Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TheArchitect]

i'm in the same situation here. I finally got fed up and told her i'm not in it to become text buddies, so are we gonna hang out or not. She said yes if you want to. Stupid me instead of telling her when and where, i told her of course that's why i'm asking. Haven't heard from her since

she texts me here and there casually. It's pissing me off cause i want to meet her but at the same time, she's playing stupid games.

awww, damn...try establishing something next time she texts. She might not be that put-off by you not setting something up the 1st time if she's still texting you...

 

[kevm3]

I'm sure it's been discussed in this thread already but what's the approach on texting chicks that show interest? I'm not one of those dudes that's gonna text a girl multiple times a day, to me that's simp behavior. I try to keep it to a good exchange once every 2-3 days, have some skin in the game without making it seem like i'm glued to my phone just waiting to hear from her

Play it by ear, but overall that sounds right. You don't want to be one of those text buddies who is hitting her up all day every day... but then again you got to strike while the rod is still hot... meaning you can't play it too cool or she will lose interest.

 

[kevm3]

even if you do release them as "newsletters", you could always combine them and release them together possibly rewriting them into book form. Are you considering making them available on amazon and B&N as ebooks? Also amazon and some other places have "on demand" printing where physical copies aren't printed until an order is actually placed. that way you as the author don't have to deal with overhead. either way you also need to come up with a good cover as well.

I'll put it up on both amazon and barnes and nobles and may sell direct as well. thanks for the suggestions. I'll put up a preview somewhere on here so you can check out what it's all about

 

[Mike Ock]

I'm sure it's been discussed in this thread already but what's the approach on texting chicks that show interest? I'm not one of those dudes that's gonna text a girl multiple times a day, to me that's simp behavior. I try to keep it to a good exchange once every 2-3 days, have some skin in the game without making it seem like i'm glued to my phone just waiting to hear from her

i'm in the same situation here. I finally got fed up and told her i'm not in it to become text buddies, so are we gonna hang out or not. She said yes if you want to. Stupid me instead of telling her when and where, i told her of course that's why i'm asking. Haven't heard from her since

she texts me here and there casually. It's pissing me off cause i want to meet her but at the same time, she's playing stupid games.

why not just give her a call?

 

[Medio]

I'm sure it's been discussed in this thread already but what's the approach on texting chicks that show interest? I'm not one of those dudes that's gonna text a girl multiple times a day, to me that's simp behavior. I try to keep it to a good exchange once every 2-3 days, have some skin in the game without making it seem like i'm glued to my phone just waiting to hear from her

you seem to be doing alright doing what you're doing ..

don't go too long without asking her to meet up, as somebody said before - strike while the irons hot. these hoes change emotions in a second.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

I'm sure it's been discussed in this thread already but what's the approach on texting chicks that show interest? I'm not one of those dudes that's gonna text a girl multiple times a day, to me that's simp behavior. I try to keep it to a good exchange once every 2-3 days, have some skin in the game without making it seem like i'm glued to my phone just waiting to hear from her

its all about tailoring your game to the specified chick,if they like you enough im sure they wouldnt mind you texting everyday.but i would always advise dudes to end the convo when its at its peak leave her wanting more, dont let it drag out until theres nothing to say.

 

[Jahmal]

got a dope chick in my inbox.. but she smarter than me

nah but she really got her shyt together..gradaute in 3 years.. gave me her number on the random tip. i can't lose

She's gonna have you tricking money on dates then friendzone you when you try to get intimate.

 

[kevm3]

I agree with the concept that you always have to leave them wanting more. What makes you go into a restaurant and be willing to pay those high prices for the food? It's because you have a hunger, and the more intense your hunger, the more you are willing to pay. If you aren't hungry, there is little likelihood that you will want to even go to a restaurant in the first place. You might smell the steak sizzling, and that will only increase your hunger. I'm saying this to say that once someone is filled, then they have no motivation to do. A lot of men make the mistake of having these long, drawn out conversations and doing an excessive amount to 'impress' a woman. It's possible to do too much for a woman... just like when you go somewhere and you eat too much... no matter how wonderful the food tasted, you simply don't want to eat for a long while. What would keep you in a state of eating is if you got a bite of a delicious food and had to wait a while before you get another bite. You never are allowed to overindulge, so you stay hungry.What does this mean? It means that it is beneficial to always keep a woman hungry by never overindulging her, whether it be with time spent with you, information about yourself, etc. The moment she gets full is the moment she is no longer hungry.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup.
Women seek validation from their friends.

girl starts dating a guy she likes him, her friends ask so let me see him , oh look at his nose, hes kind of out of shape, he only works in the mailroom? strictly bird brain wolfpack talk.

worst thing most of these trollups are single themselves and dont want their friend in a rleationship

Have any of you ever had situations were a chick turns you down or disses you because of her friend's opinions or other people's? I've had this happen so many times (even in my adult years). I would always find later down the road that she didn't like me/won't date me because "her friends said this" or "someone told her this and that". Most of you probably can't relate, but that shyt is SO FRUSTRATING AND INFURIATING. It'd be different if the things said were valid/true, but it never was. I mean, how do you defend yourself against that? So your telling me some stupid bytch/punk-ass dude can say any kind of bullshyt about a person; and people are just gonna take it and run with it? I despise that shyt....


