Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

kevm3

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one thing ive noticed the past 3 relationships I have, all those chicks are now married. And married the dude they got with after me, i was basically the one to "fix them", give them "self esteem", show them how a guy should treat their demonic toxic selves and then someone else got the finished product.

DON'T BE THAT GUY, be the guy with the finished product.

Don't be the stunt man who takes all the bumps, but doesn't get the glory

pretty much. women don't want a problem solver

they want a man to be 'the problem' aka entertainment aka they are in the cycle of constantly trying to get him to change but he never does

a man who has it together naturally just wants to help elevate a woman and improve her life, but she won't appreciate that. What you DO do is tell her how she needs to act around you...
 
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just gave a chick the :camby: i been messing with for on and off for about a year now, of course she was a single mom.


im glad i dont have to deal with that shyt anymore :manny: way too many red flags, i only really kept her around because she started working out and lost alot of weight, and she held me down in a few financial situations but she started to feel herself a bit too much and got too comfortable with doing certain shyt i wasnt feeling so i deaded that situation quick, plus she was a few years younger than me.

i actually feel much better now brehs :blessed:fukk that hoe, all im gonna focus on now is bettering myself and hitting the gym for right now.


i gave my other 3 side joints the :camby: also before the holidays now i dont have any bytches on my roster :to: this is gonna burn for a few days but ill be straight.


:salute: to this thread and everybody in it i learned alot from yall nikkas in here.

:salute: for having the balls to :camby: the single mom. I wish I had the same courage to end it like you did. Basically everything you said is what I went through. To the point where she was like "oh you don't think I can find another man"

Lol, bytch take your broke ass and your damaged pasts to someone else. I'm done. But then I simped to make her think she's all that again.

Oh well shyt happens. Time to move on. I've been hitting the gym too and getting great responses from people.
 

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I lurk often:smile: and ya'll be dropping a lot of gems in here :salute: Sometimes I want to add, but I dont feel that its appropriate:lupe:

I'd appreciate if you don't. not to mean but that's me. I can't speak on behalf of the others in this thread.

Fisherman don't ask the fish how to be caught, real spit.
 
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