Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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my pastor is going to mediate it

i'm sorry rein. You my nikka and all but goddam!!!

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brehs i need your help so im meeting tomorrow with the person who owes me money while my pastor is going to mediate it,

do i lash out, or do oi just take things easily and say ive had enough im done you are no longer part of my lif e:patrice:
she goes to your church?? :what:

that chick has no shame, lol. as far as what you should do, you already know my opinion on this. unless you got something on her, there's not much you can do. she has already shown she has no shame. at this point, i'd say go to the meeting, explain the situation from your perspective, explain why you have no confidence she will pay you back, see what your pastor says, and after that it's on her. she'll probably say she'll pay you back, make a payment arrangement to save face, and then days later you won't here from her. I say after that, don't even contact her and take the L. also during the meeting, keep your cool, stay calm even if she lies on you (expect it). she'll speak in a fukked up tone but don't get sucked into her game. but to be frank breh, very unlikely you,ll see that money again.
 

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she goes to your church?? :what:

that chick has no shame, lol. as far as what you should do, you already know my opinion on this. unless you got something on her, there's not much you can do. she has already shown she has no shame. at this point, i'd say go to the meeting, explain the situation from your perspective, explain why you have no confidence she will pay you back, see what your pastor says, and after that it's on her. she'll probably say she'll pay you back, make a payment arrangement to save face, and then days later you won't here from her. I say after that, don't even contact her and take the L. also during the meeting, keep your cool, stay calm even if she lies on you (expect it). she'll speak in a fukked up tone but don't get sucked into her game. but to be frank breh, very unlikely you,ll see that money again.

nah she doesn't

i just dont want to meet her alone incase i snapped

she told me today her dr said she cant talk to me because i cause her to get angry :wtf:, yet her baby daddy causes drama al the time but its all good and grandeur
 

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nah she doesn't

i just dont want to meet her alone incase i snapped

she told me today her dr said she cant talk to me because i cause her to get angry :wtf:, yet her baby daddy causes drama al the time but its all good and grandeur
she's trolling you breh. forget about that money.
 

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Geez man. You're in extra deep with her. Good luck my man. I've just bounced around the thread so don't know the full stories. How long ago did y'all break up and how long was the relationship?


never dated her, shes my godsons mother, sadly ive known her since she got knocked up im the one who talked her out of having a abortion, lent her like 1,000 for rent, she lost her job and was on ei, and i fixed up he rresume and got her a gig but all i get is disrespect :ehh:
 

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never dated her, shes my godsons mother, sadly ive known her since she got knocked up im the one who talked her out of having a abortion, lent her like 1,000 for rent, she lost her job and was on ei, and i fixed up he rresume and got her a gig but all i get is disrespect :ehh:


ohhhh. Better hit her with that ODB line.
 

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never dated her, shes my godsons mother, sadly ive known her since she got knocked up im the one who talked her out of having a abortion, lent her like 1,000 for rent, she lost her job and was on ei, and i fixed up he rresume and got her a gig but all i get is disrespect :ehh:
Stop helping her. She don't respect you at all. I know that she is raising your godson but that is not your blood and she wants to drown on her own so you need to cut your losses and move on with your life.
 
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