. That's pretty much what I told her to. She also said she was dragging it out with this guy because she's too weak to end it, and I said if she ends it with him it should be for the right reason (not because of my involvement), and that I won't be getting involved with her if she's got her mind elsewhere. Girl is a little bizarre, but I like her. I'll give her a couple of months and see where it goes from there.

Red flags all over the place. stay the fukk away from this broad.

 

[DaRealness]

You're right breh. That's pretty much what I told her to. She also said she was dragging it out with this guy because she's too weak to end it, and I said if she ends it with him it should be for the right reason (not because of my involvement), and that I won't be getting involved with her if she's got her mind elsewhere. Girl is a little bizarre, but I like her. I'll give her a couple of months and see where it goes from there.

I wouldn't even give her a couple of hours let alone months. I'm guessing you're in your early 20s, but that's still time wasted you're not gonna get back. The fact you say she's a little bizarre says it all. You're really contemplating a future with a broad like that? Who is supposedly "too weak to end it"? Come on man, she's playing you for a fool.

If she loved you and valued YOU, she wouldn't need to clear her mind or mull over stuff, she'd KNOW.

You've got a ton of red flags staring you right in the face but you're ignoring it. I know it's a bitter pill to swallow, but you need to let her go. Trust me, I know her type.

 

[DaRealness]

Brehs,

It been over three years after I caught feeling over this one chic that I use the work with. To make a long story short, I caught feeling, make myself looking like a complete simp and she toss me in the bushes and ran back to her @sshole boyfriend. Well today, while I had to go to Pearle Vision to get another pair of glasses, guess who I run to? The same bytch who toss me in the bushes looking all rough and beat down.

bytch: hello

Me: hello


I got my glasses and left right afterwards. As soon as I got back to my car all I could do is. Thank God i simp on her ass, got toss and avoid that disaster. Lesson learn, sometimes it better to lose than to win with some chics. The end results are not worth it.

Shyt happens for a reason and sometimes it's a good thing we don't get with certain chicks in the long run.

 

[MikelArteta]

I wouldn't even give her a couple of hours let alone months. I'm guessing you're in your early 20s, but that's still time wasted you're not gonna get back. The fact you say she's a little bizarre says it all. You're really contemplating a future with a broad like that? Who is supposedly "too weak to end it"? Come on man, she's playing you for a fool.

If she loved you and valued YOU, she wouldn't need to clear her mind or mull over stuff, she'd KNOW.

You've got a ton of red flags staring you right in the face but you're ignoring it. I know it's a bitter pill to swallow, but you need to let her go. Trust me, I know her type.

daps


anyways we all know he aint go ing to listen thinking he knows more, that his situation is different that we don't know her like he does

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Shyt happens for a reason and sometimes it's a good thing we don't get with certain chicks in the long run.

For some reason, i felt sorry for her when i seen her. A part of me was happy that i got to see her for the first time in three years and she initiate the first response but a part of me is also cold to her because she toss me as if i was trash. A part of me still wish that at least we can talk and end things on good terms but i'm not stressing it and she would have to contact me if she wants to talk. Man, these women can make u cold hearted with their behavior.

 

[MikelArteta]

For some reason, i felt sorry for her when i seen her. A part of me was happy that i got to see her for the first time in three years and she initiate the first response but a part of me is also cold to her because she toss me as if i was trash. A part of me still wish that at least we can talk and end things on good terms but i'm not stressing it and she would have to contact me if she wants to talk. Man, these women can make u cold hearted with their behavior.

never feel sympathy for a woman
99.9% of the times she got in there by her own doing.

99.9% of the time there was a good decent guy who cared and loved her and she cheated, used him, dumped him because she did not feel any "tingles" and now has to live with the consequences

 

[MikelArteta]

let me add on
this girl i know is a single mom struggling on welfare, baby dad has never seen his child feel sorry for her right?

she was dating a great man who loved her, treated her great, was working, but she cheated on him because she was "scared" in her words, scared of a great guy , teh guy she cheated on him with the horrible baby dad who has yet to see his 2 year old child or even cares about her.

i feel ZERO SYMPATHY for any woman none whatsoever