Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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that's kind of a fukked up story though if what she said in her other post is true...

Thank you everyone for your responses. To be honest I was never actually physically attracted to him. I fell in love with his personality and the way he treated me. He is a very religious man and I'm not quite as pious as he is but I am very spiritual. A few months into our dating relationship we decided that we wanted to wait until marriage with each other to have sex again. When we first met I was fresh out of another relationship. Anyway, we thought waiting would uncomplicate emotions and make a married life more satisfying. All during our engagement we were battling all sorts of problems with family members and unemployment. We thought that because we were able to make it through all those problems that we were meant for each other. A week after the wedding, my husband went into a serious depression about finances. I found out that his debt was double what he originally told me it was and that he had been hiding how out of hand his bills had gotten while he was in between jobs (he's changed jobs 3 times this year). He was so depressed that he became blasphemous towards God and violent towards our pets. He never hit me or attempted to but his words did just as much damage. One of the main things I was attracted to him for was his faith. I ended up wiping out my checking account and my savings account and maxing out my credit cards trying to help him get caught up on everything but he's still behind. Anyway, I can hardly look him in the face anymore because I don't know what to think of him. He knows how I feel about everything and he says he is trying to manage his finances better. But I found evidence of more personal loans he took out behind my back after he promised me that he would talk to me before making any financial decisions. I'm just at the point where i feel like i don't know the person I married and I wonder if I can trust him. We were once happy but i feel like our relationship was based on lies.
 

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So before yesterday I asked her out to the movies like after her finals, and she was like well I might be going on this trip to Boston(told me about it a few weeks back so i know it aint bullshyt), but we'll see...(shes done like in 10 days)

However iono if I fukked up. She asked me for some help on a french assignment like 15 mins(I speak french so it was easy shyt like make a summary+ opinion of 200 words each for 2 articles of 500 words) before I asked her out. So iono if this forced her to give me the response instead of a NO(like I really wasn't tryna ask her after but it was either that or I was finna have to call her another day for it and fukk a phone call if I can say fukk it). However when I asked her to go see american hustle she was like iono I wanna see Hunger Games....

so yeah now I just wait and I guess I'm either gon call her to see whats up after she done and try to set something up
man she looked so :wow: brehs
Can anyone guide a nikka on this?
Like i dont kno if I should just wait till the 23 to hit her up to see wats up.
Like i dont have to text her before right?(hate texting for small talk or jokes)
 
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Can anyone guide a nikka on this?
Like i dont kno if I should just wait till the 23 to hit her up to see wats up.
Like i dont have to text her before right?(hate texting for small talk or jokes)

Breh I'm in a situation like this and don't know what to do.

This girl at my work gave me her # after small light flirting .. I text her here and there just to build rapport and I ask her what she's doing this weekend and she said she's going down to the states.

I ignored for few days and sent her a text yesterday just to say what's up and she replied like hours later with a simple "hi"

I was :mindblown: .. Don't know if I should ask her out again or :camby:
 

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Can anyone guide a nikka on this?
Like i dont kno if I should just wait till the 23 to hit her up to see wats up.
Like i dont have to text her before right?(hate texting for small talk or jokes)

no risk no rewards, if a girl likes you you'll know, no text games etc. will make her more attractive to you or whatever.

if you text her now and she says nothing she wouldnt have said anything on the 23rd as well
 

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Breh I'm in a situation like this and don't know what to do.

This girl at my work gave me her # after small light flirting .. I text her here and there just to build rapport and I ask her what she's doing this weekend and she said she's going down to the states.

I ignored for few days and sent her a text yesterday just to say what's up and she replied like hours later with a simple "hi"

I was :mindblown: .. Don't know if I should ask her out again or :camby:


women of today have so much options if you don't step up to the plate someone else will
 

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remember brehs

Briffault is known for what is called Briffault's Law:

The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.
 

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no risk no rewards, if a girl likes you you'll know, no text games etc. will make her more attractive to you or whatever.

if you text her now and she says nothing she wouldnt have said anything on the 23rd as well
Thats the thing she dont know if shell b going n the 23rd is when her semester is done plus its her exams now so i aint want to b seen as some annoying needy nikka.
 
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