That's really all I'd advise the dude.[/quote]i feel you but for some reason, i always like to give both sides. almost like he can choose the light side or the darkside of the force, lol
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That's really all I'd advise the dude.[/quote]i feel you but for some reason, i always like to give both sides. almost like he can choose the light side or the darkside of the force, lol
DaRealness
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DaRealness
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That's the common theme from all the stories....the dudes gave these women the sun, moon and stars only for them to catch the woman getting their back blown out by some random dude who hasn't done shyt for them.
A lot of real sad stories in there and I'm really surprised at the amount of dudes pouring out their hearts in that thread. I haven't finished reading the thread yet (on page 17 and I'm feeling my chest twisting in knots just from their horror stories alone - Mr Negative's experience in particular had me
) and I feel like I'm gonna need counselling when I'm done lol. Anyway, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger and sometimes these things have to happen in order for you to learn and become a better person. It will take a phenomenal woman for me to even begin to trust and even then I'm NEVER giving anybody my all.
Plus, who else finds it interesting that most of those stories are actually from males?
But we're the dogs. OK.....
That's the common theme from all the stories....the dudes gave these women the sun, moon and stars only for them to catch the woman getting their back blown out by some random dude who hasn't done shyt for them.
A lot of real sad stories in there and I'm really surprised at the amount of dudes pouring out their hearts in that thread. I haven't finished reading the thread yet (on page 17 and I'm feeling my chest twisting in knots just from their horror stories alone - Mr Negative's experience in particular had me
Anyway, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger and sometimes these things have to happen in order for you to learn and become a better person. It will take a phenomenal woman for me to even begin to trust and even then I'm NEVER giving anybody my all.
Plus, who else finds it interesting that most of those stories are actually from males?
They used to try to clown guys like me and Reincar who were telling dudes to check up on their woman, but they told us it was 'insecure' or how they are so confident so their woman would never do that. Now they see what it is. No free rides when it comes to women. The biggest message a man can learn is it doesn't matter what you DO for a woman. It matters how she 'feels' about you. Staying by her side, paying for this or that, making sure she is taken care of, etc., will all be shucked aside for the guy that makes her feel warm inside. So since you have the knowledge that giving a woman stuff and doing stuff for her won't keep her, don't do it. Only buy gifts for a woman who is yours and has been loyal to you for a while and never just up and give these women money or pay for hair and nails. And never, ever pay for her school. Its important to always make a woman work for hers. No free rides. She has to understand that or get on.
One of the biggest problems we have out here is we always have men that will cater to a woman somehow. Like PUAs will change their whole personality in order that she will 'reward him' with some sex. There's just a point you have to come to realize that the effort isn't worth it and that it's much better to be yourself and a woman that doesn't like it isn't for you. How can you ever find yourself if you are always pretending to be someone else?
even if you do release them as "newsletters", you could always combine them and release them together possibly rewriting them into book form. Are you considering making them available on amazon and B&N as ebooks? Also amazon and some other places have "on demand" printing where physical copies aren't printed until an order is actually placed. that way you as the author don't have to deal with overhead. either way you also need to come up with a good cover as well.
got a dope chick in my inbox.. but she smarter than me
nah but she really got her shyt together..gradaute in 3 years.. gave me her number on the random tip. i can't lose
nah but she really got her shyt together..gradaute in 3 years.. gave me her number on the random tip. i can't lose
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nah but she really got her shyt together..gradaute in 3 years.. gave me her number on the random tip. i can't lose
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
got a dope chick in my inbox.. but she smarter than me
nah but she really got her shyt together..gradaute in 3 years.. gave me her number on the random tip. i can't lose
I'm sure it's been discussed in this thread already but what's the approach on texting chicks that show interest? I'm not one of those dudes that's gonna text a girl multiple times a day, to me that's simp behavior. I try to keep it to a good exchange once every 2-3 days, have some skin in the game without making it seem like i'm glued to my phone just waiting to hear from her
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Have any of you ever had situations were a chick turns you down or disses you because of her friend's opinions or other people's? I've had this happen so many times (even in my adult years). I would always find later down the road that she didn't like me/won't date me because "her friends said this" or "someone told her this and that". Most of you probably can't relate, but that shyt is SO FRUSTRATING AND INFURIATING. It'd be different if the things said were valid/true, but it never was. I mean, how do you defend yourself against that? So your telling me some stupid bytch/punk-ass dude can say any kind of bullshyt about a person; and people are just gonna take it and run with it? I despise that shyt....
Rant over.
Rant over.
TheArchitect
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Personally I'd say your rocking steady if she's showing obvious signs of interest. You probably don't even need to text her anything specific; just establish a date/meet-up time, and take it from there. I find that it's better to show your intentions and place your bid EARLY; that way you don't risk getting friend-zoned and waste a shytload of time....
i'm in the same situation here. I finally got fed up and told her i'm not in it to become text buddies, so are we gonna hang out or not. She said yes if you want to. Stupid me instead of telling her when and where, i told her of course that's why i'm asking. Haven't heard from her since
she texts me here and there casually. It's pissing me off cause i want to meet her but at the same time, she's playing stupid games.
