Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rusty Dusty]

Why do women think that dialing it back after giving up the puss so quickly is going to make things any better? I always wondered that. If you gave into your animalistic instincts, then embrace it. Dialing it back only adds complications. Is it a lack of confidence on their part? Or do they fantasy this story book begining? shyt's

Women that lack trust...Scratch that, PEOPLE that lack the trust tend to shy away from vulnerability. Anything that leaves them out their reminds them of a perceived mistake they made in their last ideal situation. Unfortunately they really aren't comfortable with themselves, so you have to watch them because they'll be erratic with their actions.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup the same with like Beyonce. Beyonceis married with a child but her ddemographic is still the single lady, ratchet club goer so she sings that independent, that she's strong doesn't need a man crap etc.

Another thing. Stop watching tv or heavily limit the amount you watch and be very careful about listening to too much RnB where dudes are begging and crying. That stuff gets into your mentality. Jesus said the eyes are the lamp of the body. What you look at will slowly impress itself onto your mind. When you're watching your 'programming' on television, they want to instill a certain mindset into you, and these days, it's that you are inferior to a woman and that you are a goofball to be abused and used up by women. RnB artists sell their music primarily to women, so instead of kicking the real, they tell women what they want to hear and sit around begging and whining to them. You listen to that and you will start getting the notion that acting like that will work... which it won't. You will get the notion that treating women like your together forever buddies will work.. It won't. Television is pure fantasy, often concocted from the minds of other males. Television depicts how a man would LIKE for a woman to be, and not reality. Acting like a nervous, goofy dude will not end up with the ladies loving you like in television... but you keep watching tv and you will start to get a lot of wrong notions because television replicates reality to an extent, so your mind starts to think that if you undertake x action like on television, you will also get x reward like on tv. Not so.

Sitting around being soft, telling women your problems and expecting them to act like your homies with reciprocated loyalty and all of that is a no no. Women don't operate based on what you do for them. It's all about your perceived value and how they feel when they are around you. You don't have to take them out to these expensive dinners or do all of that. We grew up in a generation where so many people are getting brainwashed, so many of us missed out on the proper way to interact with females. Like I said before, do NOT treat them like your buddies and get to chatting with them all night and being overly friendly. "Hanging out" with a woman all night is the wrong way to go. Hoping a woman shares 'common interests' with you and appreciates you for what you are truly into is fantasy. What women really appreciate is your vibe. That's why women do more for men they know little to nothing about compared to the guy that does everything for them. When you are nonthirsty and mysterious, you give off a vibe they like much more than when you are always there and always does what she wants. If a woman doesn't like your vibe or gets tired of it, that's when she gets ghost or all these problems magically start popping up.

 

[Bless't]

Great thread fellas. Gems EVERYWHERE in here.

 

[BreezyH]

i've been in those positions and you are correct. the funny thing is you do all this back breaking ish for a broad and some other dude who does nothing is the one whose getting her best.

You help out a broad with her rent or whatever, its some other dude whose spending the night. You help her fix her computer, its some other dude shes skyping with, or chatting on pof with.

It's sad but rarely will you find a woman who appreciates your kindness or generosity,.

I have no problem with helping out soemone in need but like i've said before you can help out a man no homo and he will remember that till the day he dies, you can help out a woman and its eh nothing.

the things ive done in my life out of kindess not expecting sex, a kiss nothing a thanks would be nice but rarely did i even get that, and its sad that a few bad apples have turned me off from ever helping out a women again but ah well.

this is the key difference between men and women.
as logical thinkers, men think that "A" actions garners "A" result ie. "if I take her out, pay, get her a gift, send a good morning text, pick up her vitamins from the store, soon Ima be in there!"

women for the most part think that letting you perform these tasks, do these favors, provide these gifts is generous on their end.

don't ever execute nothing with a woman with the mindset of "this combination of things will get me play" because all you've done is give a carrot to dangle in front of you.

do the things that you want, that don't hurt ya pockets or self-respect and the right women will choose you.

 

[BreezyH]

Yup the same with like Beyonce. Beyonceis married with a child but her ddemographic is still the single lady, ratchet club goer so she sings that independent, that she's strong doesn't need a man crap etc.

yup, the visual i always image in beyonce sitting on jay's lap in the studio writing these single girl anthems and them just laughing their asses off...but then i remember that beyonce aint writing these songs in the first place

 

[MikelArteta]

I agree, sad thing is I didn't even want play I'm just a kind person. If someone is struggling regardless of gender I'll help out. Its just the little things that females do that makes me not even want to help them out at all.

Like example I drive someone to work every morning its on my way, I get like 10 dollars a week just as a small token of thanks for gas money.

