Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Two Stacks]

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/360577/Just-Jane-Is-my-girl-just-a-gold-digger-

I DON'T know where I stand with my girlfriend.

We’ve been seeing each other for the past two years but I’m not sure if it’s me or my money that she loves.

When we first met she was always complaining that she was living with her parents and didn’t earn enough money for her own place.

I suggested that she move in with me, but she said it was too soon, so I told her I’d pay for her rent.

She found a flat and I thought that after six months or so she would move her stuff to my house.

But it’s never happened.

And she’s become distant with me.

Unhappy

When I go to see her I don’t even know if I’m staying overnight any more, which I used to do about four nights a week.

Now she mostly says that she’s got a headache or has to get up early and she expects me to go home.

Sometimes when I drop round in the evening she’s not even there and a couple of times she’s had friends round and has asked me to leave.

When I’ve tried to talk to her about how unhappy and used she’s making me feel she gives me a massive kiss and we always end up having wild sex.

Then she’s fine and I start to question how I could have doubted her. But after a couple of weeks she’s back to not letting me stay and always being out when I call round.

I do love her and I don’t want to split up with her, but I thought that she wanted to be with me and now I am starting to wonder if she’s only with me because she’s a gold-digger.


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When are these dudes ever gonna learn?

You just met a chick and you're regularly paying her rent?

@ her telling him to GTFO when she has friends round.

Paying RENT for a bytch? And then she say get out?! bytch, that's MY HOUSE.

 

[CrossBones]

Brehs its so hard

On one side the dime chick, with the 2,000 followers, loves attention, her body

On the other side , the , not that attractive but a heart of gold , doesn't even do social media, a little overweight, is into me like crazy.

I know lookwise ive always done better not bragging but I've dated models and not club booty models, hell my ex fiancé looked like Anna kournikova but with bigger boobs.

come on, bruh. I dont even wanna hear that. that doesnt even sound right at all. this is a test. I have seen you write how you dont even like when women be on social media like that. how you like it when you go overseas and you find that people dont even use that crap at all. about how youve had model chicks before, and they had little to offer besides ass and really werent all they were cracked up to be. then youd go on about how much youd perfer yourself a more stable, grounded woman with a good heart, who isnt into putting her body up on front street for a social media community, and is all into you. the dime chick, well all I see is that you said she looks good. thats all that came to mind when you brought her up

on one hand you have a sexy thing with her head in the clouds, her ass all over social media, and her attention whoring ways on front street for you to see, and on the other, well pretty much what youve asked for in a companion. a heart of gold, no attention whoring, and is into you. a genuine opportunity for you. now that doesnt mean shes perfect, but from what youre telling us and going by your word, shes more aligned to you and your requirements

you know how it is in this life when youre getting tested. youre a believer in God. now you can say that you want one thing and not the other, but when its presented to you in such a fashion, then the only thing you should do is stand on your word and be about it. show it to yourself that youre not just paying lip service when you talk and that a woman with only a nice ass to offer isnt your end all and be all. she sounds like nothing but grief, honestly. the other is more promising. you know what you should do. your principles still have to count for something.

 

[DaRealness]

@His_Excellence_Reincar

One day that dime chick will look no better than the other chick. The other chick who doesn't do social media can always lose weight. What I would do is encourage her to come to the gym with me. That's what I did with my ex.

We both believe in God (albeit in different ways) but maybe this is the woman being sent to you. As I'm getting older, a woman's heart and personality is starting to supersede good looks, but obviously you have to have some sort of physical attraction. They can always do something about, but a broad with a narcissist state of mind gets the bushes, I don't care how fine she is.

At least give it a shot.....heck you're lucky you even found one. Some of the ones I've encountered so far this new year are

 

[MikelArteta]

I needed this breh

@His_Excellence_Reincar

One day that dime chick will look no better than the other chick. The other chick who doesn't do social media can always lose weight. What I would do is encourage her to come to the gym with me. That's what I did with my ex.

