Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

let me add on
this girl i know is a single mom struggling on welfare, baby dad has never seen his child feel sorry for her right?

she was dating a great man who loved her, treated her great, was working, but she cheated on him because she was "scared" in her words, scared of a great guy , teh guy she cheated on him with the horrible baby dad who has yet to see his 2 year old child or even cares about her.

i feel ZERO SYMPATHY for any woman none whatsoever

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

never feel sympathy for a woman
99.9% of the times she got in there by her own doing.

99.9% of the time there was a good decent guy who cared and loved her and she cheated, used him, dumped him because she did not feel any "tingles" and now has to live with the consequences

I understand what u are saying but at the same time i'm not that cold hearted. I don't want her but i have no total ill will towards her either. She made her bed with her choices and behavior but i still wish the best for her because in a screw up way she did make me become a better man by making me realize that i could get the better things in life when i stop chasing women and try to better myself instead.

 

[MikelArteta]

I understand what u are saying but at the same time i'm not that cold hearted. I don't want her but i have no total ill will towards her either. She made her bed with her choices and behavior but i still wish the best for her because in a screw up way she did make me become a better man by making me realize that i could get the better things in life when i stop chasing women and try to better myself instead.

has nothing to do with cold hearedness, or ill will. I wish all women the best in life, but i don't feel sympathy for their hardships.

same with me, people know my story but i expect no sympathy why? because i have been with great women who I took for granted in my younger days because they were not as attractive as the girls i went for, and now there married with kids great women great wives, and im here posting on the coli , but i dug my own hole.

 

[yoyoyo1]

read all the info in this thread and STILL delude yourself and believe all the lies thrown your way, brehs

some people should just be banned from posting in this thread and are beyond help

this doesn't seem like "relationship advice" thread either, and even if it was, not heeding the advice would make this exercise absolutely pointless

 

[El Dorado]

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[MikelArteta]

I appreciate your words and I partly understand your reasoning. I spoke with her last night to find out what the deal was with this man and what her relationship with him is bout. She broke up with him in June, as she couldn't see marriage or a future with him, but got back together in August as she couldn't take that a friend was out of her life. In the last month we've been getting closer, and as we have she's realised she had to end it with him, she said. As it goes, I'm 26.

Realistically, someone would always need time to clear their mind. This is thread is full of guys doing just that.

She should've handled the situation better - been up front with her man and ended it sooner. @His_Excellence_Reincar you said why would a woman be single if she was so great - then what's there to do if she's not?

you really don't get it breh, a woman who was with a dude for however how long then breaks up, then in ttwo months goes back to him, then you show up and shes "realizing" to end it with him yeah right

shes stringing you both along, she wants the security and that "friend", while she can't do without you.


its shocking you don't see it but again all we can do is give advice I knew you would just at it and continue, this girl screams bad news, any female that can't decide which man she wants and continues o string along two is horrible.


she's not single breh

 

[El Dorado]

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[MikelArteta]

Brother I sense some bitterness because I labelled you as cynical. It doesn't sound like she's stringing him along if she's breaking up with him today.

What would you do if you met a great girl, who was not single? What if she broke up with her man to be with you? That seems to be the deal here. And to keep it real, I won't mess with her until she is bona-fide single.

lol ok breh do you, i'm bitter because I'm thinking logical and trying to help you.

If I met a great girl who was not single I would not talk to her, because I am not that type of man.

2. the way a woman enters a relationship is the way she will end it, so when she breaks up with you and goes to next man.

good luck breh, you know her better than us

 

[El Dorado]

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[Shameonyou]

@eldorado stop giving this chick passes....shes a grown ass woman and shes acting like a 3 year old who dont know which toy she wants to play with, and you want to enable this behavior?

experience is the best teacher, but sometimes you dont need to be the one being taught....dont volunteer to get burned bruh

 

[El Dorado]

shes a grown ass woman and shes acting like a 3 year old who dont know which toy she wants to play with, and you want to enable this behavior?

This I agree with - good advice breh.

 

[MikelArteta]

I appreciate your comments, though you shouldn't be accusing me of platitudes such as "know her better than you".

Also you seem to have put yourself in an impossible position: on one hand you don't seem to think that if a woman is great (family values, celibate, beautiful, funny, and so on) she would be single; and on the other hand, if she's not single you wouldn't deal with her. Don't you see this as a logical conundrum you've put yourself in? I understand you've chosen the path of a bachelor though.

It might be true that the way a woman enters a relationship is the way she will end it - and I told her straight up that she could do this to me, so I haven't been blinded by anything. I will keep in touch with her and see where her head is at in a couple of weeks.

breh the then why is she single was sarcasm sorry if you couldnt pick up on it.

I have not chosen the path of a bachelor, i have chose the path of not settling.

you can view me as whatever ay you want but trust me this woman IS NO GOOD.

 

[Two Stacks]

never feel sympathy for a woman
99.9% of the times she got in there by her own doing.

99.9% of the time there was a good decent guy who cared and loved her and she cheated, used him, dumped him because she did not feel any "tingles" and now has to live with the consequences

NI-GGA!

For some reason, i felt sorry for her when i seen her. A part of me was happy that i got to see her for the first time in three years and she initiate the first response but a part of me is also cold to her because she toss me as if i was trash. A part of me still wish that at least we can talk and end things on good terms but i'm not stressing it and she would have to contact me if she wants to talk. Man, these women can make u cold hearted with their behavior.

Aye man, fukk that bytch. her loss

Brehs,

It been over three years after I caught feeling over this one chic that I use the work with. To make a long story short, I caught feeling, make myself looking like a complete simp and she toss me in the bushes and ran back to her @sshole boyfriend. Well today, while I had to go to Pearle Vision to get another pair of glasses, guess who I run to? The same bytch who toss me in the bushes looking all rough and beat down.

bytch: hello

Me: hello


I got my glasses and left right afterwards. As soon as I got back to my car all I could do is. Thank God i simp on her ass, got toss and avoid that disaster. Lesson learn, sometimes it better to lose than to win with some chics. The end results are not worth it.

let me add on
this girl i know is a single mom struggling on welfare, baby dad has never seen his child feel sorry for her right?

she was dating a great man who loved her, treated her great, was working, but she cheated on him because she was "scared" in her words, scared of a great guy , teh guy she cheated on him with the horrible baby dad who has yet to see his 2 year old child or even cares about her.

i feel ZERO SYMPATHY for any woman none whatsoever

when you feel their souls burning...ALL these bytches get themselves into similar situations, looking for a simp to rescue them. bytch aint catching me, i like my money and freedom.

 

[MikelArteta]

NI-GGA!

Aye man, fukk that bytch. her loss





when you feel their souls burning...ALL these bytches get themselves into similar situations, looking for a simp to rescue them. bytch aint catching me, i like my money and freedom.

many men continue to fall prey to sob stories.

just remeber everyone women end 80% of all relationships/marriages

 

[Two Stacks]

This thread has changed me.