Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

its funny but you can easily tell when a girl is into you even when you do nothing.

I mentioned earlier how the last girl i ever slept with 3 years ago sent me a email, well we exchanged numbers and just bene texting here and there. Anyways we hanging out this weekend, she's so excited and happy that she found me again ( got rid of my facebook , new number etc since i last spoke to her)

but yeah just saying dont waste your time chasing, or doing favors etc. tryng to get a girl to like you, if a woman likes you, you will know and there is nothing you need to do

 

[MikelArteta]

Anoher thing never get revenged or get angry at women who have hurt you, dumped out, broke your heart etc.,

The universe has a weird way of working things out, it may not be today, next week, next year.

I used to be a guy when after say I was dumped, cheated on or whatever, I'd get angry. I would hope and pray their next relationship fail, or hate them. Now I'm , I did my best and if they don't wnat to appreciate it then


And I'm just saying this because I have been on the other side, I remember when I strung along this girl who was not that attractive to me but she treated me great. I knew she liked me alot but I was , anyways I got into a relationship with my ex fiance who was in the looks department and I know it crushed that girls heart because she could not compete in the looks department. I'll always remember what she told me, how she really had strong feelings for me and it sucked that I did not feel the same way, but at least I'm happy . Anyways of course that relationship failed, it wasn't a week, a few months, a year but after 3 years it failed, and that girl found happiness, love and has a few kids now, and here i am posting on the coli at 327am in a empty house on christmas . It's been like damn 9 years maybe even 10, and I still think about her , how i frigging blew it. How every quality to a tee I want in a woman today is what she was 10 years ago but I was so stupid and blind not to see.

And that experience has taught me to never be angry etc., you've done your best, what comes around goes around. The things some women have done for me, and I've never lifted a finger, said a bad word, wished harm or bad things to happen Vengeance is mine saith the Lord.

You never know when the roles can be reversed.

 

[360dagod]

Anoher thing never get revenged or get angry at women who have hurt you, dumped out, broke your heart etc.,

The universe has a weird way of working things out, it may not be today, next week, next year.

I used to be a guy when after say I was dumped, cheated on or whatever, I'd get angry. I would hope and pray their next relationship fail, or hate them. Now I'm , I did my best and if they don't wnat to appreciate it then


And I'm just saying this because I have been on the other side, I remember when I strung along this girl who was not that attractive to me but she treated me great. I knew she liked me alot but I was , anyways I got into a relationship with my ex fiance who was in the looks department and I know it crushed that girls heart because she could not compete in the looks department. I'll always remember what she told me, how she really had strong feelings for me and it sucked that I did not feel the same way, but at least I'm happy . Anyways of course that relationship failed, it wasn't a week, a few months, a year but after 3 years it failed, and that girl found happiness, love and has a few kids now, and here i am posting on the coli at 327am in a empty house on christmas . It's been like damn 9 years maybe even 10, and I still think about her , how i frigging blew it. How every quality to a tee I want in a woman today is what she was 10 years ago but I was so stupid and blind not to see.

And that experience has taught me to never be angry etc., you've done your best, what comes around goes around. The things some women have done for me, and I've never lifted a finger, said a bad word, wished harm or bad things to happen Vengeance is mine saith the Lord.

You never know when the roles can be reversed.

 

[Turbulent]

Anoher thing never get revenged or get angry at women who have hurt you, dumped out, broke your heart etc.,

The universe has a weird way of working things out, it may not be today, next week, next year.

I used to be a guy when after say I was dumped, cheated on or whatever, I'd get angry. I would hope and pray their next relationship fail, or hate them. Now I'm , I did my best and if they don't wnat to appreciate it then


And I'm just saying this because I have been on the other side, I remember when I strung along this girl who was not that attractive to me but she treated me great. I knew she liked me alot but I was , anyways I got into a relationship with my ex fiance who was in the looks department and I know it crushed that girls heart because she could not compete in the looks department. I'll always remember what she told me, how she really had strong feelings for me and it sucked that I did not feel the same way, but at least I'm happy . Anyways of course that relationship failed, it wasn't a week, a few months, a year but after 3 years it failed, and that girl found happiness, love and has a few kids now, and here i am posting on the coli at 327am in a empty house on christmas . It's been like damn 9 years maybe even 10, and I still think about her , how i frigging blew it. How every quality to a tee I want in a woman today is what she was 10 years ago but I was so stupid and blind not to see.