We both believe in God (albeit in different ways) but maybe this is the woman being sent to you. As I'm getting older, a woman's heart and personality is starting to supersede good looks, but obviously you have to have some sort of physical attraction. They can always do something about, but a broad with a narcissist state of mind gets the bushes, I don't care how fine she is.

At least give it a shot.....heck you're lucky you even found one. Some of the ones I've encountered so far this new year are

 

[kevm3]

That's always the dilemma. That primal man wants that super bad woman. The sensible man thinks about giving the less pretty woman the chance.

 

[CrossBones]

This is why I think every man should at some point in his life practice celibacy/abstinence and fasting. It helps you build mental, spiritual, emotional and physical discipline whatever your spiritual/religious beliefs may be. It's like that 90 day no fap thread. Dudes who may have been habitual masturbators took the challenge on and have described the numerous benefits and how it's helped them to have more self respect, clarity and mental focus.

I think for a lot of us as we get older we become more anxious about finding the right woman and worrying about sifting through all the bullshyt out there to get to the right one, but anxiety never brings results. It's better to just let things flow and see where life takes you with or without a woman....

one thing I like about this thread is that every now and then, everybody can do with an outsiders perspective. to get the opportunity to heed when theres good advice. because you see, its one thing to have answers for someone else when they come to you with an issue, but its almost a whole different ballgame when youre the one in a tight situation. typically the answers dont come so easily. Ive been there a few times, when youre alone and having trouble seeing what you should do. a lot of times it pays to listen to an outsiders perspective, because it can remove you from the urgency that your situation is bringing to you. that urgency which is causing you to jam up and not see everything honestly. looking at things from anothers perspective can help you see what makes the most sense. in the end your decision is still up to you, but it helps at times to be somewhat withdrawn and detached to see whats best for you.

this happens with everybody, and Ive personally learned a lot through listening to others. sometimes it was even some basic advice, but it worked out great. I couldnt always see it at first because I was too deep in my own situation.

the other alternative I believe, is for fasting. if you cant get what you need from someone else, then you have to honestly look within yourself. you need to learn how to draw strength from inside. whats good about fasting is that you get to find that discipline, and to step back from this anxiety of being caught up in the moment. youre pretty much building a toughness and understanding for what youre capable of. you get better control over stress and your urges. you also get to look at yourself through more of a withdrawn perspective. youre effectively taking yourself out of the routines that we normally follow, and thus changing your perspective. you can actually build a stronger relationship with the things that are really important in your life by fasting.

it builds strength, and is also a good opportunity for a break. even the best athletes, coaches, and business men need a break every now and then. you cant be in something for 24/7 your whole life. once you tame yourself from the urgency of your hungers, you can really afford yourself the opportunity to look at things from a more pulled back and trained eye

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Yea every man wants prettiest woman but sometimes you gotta want substance.Prettiest woman have most baggage and flaws.

 

[TheArchitect]

Have any of you dated/currently dated a woman from a foreign country? How much difference would you say they are form Americans? I sincerely feel that if I EVER...EVER....evereverevereverEVER were to get married/start a fam, my wife's native language more than likely will NOT be English....

 

[kevm3]

real talk, them model type women ain't nothing but a headache. if you notice all the playa type dudes who knocked 'em end up with a 7 or so. They learn pretty is as pretty does. Once you get tired of the looks and the mystique of 'being with a dime' is dispelled, you learn pretty ain't everything. A lot of us go after these bad broads for the mystique or for the ego pump, but we miss out on the ones that are great for us in the long-term.

 

[kevm3]

Have any of you dated/currently dated a woman from a foreign country? How much difference would you say they are form Americans? I sincerely feel that if I EVER...EVER....evereverevereverEVER were to get married/start a fam, my wife's native language more than likely will NOT be English....

I was in the islands. Ain't no woman there perfect, but the difference is women in some of these other places aren't afraid to be women. They don't try to be pseudo men like they are here. Travel man and you'll see the difference.

 

[DaRealness]

Have any of you dated/currently dated a woman from a foreign country? How much difference would you say they are form Americans? I sincerely feel that if I EVER...EVER....evereverevereverEVER were to get married/start a fam, my wife's native language more than likely will NOT be English....

