Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[OSUBaneBrowns]

what is your gut teliing you?


EDIT: be as real as possible with yourself and listen to your gut. it's like a spidey-sense.

My gut is saying just to let it go and hit her up later on tonight. She is not my girlfriend and whatever she does in her free time is her business. I think that she is telling the truth and she has never show this type of behavior before so i got to give her a pass for now. But I also know that I got to let her chase me for a minute now because I was the one who set up something and go blew off even if it was unintentional.

 

[Liquid]

*Update*

I just woke up to a missed call and text from ol girl stating that she sorry that she missed my call from Monday. She also states that she left her phone in her friends car and she just got it back last night.



Don't know what to do fellas. It seem plausible and this is not typical behavior from her from as i know from her so far but still a part of me....

chances are she was getting her back blown out.

just respond with a "ok" and keep moving. Women don't leave their phone behind

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Yeah I wouldnt proceed with this check, lie is straight BS

Maybe or maybe not, we are not official so I can't really call it bullshyt at this moment.

chances are she was getting her back blown out.

just respond with a "ok" and keep moving. Women don't leave their phone behind

I know for a fact that she always on her phone so I was a little when I read the text this morning. Maybe she was fukking with another dude but we are not official and I did smash another chic that I meet at the bar a week and a half ago so i'm not a saint either.

@BeckyChaser personally i would accept her apology if i felt it was true but i wouldn't set up another date. i would wait for her to come to me and for her to set up something. give her space to fix her mistake. don't fill in the space trying to remove the awkwardness or she will see you as a captain-save-her. you've already showed you want to spend time with her. she flaked and then came up with an excuse that could be true or not. if you feel like she earned the benefit of the doubt, she still hasn't demonstrated she wants to spend more time with you. give her the opportunity to show it by not setting up something else. and if she doesn't, you already have everything you need to know.

props to TheKidd for dropping game on the concept of "space".

Just going to hit her up with a ok later on and tell her to hit me up when she wants to do something. She has to chase me for right now.

Do you believe her? If her phone is the only way she can contact you, then its understandable. But 3 months of dating, yall never e-mailed each other? Should couldn't shoot you a quick note saying "Lost my phone in homegirls car, hard to reach until I get it back"

I would say, forgive her but remember this. And let her set up the next outing.

We only contact each other by phone (don't have her email address) and i'm going to let her hit me up if she wants to do something.

 

[Liquid]

Maybe or maybe not, we are not official so I can't really call it bullshyt at this moment.


I know for a fact that she always on her phone so I was a little when I read the text this morning. Maybe she was fukking with another dude but we are not official and I did smash another chic that I meet at the bar a week and a half ago so i'm not a saint either.



Just going to hit her up with a ok later on and tell her to hit me up when she wants to do something. She has to chase me for right now.



We only contact each other by phone (don't have her email address) and i'm going to let her hit me up if she wants to do something.

nah, just keep it at ok

 

[m@jestic]

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[Turbulent]

Just going to hit her up with a ok later on and tell her to hit me up when she wants to do something. She has to chase me for right now.

wouldn't even tell her "hit me up when you want to do something" to be honest. i would just say "it's cool" and leave it at that.

but then again, i've often been accused of being VERY passive. it works for me though. For me, they're in the bushes until they're not (meaning until they make it ok again) and they aren't in the bushes until they are (meaning until they fukk up).

 

[DaRealness]

@BeckyChaser

It's that time of year, so when you see her again you should give her this treatment:



#HOH

 

[Ohene]

Maybe or maybe not, we are not official so I can't really call it bullshyt at this moment.


I know for a fact that she always on her phone so I was a little when I read the text this morning. Maybe she was fukking with another dude but we are not official and I did smash another chic that I meet at the bar a week and a half ago so i'm not a saint either.



Just going to hit her up with a ok later on and tell her to hit me up when she wants to do something. She has to chase me for right now.



We only contact each other by phone (don't have her email address) and i'm going to let her hit me up if she wants to do something.

I Dunno what to say but think of the times.

if the phone rang it was on.If it was left in the car think about the time line regarding this and why the phone wasn't dead. You'll never be sure either way. So just reply with something generic and leave it up to her to make it up

 

[The Frozen One]

yo how is it that a girl can jump into a relationship with someone else right away? does that mean they never cared about you? respected you? loved you like they kept saying throughout the relationship?

it's .. like do they compare you with the new guy? do they have thoughts about you? do they miss you?

 

[MikelArteta]

Women emotionally detached weeks or month in advance when they drop the hammer on you they already have someone lined up.

Because any average woman has a bunch of guys after them they can hop from relationship to relationship and never have to deal with the pain of a breakup

yo how is it that a girl can jump into a relationship with someone else right away? does that mean they never cared about you? respected you? loved you like they kept saying throughout the relationship?

it's .. like do they compare you with the new guy? do they have thoughts about you? do they miss you?

 

[The Frozen One]

Women emotionally detached weeks or month in advance when they drop the hammer on you they already have someone lined up.

Because any average woman has a bunch of guys after them they can hop from relationship to relationship and never have to deal with the pain of a breakup

it's painful .. i just have it stuck in my mind that she's fukking someone else.. at the same time i refuse to believe it and i think she still loves me .. and plus i did get some hopes about my money cause she said she'll pay some of it this week.

 

[MikelArteta]

Unless she was a virgin saving herself for marriage she's screwing someone else.

Sorry man, if she loved you she would be with you.

I've been there hell I saw my ex in a new relationship and I loved this girl and treated here better than anyone else but it means nothing, shes screwing someone else, sacking dikk and not thinking of me.

Nothing you can do but cut your ties and move on.

We all have hope that one day they will realize that their. New relationship will fail and they will comw running back.

All I can say is listen to us, we've all been there it hurts.

it's painful .. i just have it stuck in my mind that she's fukking someone else.. at the same time i refuse to believe it and i think she still loves me .. and plus i did get some hopes about my money cause she said she'll pay some of it this week.

 

[RealAssanova]

I would have been genuinely offended if that happened to me, to the point that I would have just ignored any advances made towards even if it was over the phone or in person.

I don't understand why a woman can break off a relationship for a reason only they understand then expect the guy to be all smiles and want to get back with her after she's done who knows what with every other guy besides you.

i agree. I'd be offended too. Its like she thinks you probably can't do any better and by her crying and shyt will make you realize that. I'd actually respect an ex if she never bothered me then if she did.

 

[Mike Ock]

The first verse in this Weeknd songs perfectly sums up the way you might start feeling after your 1st or 2nd major long-term break up.

 

[The Frozen One]

Unless she was a virgin saving herself for marriage she's screwing someone else.

Sorry man, if she loved you she would be with you.

I've been there hell I saw my ex in a new relationship and I loved this girl and treated here better than anyone else but it means nothing, shes screwing someone else, sacking dikk and not thinking of me.

Nothing you can do but cut your ties and move on.

We all have hope that one day they will realize that their. New relationship will fail and they will comw running back.

All I can say is listen to us, we've all been there it hurts.

ya breh...there's a reason why i'm asking on here so i can follow the advice.. I just got my last exam in a few hours and i'm gonna be free and then it'll be time for self healing or working to get better females. The next one i find will hopefully be the right one .. meaning no baggage no kids etc.

I just miss the companionship .. the not talking to someone all day .. and i always feel like i won't find anyone .. i want her back i'll be honest but it still wouldn't work out cause of her 2 kids .. so that's the only think i keep telling myself .. 2 kids .. 2 kids .. 2 kids . some days it's hard some days it's easy.. today it's a little bit hard .. this other chick i thought i had a chance with won't even reply to my texts