my laptop homes, she was on fb at my crib, and i remember reading someone saying on the coli, if shes fooling you the evidence will be either on fb or txt messages 100%. caught her ass, and like a narssacistic psychopath all 97% of women are she tried denying shyt she wrote other people wrote like im making up a story. ok and Cee.U.Next.Time
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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actually it was you who i saw the post about the keyloggers lol, i went digging and found a solid one for free. dave chappelled her ass with the GOTCHA bytchBeen there.
The secret Facebook, long emails to the ex, lies to my face even with the evidence . the I love you reincar then a minute later writing a email how you fd me so good.
Keyloggers
, there is a old quote trust but verify and that's what I follow.Thanks to a key logger I stayed ahead of the game, it really shows you how much of a liar women are. In your face that they love you, treating you good thinking everything is going great. But just have a look at her email thy second Facebook that twitter DM and tour heart will drop to your knees. I did everything right while her ex abused her, called her names, cheated on her but she gave that loser more respect than me.
Bahah reminds me of that chick she was sending lewd fb messages then lied when confronted how it was her friend just playing a game to see if he was still interested 
worst part, i told the hoe multiple times, you dont have to lie just tell me the truth even if it will hurt. she didnt listen and i had to find out for myself. i took the car and junked it on her ass that very morning, no phone, lost job cause i junked the car. good luck you definetly dont deserve it. i cant wait for karma to rip her ass open.
guys i propose something. lets make a Red Flag Blueprint. post ur experiences sure, but lets try to drop some clear simple knowledge for some pages.
Red Flag #1: She wasnt raised in a strong 2 parent household and even if so, the parents are no longer together
Red Flag #1: She wasnt raised in a strong 2 parent household and even if so, the parents are no longer together
EQ.
Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
So i'm reading y'all talk about using key loggers and shyt. Question, after you broke up with a chik…do you feel it was beneficial to use the key logger after y'all were done?
I admit, with the ex living with me she left fb and email on auto log-in on my computer. I went thru her shyt for like a week and saw nothing. We broke up because of distance, but I still felt the need to go thru her shyt. After a week and finding nothing, I just stopped doing it. I didn't feel it was any need for me to find out what she would be doing romantic-wise in the future, had I kept checking it.
I admit, with the ex living with me she left fb and email on auto log-in on my computer. I went thru her shyt for like a week and saw nothing. We broke up because of distance, but I still felt the need to go thru her shyt. After a week and finding nothing, I just stopped doing it. I didn't feel it was any need for me to find out what she would be doing romantic-wise in the future, had I kept checking it.
Them simps would tell you, "Man you need to be confident and trust yo woman. Don't ever go through her phone or check up on her." Knowing how women get down these days, occasionally seeing what she's doing when you're not around can save you from raising another man's baby or getting trapped into financial slavery by a traitor. It's funny how so many guys will say they are some kind of playa on one hand and sleep with other guy's girls on a regular, but somehow their own woman doesn't do all that because they feel they got some knid of swag.
Now if you broke up with a woman, then there's no need to check up on her. Cut her out and keep it moving.
Now if you broke up with a woman, then there's no need to check up on her. Cut her out and keep it moving.
yeah, I was talking after the break up. That's when I went thru my ex's shyt for a week. For those who used it after a break up and found something, did they feel it benefited them more or give them more anger towards the girl. Was it worth it?
A fundamental attitude you have to start developing is, "I'm going to enjoy myself and you're invited along, but I'll have fun regardless of whether you come or not." A lot of men have the attitude of, "Where should I take her? Where do the ladies like to go?" Stop giving women all this power to make and break you and stop trying to read her mind. It's not about the 'destination' with the woman. It's more about the fact that she's allowed to be out with YOU. A woman that really likes you doesn't care where you take her as long as she gets to spend time with you. Stop trying to impress these women. When you try to impress someone, you are coming into the door and giving her the impression that you are 'lower value' and you need to offer her something other than yourself in order to raise your value enough for her to deal with you. When you sell yourself like that, how do you expect women to treat you? When you go out, think of what YOU'D like to do and what's fun to you and invite her out to 'spend time with you.' Don't come with the attitude of trying to impress her and trying to figure out what she'd like. The gift to her isn't taking her out to some venue, but rather her getting to spend time with you.