Rant over.

 

[DaRealness]

Have any of you ever had situations were a chick turns you down or disses you because of her friend's opinions or other people's? I've had this happen so many times (even in my adult years). I would always find later down the road that she didn't like me/won't date me because "her friends said this" or "someone told her this and that". Most of you probably can't relate, but that shyt is SO FRUSTRATING AND INFURIATING. It'd be different if the things said were valid/true, but it never was. I mean, how do you defend yourself against that? So your telling me some stupid bytch/punk-ass dude can say any kind of bullshyt about a person; and people are just gonna take it and run with it? I despise that shyt....


Rant over.

It just simply means the bytch isn't worth fukking with, so she's doing you a favour.

I despise people with the sheep mentality and it shows they're just mentally weak and have no backbone, so you don't need them in your life anyway. Let them continue to listen to the bad mind haters who are probably just envious and don't ever want to see them happy at all, so will just speak any old bullshyt in their ear. This is why I'm wary of women who roam around in cliques.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

In my experience most women are followers. They tend to like whatever their friends like and dislike in the same manner. Other times they just fear questioning or ridicule for something their peers don't consider to be the norm. It is what it is honestly. No sense in really letting it get to you. That's just their nature. Why do you think when you get with a woman and she spends more time with you than her friends she begins to emulate certain aspects of your character? It's the same thing only now you're her main influence not her friends.

 

[Karume]

I'll put it up on both amazon and barnes and nobles and may sell direct as well. thanks for the suggestions. I'll put up a preview somewhere on here so you can check out what it's all about

I can't wait to see the final product. I think you have the potential to do big things!

 

[MikelArteta]

To touch on what kevm said about women Turning cold as ice. I have sewn it one day I love you reincar, I'll die without you, your the greatest guy ever to the next day, I don't love you anymore, f you leave me alone.

Loyalty, honesty are male traits.


I know its q movie but look at pulp fiction.

Butch owed marsellus money. Even though marsellus tried to kill him and butch could have left him getting raped,

But butch remembered he is the one who didn't honor the deal and goes back and saves marcellus .

You can give a man one of your kidneys and he will remember what you did till the day he dies for a woman?

 

[DaRealness]

To touch on what kevm said about women Turning cold as ice. I have sewn it one day I love you reincar, I'll die without you, your the greatest guy ever to the next day, I don't love you anymore, f you leave me alone.

This is why I don't pay attention to people's words, because in my experience the people who say all that shyt are always the first ones to throw you under the bus.

Don't talk about it, be about it.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

got a dope chick in my inbox.. but she smarter than me

nah but she really got her shyt together..gradaute in 3 years.. gave me her number on the random tip. i can't lose

Can’t believe nobody caught this shiit.



Wuh wuh wuh wuh wuh wuh wuh WAIT UP!!!



First and foremost, you need to quit with that self-deprecating, defeatist attitude.

Let me ask you a question, what makes her smarter than you and how do you know that? Because she incorporates quotes from greek philosophizers in her FB wall? She’s currently studying to be a neurosurgeon? She kick-started her own beauty product franchise at the age of 18? Because she’s ambitious, driven and has a terrific head on her shoulders – but stating that she is more cerebral than you is breaking a huge courtship/dating rule. Why?


Because making such a statement is putting her on a pedal stool. If your conscious is telling you that she has superior intellect, your SUBconscious will go into autopilot mode and automatically go into simp mode.


IT doesn’t matter if she is/isn’t. That’s absolutely trivial.


The point is to feel that YOU ARE THE MAN. In every regard of the idea. That what STEEZY represents is absolute quality and exudes pure machismo that is 1 part utterly desirable by all members of the opposite gender and is 2 parts master gentleman and supreme sophisticate with the carnal appeal that a blind beauty alienette of the 3rst dimension can sense from galaxies afar.


You gotta walk in the Def Jam building like YOU THE SHIIT!



Believing in that and acting as such…



Is what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles…




The rocks from fellas.



Now throe that diamond up.




And shine bright.



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