Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Virtuous_Brotha]

you can drag around the corpse of a dead relationship for months or years and at the end you'll still arrive at the same place which is it being over. women will let you do this and use you the whole way. like Reincar said women detach quick and once they do they'll mercilessly use you till the well runs dry.

it doesn't matter how much you've invested at some point you cut your losses and move on. better sooner than later.

if your girl is calling another man babe over the phone its more than likely over. investing financially in a woman is like willingly walking into quicksand.

i have no problem dropping the bytch we been on and off for two years and i have helped when she was down,put food on her plate etc....hundreds of dollars of my well earned money spent on a bytch that will prob not even be around by 2013 its a cold world brehs it kills me thinking of the shyt i could of bought my damn self rather than spend it on her

 

[winb83]

i have no problem dropping the bytch we been on and off for two years and i have helped when she was down,put food on her plate etc....hundreds of dollars of my well earned money spent on a bytch that will prob not even be around by 2013 its a cold world brehs it kills me thinking of the shyt i could of bought my damn self rather than spend it on her

Many women have no loyalty. A lot of them feel entitled to the things you do. Society teaches women that for no reason other than them being women they deserve to be taken care of by men.

i spend over $6000 on a car to help out a female friend who was in need. she told me she'd give me some of her student loan money to pay the car note and she was gonna get her CNA back and pay for the car. none of that ever happened and i was stuck paying the car note to protect my credit. when i was about to take the car back she totaled it.

you know where i fukked up? believing her in the first place. she said without a car she couldn't get a job, couldn't get to work, couldn't make it. said she just needed me to put it in my name and she'd pay the note. ironically now without the car she still gets around fine. other people just drive her around. i'm not mad i just consider it a very expensive lesson i had to pay to learn.

if you wouldn't have helped that chick she would have gotten the help from somewhere else. sure you helped her when she was down but you probably weren't even her last resort just her most convenient option.

 

[Atlrocafella]

“She was talking to Tom on the phone up until last week saying, ‘I love you,’ ” a source told People magazine.

“Her inner circle has been planning this and switching out cell phones since she was in China [in mid-June].

“When new cell phones arrived, then nobody could reach her. Her old best friends from last week don’t have her new number, no email. She’s unreachable.”



What do I always tell you folks on now women detach, plan breakups month in advance even up to the last minute will utter I love you then cut you out and never talk to you


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Continue to Preach Brotha

 

[The ADD]

Many women have no loyalty. A lot of them feel entitled to the things you do. Society teaches women that for no reason other than them being women they deserve to be taken care of by men.

i spend over $6000 on a car to help out a female friend who was in need. she told me she'd give me some of her student loan money to pay the car note and she was gonna get her CNA back and pay for the car. none of that ever happened and i was stuck paying the car note to protect my credit. when i was about to take the car back she totaled it.

you know where i fukked up? believing her in the first place. she said without a car she couldn't get a job, couldn't get to work, couldn't make it. said she just needed me to put it in my name and she'd pay the note. ironically now without the car she still gets around fine. other people just drive her around. i'm not mad i just consider it a very expensive lesson i had to pay to learn.

if you wouldn't have helped that chick she would have gotten the help from somewhere else. sure you helped her when she was down but you probably weren't even her last resort just her most convenient option.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I recently had a young lady....call me and text me all the time. She was basically wanting me to take her out,spend $$$ on her. I wasnt feeling her from the jump but she kept persisting. Its like she wouldnt take NO for an answer. So I had to tell her "Im talking to someone" even though I wasnt...had to lie She responds "Im 30 years old im tired of men putting me in the friend zone"..... im like and kept it moving. Basically another one who probably wanted a "relationship" out of status more so then loving the actual person. I dont know who said this but its true...when a woman says she likes you,you never know for what reason.

 

[MikelArteta]

Stop feeling sorry for women, like I said they are great at guilt trip and making themselves look like the victim, they scroll to their list of "guy friends" looking for someone to bite.

You'll lend them money not even ask for sex or anything just a nice gesture trying to help someone out and they will disrespect you and not appreciate, a motto you should have is it's not my concern.

At one point that was me picking up chicks on a rainy day, going out grocery shopping because they didn't have a car asking for nothing in return and couldn't even get a thanks just nagging how oh you only drive this and bla bla well

If she's not your wife or gf let it be, her other guy friends know better.