I haven't, but I have a strong feeling my next wife will be a foreign woman too. I'm just sick and tired of western chicks for the most part.

 

[DaRealness]

Have any of you dated/currently dated a woman from a foreign country? How much difference would you say they are form Americans? I sincerely feel that if I EVER...EVER....evereverevereverEVER were to get married/start a fam, my wife's native language more than likely will NOT be English....

I posted this video over a year ago in this thread, but once you go to different countries and see the femininity and grace of a lot of women, it's pretty hard to look at a lot of the chicks we encounter in the west. Long dresses, twirling their hair, the way they just move so womanly.....how often do you see that where you are? My point exactly.

 

[Medio]

Have any of you dated/currently dated a woman from a foreign country? How much difference would you say they are form Americans? I sincerely feel that if I EVER...EVER....evereverevereverEVER were to get married/start a fam, my wife's native language more than likely will NOT be English....

better, less games.

 

[DaRealness]

GMB

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/360694/My-wife-lives-it-up-as-if-she-is-a-single-woman
MY new wife is still acting like a single woman.

I literally have to book a date if I want to take her out. She scrolls through her personal planner until she finds a free spot. Sometimes I have to wait up to a week because she’s so busy with work, family and friends.

When I complain that I’m not a priority, she claims that she doesn’t know what I’m talking about. She points out that she’s busy, popular and successful and that I need to be patient.

But surely, I should be the most important person in her life? Surely she should be prepared to drop Ann from primary school or Susan from the youth club if I fancy a spot of dinner?

We only married last June. I’m not completely unrealistic, I know that the heady romance doesn’t necessarily last for ever, but a bit of consideration would be nice.

The other thing is that she plays games with me. If she’s feeling tricky then she’ll play hard-to-get and not return my calls or tell me when she’s coming home. I just find this infuriating and so insulting.

Recently, I got some free tickets to a concert from a colleague. I desperately needed to get hold of her in order to find out if she was interested. I called and texted 10 times before she finally got round to replying. Her excuse? She was out drinking with her boss and didn’t want him to think that she was a “boring housewife”.

How does answering the phone to her husband make her that?

Friends tell me that she always takes off her wedding ring when she’s out clubbing with mates. I don’t understand. Just what is she playing at?


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Already crossing the line with humiliation and mind games and it hasn't even been a year? She's undoubtedly fukking other dudes too.

Nah, I'd be serving divorce papers and toss the bytch straight to the bushes.

 

[mamba]

GMB

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/360694/My-wife-lives-it-up-as-if-she-is-a-single-woman
MY new wife is still acting like a single woman.

I literally have to book a date if I want to take her out. She scrolls through her personal planner until she finds a free spot. Sometimes I have to wait up to a week because she’s so busy with work, family and friends.

When I complain that I’m not a priority, she claims that she doesn’t know what I’m talking about. She points out that she’s busy, popular and successful and that I need to be patient.

But surely, I should be the most important person in her life? Surely she should be prepared to drop Ann from primary school or Susan from the youth club if I fancy a spot of dinner?

We only married last June. I’m not completely unrealistic, I know that the heady romance doesn’t necessarily last for ever, but a bit of consideration would be nice.

The other thing is that she plays games with me. If she’s feeling tricky then she’ll play hard-to-get and not return my calls or tell me when she’s coming home. I just find this infuriating and so insulting.

Recently, I got some free tickets to a concert from a colleague. I desperately needed to get hold of her in order to find out if she was interested. I called and texted 10 times before she finally got round to replying. Her excuse? She was out drinking with her boss and didn’t want him to think that she was a “boring housewife”.

How does answering the phone to her husband make her that?

Friends tell me that she always takes off her wedding ring when she’s out clubbing with mates. I don’t understand. Just what is she playing at?


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Already crossing the line with humiliation and mind games and it hasn't even been a year? She's undoubtedly fukking other dudes too.

Nah, I'd be serving divorce papers and toss the bytch straight to the bushes.

Wow. What did I just read? The dude in the article has to be trolling. Please tell me he's trolling.