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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I don't know why anyone would want to go back to a ex?
99% of the time it's just because they were dumped, realize they messed up and can't do any better, and just remember you as the safe nice guy who treated them good.
I say HELL NO, value your dignity.
I'm worthy and valuable enough to be someone's first option not their second.
99% of the time it's just because they were dumped, realize they messed up and can't do any better, and just remember you as the safe nice guy who treated them good.
I say HELL NO, value your dignity.
I'm worthy and valuable enough to be someone's first option not their second.
aight brehs,
so I have been talking to this girl lately the last few weeks, we went out a few times also. She's cool, I like chilling with her. Anyways, she went on vacation in Cali for like a week and a half. You think it's fine if I don't hit her up doing her trip or what? Usually she'll hit me up a little more than I do her.
so I have been talking to this girl lately the last few weeks, we went out a few times also. She's cool, I like chilling with her. Anyways, she went on vacation in Cali for like a week and a half. You think it's fine if I don't hit her up doing her trip or what? Usually she'll hit me up a little more than I do her.
Reality
Make your own luck.
what are your intentions and have you smashed yet?
Number 1 rule as a man?
Take responsibility. If you get done bad by a woman one time, that's on her... but if you keep seeing the SAME signs, you continue to ignore them and the same thing keeps happening over and over, that's all on you. As men, we can only blame women for bad actions so long. If you keep letting the same thing happen, then that's on you. Taking responsibility and demanding your respect is critical as a man. For example, if you find yourself continually being taken advantage of and being put in the background for being too nice, then stop being overly generous to those women. Save that generosity for your family and friends and stop putting yourself in a position to be taken advantage of. If you took 4 women out to dinner and they all stopped calling you after, figure out how to get at women without taking them out to dinner. The power in responsibility lays in that you aren't sitting around waiting for someone else to change their behavior in order to improve your position. Who knows when and if they ever will?
Take responsibility. If you get done bad by a woman one time, that's on her... but if you keep seeing the SAME signs, you continue to ignore them and the same thing keeps happening over and over, that's all on you. As men, we can only blame women for bad actions so long. If you keep letting the same thing happen, then that's on you. Taking responsibility and demanding your respect is critical as a man. For example, if you find yourself continually being taken advantage of and being put in the background for being too nice, then stop being overly generous to those women. Save that generosity for your family and friends and stop putting yourself in a position to be taken advantage of. If you took 4 women out to dinner and they all stopped calling you after, figure out how to get at women without taking them out to dinner. The power in responsibility lays in that you aren't sitting around waiting for someone else to change their behavior in order to improve your position. Who knows when and if they ever will?
Is it a good idea to ask a girl why she flaked or just 
DaRealness
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Is it a good idea to ask a girl why she flaked or just
Don't bother ask them shyt, they know what they did and the mere fact they don't get back to you tells you everything you need to know.
intentions via what? - just talk to her and talk about chillin when she gets back. and no I haven't fukked yet but we kissed and shyt the last time we hung out.
Is it a good idea to ask a girl why she flaked or just
Some girl flaked on me, some girl i've known for like a year now. And I asked her why and she didn't get me an answer. So I just ignored all her texts and put her in the bushes.
You could ask if you want but it's not even worth it in the end.
She cooks, works out and in great shape, job, no kids...4 for 4 right now 
Thanks for setting me straight guys. I figured it would be pretty pointless for me to ask, but I was just very curious to know why she what she did, and look even more stupid when she doesn't respond.
Yea man, you don't always need closure on things. I am person who rarely needs closure on anything. I don't have time or that b/s. Don't worry about closure with someone when they aren't willing to give closure to you.