Now if its a woman your lucky to get a thanks, your sick a day of work and your expected to still drive them

I've had this happened to me before its just the little things .

Most women are unappreciative as hell.

this is the key difference between men and women.
as logical thinkers, men think that "A" actions garners "A" result ie. "if I take her out, pay, get her a gift, send a good morning text, pick up her vitamins from the store, soon Ima be in there!"

women for the most part think that letting you perform these tasks, do these favors, provide these gifts is generous on their end.

don't ever execute nothing with a woman with the mindset of "this combination of things will get me play" because all you've done is give a carrot to dangle in front of you.

do the things that you want, that don't hurt ya pockets or self-respect and the right women will choose you.

 

[BreezyH]

I agree, sad thing is I didn't even want play I'm just a kind person. If someone is struggling regardless of gender I'll help out. Its just the little things that females do that makes me not even want to help them out at all.

Like example I drive someone to work every morning its on my way, I get like 10 dollars a week just as a small token of thanks for gas money.

Now if its a woman your lucky to get a thanks, your sick a day of work and your expected to still drive them

I've had this happened to me before its just the little things .

Most women are unappreciative as hell.

man trust me im in the same boat. even right now, at work there's this chick, im young enough to be her son, she not attractive to me, but every month or so she can guilt me into buying her a little 75 cent cookie from the pantry store we have in the building. as im doing it, i'm like, "im a nice guy, why not" but everytime she gives me a little smile, and starts talking in that baby voice (yall know EXACTLY what i'm talking about) I feel like she feels she "got me". and do you think, ole girl every has brought something to my desk besides a convo?


watch how when i stop, it'll be "you've changed". i'm not tripping cause it aint no real paper and i'm up there anyway getting coffee or something, but eliminating little stuff like that keeps you sharp

 

[Turbulent]

major late pass for this but have y'all seen the movie Dogville?

 

[DaRealness]

major late pass for this but have y'all seen the movie Dogville?

I haven't, but what about it?

 

[Turbulent]

I haven't, but what about it?

watched it today. crazy movie and it's everything we've been talking about and more. the story is like a parable. it's filmed like a play with very minimalistic settings and about 3 hours but there's a lot of knowledge dropped in it about game and human nature. crazy movie and i thought i would hate it because of the way it was made.

 

[DaRealness]

watched it today. crazy movie and it's everything we've been talking about and more. the story is like a parable. it's filmed like a play with very minimalistic settings and about 3 hours but there's a lot of knowledge dropped in it about game and human nature. crazy movie and i thought i would hate it because of the way it was made.

Might check out.

 

[jjj123]

men, 2yrs...the shyt i found out on her, all the lies

im good though, i had serius feelings/saw multiple red flags just needed solid evidence

that keylogger is somethin serious

i will keep this simple. ive come to learn, under no circumstances, are you to do anything, and i mean anything for them, do not love them, do not trust them, do not anything. fukk and dump. unless you see something spectacular, but ive found out, in the end its a trap.

im good and i just cut her, just gotta loose the emotions over what i found out no biggie...

but get into relationships if you want to brehs, but relationships ARE A WOMANS GAME, do not fall victim...its a trap! do not do any favors for her, its a trap!

 

[jjj123]

male friends = attention whore

 

[Medio]

men, 2yrs...the shyt i found out on her, all the lies

im good though, i had serius feelings/saw multiple red flags just needed solid evidence

that keylogger is somethin serious

i will keep this simple. ive come to learn, under no circumstances, are you to do anything, and i mean anything for them, do not love them, do not trust them, do not anything. fukk and dump. unless you see something spectacular, but ive found out, in the end its a trap.

im good and i just cut her, just gotta loose the emotions over what i found out no biggie...

but get into relationships if you want to brehs, but relationships ARE A WOMANS GAME, do not fall victim...its a trap! do not do any favors for her, its a trap!

you put keylogger on her laptop?

 

[MikelArteta]

Been there.
The secret Facebook, long emails to the ex, lies to my face even with the evidence . the I love you reincar then a minute later writing a email how you fd me so good.

Keyloggers

men, 2yrs...the shyt i found out on her, all the lies

im good though, i had serius feelings/saw multiple red flags just needed solid evidence

that keylogger is somethin serious

i will keep this simple. ive come to learn, under no circumstances, are you to do anything, and i mean anything for them, do not love them, do not trust them, do not anything. fukk and dump. unless you see something spectacular, but ive found out, in the end its a trap.

im good and i just cut her, just gotta loose the emotions over what i found out no biggie...

but get into relationships if you want to brehs, but relationships ARE A WOMANS GAME, do not fall victim...its a trap! do not do any favors for her, its a trap!