The only way you can develop confidence is if you are firm in YOUR tastes and opinions and you act based upon that. You won't ever be confident if you are trying to play mind reader and if you are constantly seeking validation from a woman. Now when you've bee with a woman for a while, you can ask her now and then where she'd like to go, but more times than not, especially initially, YOU have to make the choice.
The only way you can develop confidence is if you are firm in YOUR tastes and opinions and you act based upon that. You won't ever be confident if you are trying to play mind reader and if you are constantly seeking validation from a woman. Now when you've bee with a woman for a while, you can ask her now and then where she'd like to go, but more times than not, especially initially, YOU have to make the choice.
Honestly, if you've broken up with her, it's best to leave it alone, because anything you find if you do find anything will only make you extremely angry, and it won't necessarily help you move on, but it will get you in a mindset where you want to get revenge.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
It's only Mr Super Simp on this forum and a few others who spout bullshyt like that.
People fail to realise that a certain lack of trust is actually a good thing and very necessary. No one or nothing should ever really be 100% trusted, hell, why do you think there's security cameras all over the place in department stores and places of employment and shyt lol. People change, people betray, people stab you in the back. As time goes on, yes, you can trust an individual more bit by bit, but straight off the bat is just stupid and naive. A nice looking smile and soft voice doesn't mean shyt.
People fail to realise that a certain lack of trust is actually a good thing and very necessary. No one or nothing should ever really be 100% trusted, hell, why do you think there's security cameras all over the place in department stores and places of employment and shyt lol. People change, people betray, people stab you in the back. As time goes on, yes, you can trust an individual more bit by bit, but straight off the bat is just stupid and naive. A nice looking smile and soft voice doesn't mean shyt.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
This is the kind of women you attract when you're a simp and too nice and I'm gonna keep highlighting shyt like this til I'm blue in the face:
My estranged wife is so nasty and spiteful.
She’s determined to make our divorce as difficult and toxic as possible.
Everything I suggest is met with a wall of insults and hostility.
I’ve offered her half of the house, a lump sum, the car and various goods, but she keeps saying that she wants everything and that she’s determined to squeeze me “until the pips squeak”.
I keep warning her that the lawyers will end up with everything if we’re not careful but her vindictiveness and bloody-mindedness over-ride her common sense.
I very reluctantly told her that I wanted to part last summer. I’ve never considered myself a quitter and when I married her, I was determined to stick by her side for life.
But things haven’t turned out as I would have liked. Far from being a loving, caring wife, she’s been tricky and hurtful from the get-go.
She had two affairs in our first year of marriage alone. Then she secretly spent £5,000 on clothes and another £4,000 on a gambling website. Things came to a head when I discovered that she was sleeping with my ex-boss and she blamed me for being “lame” in bed.
I left that night and by the morning she’d thrown every single item of mine on to the front lawn – clothes, records, shoes, books and toiletries were either completely ruined or stolen. She laughed when I cried and told her how upset I was.
Again she called me weak and pathetic and vowed to ruin me. Well, she’s certainly giving that threat her best shot. I’ve just had another letter from her solicitor demanding more cash and I’m losing the will to live.
Now read the response:
JANE SAYS: There’s no doubt that you made a huge mistake when you married your cruel and vindictive wife but there’s no point in looking back now.
What you have to do is stay strong and focus on getting through this horrible divorce and planning for the future.
What you can’t do is allow her to rob you of every shred of confidence and self-work you still retain.
Tell her today that no matter how clever she thinks she is that she’s not above the law. She can’t draw this divorce out for ever and one day (soon, hopefully) you’ll both be free to start again.
I get the impression that she’s always been contemptuous of you because you’re too reasonable and too nice. Something of a pushover, even? You turned a blind eye to the two affairs she conducted in the first year of your marriage and even let her get away with massive overspending.
It was only when you flipped over your ex-boss that you walked out and even then she got her childish revenge by trashing your stuff.
Maybe it’s time for you to really man up and show her that you’re a force to be reckoned with.
Make sure that you’ve got the best and toughest solicitor you can afford and start showing your teeth.