And this leads me to never believe a word a woman says, women will tell you straight up how they don't need a man, how they are not looking but actively be on dating sites.


and this has happened to me, years ago when i made the mistake of dating a chick off a online dating site, everything was going well then i got them thangs dropped on me, this chick told me how she doesn't need any man etc., just wants to be alone a week later im searching on my profile and guess who pops up with updated pics and all looking for a relationship


which is why id advise males if you are looking to say date, stay away from dating sites the girls there can't give up the attn

 

[MikelArteta]

i have no problem dropping the bytch we been on and off for two years and i have helped when she was down,put food on her plate etc....hundreds of dollars of my well earned money spent on a bytch that will prob not even be around by 2013 its a cold world brehs it kills me thinking of the shyt i could of bought my damn self rather than spend it on her

Cut your losses now man, I'm telling you, right now your still thinking that she needs me and ish get those thoughts out of your mind.

nikka I was engaged four months from marriage and I was disrespected and cut my losses, even though I was a fiend by the phone for a few months after pondering if I made the right decision. I wasted thousands and a good 3 years of my life.

 

[Mr. Pink]

i have no problem dropping the ***** we been on and off for two years and i have helped when she was down,put food on her plate etc....hundreds of dollars of my well earned money spent on a ***** that will prob not even be around by 2013 its a cold world brehs it kills me thinking of the **** i could of bought my damn self rather than spend it on her

Like everyone says, cut your losses.

Regarding male/female friendship: in order for such a thing to happen there needs to be a degree of mutual physical antipathy. I stress the word mutual. If one party is secretly or overtly attracted to the other then it's not a true friendship, just 'a vulture waiting to strike'.

In most cases I don't even think it's enough just not to be attracted with the other party, in a "he/she's pretty cute, just not my type" scenario. I think you genuinely need to consider them unattractive in order for the friendship to last. Otherwise there's no guarantee one day you won't find yourself in a moment of weakness and think " she's not so bad, I guess I could give her a spin."

 

[Turbulent]

“She was talking to Tom on the phone up until last week saying, ‘I love you,’ ” a source told People magazine.

“Her inner circle has been planning this and switching out cell phones since she was in China [in mid-June].

“When new cell phones arrived, then nobody could reach her. Her old best friends from last week don’t have her new number, no email. She’s unreachable.”



What do I always tell you folks on now women detach, plan breakups month in advance even up to the last minute will utter I love you then cut you out and never talk to you


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to be fair, she was trying to save herself and her child from a cult...

Spoiler

then again, ***** knew he was about that life before she married him. now she wants to act all brand new??

 

[MikelArteta]

to be fair, she was trying to save herself and her child from a cult...

Spoiler

then again, ***** knew he was about that life before she married him. now she wants to act all brand new??

lol cruise been in scientology since the 80s, like i said its funny and weird now how tom is some creepy old guy and a horrible parent, typical of women, you married him, laid with him unprotected, you knew he was in scientology since the early nineties, and what it was about , stop trying to play the sympathy woe is me card.

as a man once you learn the way women are you don';t fall for these tactics anymore

 

[MikelArteta]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JVYFW5esFbM&feature=player_embedded

watch from 2:12 listen to what deniro says

 

[Peter Pawger]

what do y'all do about so called male friends she was on the phone to a couple nikkas when i came over i had the face the whole time i hope i dont share that girl

***** was calling him babe and **** over the damn phone and arranging to meet up with him 2morow right the fuk in front of me

it sucks when you have invested so much finacially with these hoes that could be ****in other dudes

Ima neg you for *****assedness

 

[MikelArteta]

just a random ramble, some may agree some may not


After more than a year of not having sex due to religious reasons , i've realized that besides sex, most women offer nothing to me. Can't talk to them about sports, video games, politics, investing for the most part.

As others have mentioned, the money being saved, time wasted traveling to and form, or constant text messaging back and forth, the nagging eh not missed at all.

i think its sad brehs that me as a man, a man who is a very nice individual who would give the shirt of his back to someone in need, has to literally be mean and cold to most women or i will be taken advantage of, its sad that life has come to this


now im at a point in my life where its , i could literally be fine being single for ever if so be. I will not settle for someone beneath me like many men do.

time is on our side brehs

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

lol cruise been in scientology since the 80s, like i said its funny and weird now how tom is some creepy old guy and a horrible parent, typical of women, you married him, laid with him unprotected, you knew he was in scientology since the early nineties, and what it was about , stop trying to play the sympathy woe is me card.

as a man once you learn the way women are you don';t fall for these tactics anymore

 

[James Carter]

This might sound crazy, but never deal long term with a girl that is too smart/cunning. These are the type of women that will use the legal system to tear you apart if ya'll break up. Deion and Bosh escaped relatively unscathed because they didn't date these psychological/legal masterminds. If she's too into psychology, the legal system and other sorts of issues, you better beware. Screen her during her conversation on such matters in a round-about way. "What if you were married and your husband cheated? How would you handle that?" The answer she gives you will tell you exactly how she handles those sorts of situations. If she divorces you, even on her terms, she will squeeze your butt dry.

You right, it sounds crazy but i get what youre saying