And that experience has taught me to never be angry etc., you've done your best, what comes around goes around. The things some women have done for me, and I've never lifted a finger, said a bad word, wished harm or bad things to happen Vengeance is mine saith the Lord.

You never know when the roles can be reversed.

I don't always agree with your perspectives but you one of the realest posters on here breh

 

[Medio]

just cause a girl is giving you signs of attention back doesn't mean she wants you, she just wants the attention back

just learned this last night

 

[Turbulent]

just cause a girl is giving you signs of attention back doesn't mean she wants you, she just wants the attention back

just learned this last night

and once you realize that you have two choices. either use it to manipulate her into getting what you want from her just like she's doing you (the player way) OR be real with her and just stop dealing with her at all and throw her in the bushes(the honest way).

You have two choices with this knowledge. You can either choose the "dark side" or the "light side". The choice is personal but word of advice, i've personally never seen anyone choose the dark side and and get longterm happiness. You may get revenge, you may get to see her suffer and get short term happiness out of that. but at what price? time and energy drained out of life...


EDIT: but then again, some would argue that you will always end up running into people wanting to play you and that it's all game, just different levels so you might as well get yours. Like Sway, i don't really have the answers...

 

[Medio]

and once you realize that you have two choices. either use it to manipulate her into getting what you want from her just like she's doing you (the player way) OR be real with her and just stop dealing with her at all and throw her in the bushes(the honest way).

You have two choices with this knowledge. You can either choose the "dark side" or the "light side". The choice is personal but word of advice, i've personally never seen anyone choose the dark side and and get longterm happiness. You may get revenge, you may get to see her suffer and get short term happiness out of that. but at what price? time and energy drained out of life...

hmm I already have my mind made up bruh. Quickly what happened is we used to talk/date and shyt then we stopped. after about a year she started texting me a lot and stuff, showing interest, after i was ignoring her/very small contact cause I felt I didn't want anything to do with her anymore. Then i'm like alright yo fukk it, do you want to hang out when finals are done- she's like yea. so then i ask her last night if she wants to ice skate or w/e,she's like well i have to study for exam all break, work, blah blah.. i'm like so what you're saying is you dont want to hang out anymore, she's like- you're making me sound like a bytch. i'm like you just said you want to hang out before tho. and that's that.

as far as i'm concerned im 100% done with her now, she's a coward. it's not even about getting revenge. i'm just not dealing with this bullshyt. if she text me ever again im gonna just ingore that shyt, dont even care. plus i have other girls who are down to chill. i genuinely liked her the most of out all the girls im talking to though but whatever, her and I aren't going to get past this hurdle.

 

[Shameonyou]

hmm I already have my mind made up bruh. Quickly what happened is we used to talk/date and shyt then we stopped. after about a year she started texting me a lot and stuff, showing interest, after i was ignoring her/very small contact cause I felt I didn't want anything to do with her anymore. Then i'm like alright yo fukk it, do you want to hang out when finals are done- she's like yea. so then i ask her last night if she wants to ice skate or w/e,she's like well i have to study for exam all break, work, blah blah.. i'm like so what you're saying is you dont want to hang out anymore, she's like- you're making me sound like a bytch. i'm like you just said you want to hang out before tho. and that's that.

as far as i'm concerned im 100% done with her now, she's a coward. it's not even about getting revenge. i'm just not dealing with this bullshyt. if she text me ever again im gonna just ingore that shyt, dont even care. plus i have other girls who are down to chill. i genuinely liked her the most of out all the girls im talking to though but whatever, her and I aren't going to get past this hurdle.

how old is this chick?

 

[Medio]

how old is this chick?

20

 

[Shameonyou]

20

too young how old are you?

 

[Medio]

too young how old are you?

too young for what? lol

i don't mind a 20 year old girl, i just turned 24

 

[Shameonyou]

too young for what? lol

i don't mind a 20 year old girl, i just turned 24

shes too young to think rationally...

are u trying to be in a relationship with her? or just smash and dash?

 

[Medio]

shes too young to think rationally...

are u trying to be in a relationship with her? or just smash and dash?

she knows man ... i dont' know i was just wanted to kick it with her and shyt. it's whatever though, shyt's not happening no more lol.

 

[Shameonyou]

she knows man ... i dont' know i was just wanted to kick it with her and shyt. it's whatever though, shyt's not happening no more lol.

she knows what?...yea just keep it movin if you want to deal with cooperation deal with people that are decisive whether its yes or no

 

[The Frozen One]

how many of you have used POF to get hook up?