one thing ive noticed the past 3 relationships I have, all those chicks are now married. And married the dude they got with after me, i was basically the one to "fix them", give them "self esteem", show them how a guy should treat their demonic toxic selves and then someone else got the finished product.
DON'T BE THAT GUY, be the guy with the finished product.
Don't be the stunt man who takes all the bumps, but doesn't get the glory
pretty much. women don't want a problem solver
they want a man to be 'the problem' aka entertainment aka they are in the cycle of constantly trying to get him to change but he never does
a man who has it together naturally just wants to help elevate a woman and improve her life, but she won't appreciate that. What you DO do is tell her how she needs to act around you...
i been messing with for on and off for about a year now, of course she was a single mom.
way too many red flags, i only really kept her around because she started working out and lost alot of weight, and she held me down in a few financial situations but she started to feel herself a bit too much and got too comfortable with doing certain shyt i wasnt feeling so i deaded that situation quick, plus she was a few years younger than me.
fukk that hoe, all im gonna focus on now is bettering myself and hitting the gym for right now.
this is gonna burn for a few days but ill be straight.
to this thread and everybody in it i learned alot from yall nikkas in here.


and ya'll be dropping a lot of gems in here
tyler, why do you continue to forsake us,