See what I'm talking about? Women HATE AND DESPISE men like this. I'm sure this same dude was a simp who saw the signs from day one but chose to ignore them and instead spent a whole bunch of money on her from the get go, chauffering her around, telling her all his business and letting her boss and backchat him around while he thought he could change and tame her. Women simply don't have a sense of honour. Go through the thread 'how did you find out your girl cheated' and look at the patterns in all the stories. It was always the guys who gave their women leeway and moved heaven and earth for them, only to come home and catch her with some rag-tag, no job having dusty ass canerow head dude tearing it up in their bed.
Then you got these manginas in that other hot topic thread talking about: **weak ass, low testosterone voice** "I-I-I-I don't want a submissive woman or pet, I want an equal......a-a-a-and who's to say a man is worthy of having a submissive woman in the first place when men (except myself and fellow simps) aren't worthy". fukking R&B, Ralph Transvestite-ass dudes. You never see these types anywhere surrounded by women and getting any play - tell me I'm lying? The most they ever get is "awwwww", that's it. Women may "like" nice guys like them, but they RESPECT men with balls and testosterone who manage to emit pheremones. When you exercise manhood, these fakkit ass dudes are always the ones to call you out as being brutish or "insecure and emasculated". Then you got those other dudes on this board who always laugh at another man's L as if they're immune to the same shyt happening to them or worse.
I used to think the men who had a somewhat a$$hole-ish attitude to women were the bad guys and thought they were just ignorant and immature, but now that I'm older and wiser, I realise these men simply had the right idea. Of course, I'm not talking about men who are outright cruel and abusive physically and verbally. but let's face it, then men who are the a$$holes are the ones who always get chicks.
You have to stop doing these women favours and turn down their requests. They either like the things that you like, or they don't. Simple as that. If you're into Go Kart racing, tell them they can come watch you on the track for 45 minutes then chill afterwards. Get #HOH for 2014 with no exception. Some might say, well doesn't that make a woman apprehensive to ask you favours or suggest anything? My answer to that is, so what?
When you start a new job you really like and want to hold on to, you don't go asking your manager for days pff or favours, or a payrise and more responsibilities three weeks into it. You know better than to get presumptuous. Likewise in a relationship; naturally as a man, you do a bit more for the woman as time goes by as she proves herself more and more. A REAL MAN - the kind these cape wearing manginas think they are - wouldn't be doing bullshyt like driving across town to her house in the middle of the night to comfort her because she thought she saw a mouse in her kitchen and bullshyt like that or give her money for a supposed "girl's night out".
Just like how all the airports around the world have gotten harder on all flyers post 9-11, get harder on women post waking-the-fukk-up and learning gems from yours and other people's experiences. So what if a few women get hurt feelings along the way? They don't give a fukk about YOU when they throw you under the bus after you've served your purpose. Airports don't give a fukk when a few passengers complain about having to take their shoes off or getting bodily scans. Likewise, know that you're doing this to sift out potential emotional terrorists like the woman in the article. fukk what the manginas have to say. Let them get hurt by the same women they're so eager to get daps from so they can see the light too - if ever.
My estranged wife is so nasty and spiteful.
She’s determined to make our divorce as difficult and toxic as possible.
Everything I suggest is met with a wall of insults and hostility.
I’ve offered her half of the house, a lump sum, the car and various goods, but she keeps saying that she wants everything and that she’s determined to squeeze me “until the pips squeak”.
I keep warning her that the lawyers will end up with everything if we’re not careful but her vindictiveness and bloody-mindedness over-ride her common sense.
I very reluctantly told her that I wanted to part last summer. I’ve never considered myself a quitter and when I married her, I was determined to stick by her side for life.
But things haven’t turned out as I would have liked. Far from being a loving, caring wife, she’s been tricky and hurtful from the get-go.
She had two affairs in our first year of marriage alone. Then she secretly spent £5,000 on clothes and another £4,000 on a gambling website. Things came to a head when I discovered that she was sleeping with my ex-boss and she blamed me for being “lame” in bed.
I left that night and by the morning she’d thrown every single item of mine on to the front lawn – clothes, records, shoes, books and toiletries were either completely ruined or stolen. She laughed when I cried and told her how upset I was.
Again she called me weak and pathetic and vowed to ruin me. Well, she’s certainly giving that threat her best shot. I’ve just had another letter from her solicitor demanding more cash and I’m losing the will to live.
Now read the response:
JANE SAYS: There’s no doubt that you made a huge mistake when you married your cruel and vindictive wife but there’s no point in looking back now.
What you have to do is stay strong and focus on getting through this horrible divorce and planning for the future.
What you can’t do is allow her to rob you of every shred of confidence and self-work you still retain.
Tell her today that no matter how clever she thinks she is that she’s not above the law. She can’t draw this divorce out for ever and one day (soon, hopefully) you’ll both be free to start again.
I get the impression that she’s always been contemptuous of you because you’re too reasonable and too nice. Something of a pushover, even? You turned a blind eye to the two affairs she conducted in the first year of your marriage and even let her get away with massive overspending.
It was only when you flipped over your ex-boss that you walked out and even then she got her childish revenge by trashing your stuff.
Maybe it’s time for you to really man up and show her that you’re a force to be reckoned with.
Make sure that you’ve got the best and toughest solicitor you can afford and start showing your teeth.
See what I'm talking about? Women HATE AND DESPISE men like this. I'm sure this same dude was a simp who saw the signs from day one but chose to ignore them and instead spent a whole bunch of money on her from the get go, chauffering her around, telling her all his business and letting her boss and backchat him around while he thought he could change and tame her. Women simply don't have a sense of honour. Go through the thread 'how did you find out your girl cheated' and look at the patterns in all the stories. It was always the guys who gave their women leeway and moved heaven and earth for them, only to come home and catch her with some rag-tag, no job having dusty ass canerow head dude tearing it up in their bed.
Then you got these manginas in that other hot topic thread talking about: **weak ass, low testosterone voice** "I-I-I-I don't want a submissive woman or pet, I want an equal......a-a-a-and who's to say a man is worthy of having a submissive woman in the first place when men (except myself and fellow simps) aren't worthy". fukking R&B, Ralph Transvestite-ass dudes. You never see these types anywhere surrounded by women and getting any play - tell me I'm lying? The most they ever get is "awwwww", that's it. Women may "like" nice guys like them, but they RESPECT men with balls and testosterone who manage to emit pheremones. When you exercise manhood, these fakkit ass dudes are always the ones to call you out as being brutish or "insecure and emasculated". Then you got those other dudes on this board who always laugh at another man's L as if they're immune to the same shyt happening to them or worse.
I used to think the men who had a somewhat a$$hole-ish attitude to women were the bad guys and thought they were just ignorant and immature, but now that I'm older and wiser, I realise these men simply had the right idea. Of course, I'm not talking about men who are outright cruel and abusive physically and verbally. but let's face it, then men who are the a$$holes are the ones who always get chicks.
You have to stop doing these women favours and turn down their requests. They either like the things that you like, or they don't. Simple as that. If you're into Go Kart racing, tell them they can come watch you on the track for 45 minutes then chill afterwards. Get #HOH for 2014 with no exception. Some might say, well doesn't that make a woman apprehensive to ask you favours or suggest anything? My answer to that is, so what?
When you start a new job you really like and want to hold on to, you don't go asking your manager for days pff or favours, or a payrise and more responsibilities three weeks into it. You know better than to get presumptuous. Likewise in a relationship; naturally as a man, you do a bit more for the woman as time goes by as she proves herself more and more. A REAL MAN - the kind these cape wearing manginas think they are - wouldn't be doing bullshyt like driving across town to her house in the middle of the night to comfort her because she thought she saw a mouse in her kitchen and bullshyt like that or give her money for a supposed "girl's night out".Just like how all the airports around the world have gotten harder on all flyers post 9-11, get harder on women post waking-the-fukk-up and learning gems from yours and other people's experiences. So what if a few women get hurt feelings along the way? They don't give a fukk about YOU when they throw you under the bus after you've served your purpose. Airports don't give a fukk when a few passengers complain about having to take their shoes off or getting bodily scans. Likewise, know that you're doing this to sift out potential emotional terrorists like the woman in the article. fukk what the manginas have to say. Let them get hurt by the same women they're so eager to get daps from so they can see the light too - if ever.