Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

shyt she even said herself "i was born alone...im gonna die alone" right in that very interview....

folks don't realize that ludacris's woman is one of the rare good women out there who are ALSO dimepeices....cause most of the time those who look like melyssa ford are narcissistic characters....

how do we know ludacris woman is a rare good woman?

we know nothing about her, just because she looks good and is smart means nothing.

the good ol quote show me a hot woman and ill show you a bunch of dudes who are tired of smashing her comes into play with chicks like melyssa ford.

And reminds me of a few of my exes, hot as hell, but the stress and aggravation i was put through

 

[Astroslik]

if you fukking with any bytch in my age group (19-24) your text game better be as good as your mouthpiece

 

[CASHAPP]

Find you another job. You don't want to let people push you over the edge to where you end up in jail or something over the. Honestly, ya'll should put women in the background. Focus on stacking your bread, getting your mind right, getting closer to God and just basically all the things that give you peace of mind. Basically get to a place where you are living a joyful life... that's what your focus should be on and when you're established to that point, that's when you potentially let a woman in your life, and any women you let in, you just got to make sure she doesn't steal your joy, only adds to it.

well this is one of the things ive always disagreed with u on....

im a bit agnostic

but c/s the other things....i worked as a college assistant for 3 to 4 weeks last summer(at my college) makign $11 an hour and could work up to 40 hours....lost the job cuz of budget cuts....2nd job i had i was workign for this awning company that my little sis's father worked at for 20 years but he and i could never work good together and he was annoying me because of how he would talk to me like im supposed to be an expert(even if i would work hard)....im sure u know of the type of older folks who are condescending to you towards your young .....could not work with someone who i can't mesh well with....

i guess part of the reason recently i have been hesitant is because i realize with this cashier job....its one of those jobs where i could be working there for years as there are people my age and younger who have bene there for 2 to 3 years....but still......

there was this one girl working there for 2 years who said she makes $8.25 and people who just came here are making that same amount as her even if they were here for 2 months.....only becuz of the minimum wage increase...

i guess im worried that if i say get another job making $ like the college assistant job that something may happen and i could lose that job....

but i gotta be a man and take the risk right?

 

[CASHAPP]

how do we know ludacris woman is a rare good woman?

we know nothing about her, just because she looks good and is smart means nothing.

the good ol quote show me a hot woman and ill show you a bunch of dudes who are tired of smashing her comes into play with chicks like melyssa ford.

And reminds me of a few of my exes, hot as hell, but the stress and aggravation i was put through

lol trust me nothing to do with her being "smart" ...because remember melyssa is also smart as hell....

the reason i said so because as veterans in this thread will agree with(including urself) when you see a man cheesing as hard as Ludacris does with all the pics with her....u kno(unless the guy is the type to lie to himself) that guy is one happy ass man and she is doing something well to please him....

not always...but generally speaking...

 

[The Frozen One]

I just want to thank everyone for the knowledge and the advice you guys gave me going through my breakup.

Last month at this stage I was devastated and hurt and going through an extremely tough time thinking how I will function without my ex. I was depressed and lonely and completely out of whack. But the advice I got on here was priceless and helped me move on quicker than I even imagined.

I hold no resentment to my ex, or have any regrets. I've wrote it off as experience and a tough lesson learned. I'm actually relieved that that part of my life is over cause the longer it would have gone the more painful it would have gotten.

Additional thing that helped me were gym and family. They were there for me to vent basically. Now I still go through relapses where I think about my ex and what she's upto but those last only about 30 seconds and I go on my way. I won't lie, part of me still loves cause of the bond we shared, but that's only human nature and will go away with time. I have no urges to contact her, I haven't even thought of contacting her. Best thing that helped me was not saving her new number so I can't really contact her even if I wanted to. And the fact that she cleared off my credit card was an added bonus cause I really didn't wanna get burned for being a nice guy and helping someone at their time of need.

I know from stories that people still creep on their ex using social media, but I'm not like that. Nor do I want those feelings to come back and put me back into a poor state of mind. I kinda missed the single life cause I get to do what I want when I want but part of me just wants someone there that cares for me and cuddle with and the endless supply of sex and bj was just :ahhh: . But she wasn't anything special and anyone else can help fill that void.

At this stage in time I'm more focused on personal development. My previous post about my job is of my main concerns for now. All the other crap is just a distraction for me to live my life the way I want to.

Bottom line, if anyone need advice going through a breakup. I'm here to help. It's not easy I'll tell you that but a strong mind will keep you focused and put negative thoughts out of your head.

to everyone. I couldn't have done it without you guys. Love the coli family. God bless yall.

 

[kevm3]

Let's shift gears to a different subject and talk about what you should be doing as a man. Every man needs to focus on finding that solid ground and focusing on that.

well this is one of the things ive always disagreed with u on....

im a bit agnostic

but c/s the other things....i worked as a college assistant for 3 to 4 weeks last summer(at my college) makign $11 an hour and could work up to 40 hours....lost the job cuz of budget cuts....2nd job i had i was workign for this awning company that my little sis's father worked at for 20 years but he and i could never work good together and he was annoying me because of how he would talk to me like im supposed to be an expert(even if i would work hard)....im sure u know of the type of older folks who are condescending to you towards your young .....could not work with someone who i can't mesh well with....

i guess part of the reason recently i have been hesitant is because i realize with this cashier job....its one of those jobs where i could be working there for years as there are people my age and younger who have bene there for 2 to 3 years....but still......

there was this one girl working there for 2 years who said she makes $8.25 and people who just came here are making that same amount as her even if they were here for 2 months.....only becuz of the minimum wage increase...

i guess im worried that if i say get another job making $ like the college assistant job that something may happen and i could lose that job....

but i gotta be a man and take the risk right?

That's why it's important when you get money not to spend it on useless stuff like superfly clothes, jewels, rims and other assorted junk. You always want to build a big pile so you can walk off a job without much of a concern.
Monetarily, it's important to get rid of all your debts, minimize your expenditures and stack that money up to the ceiling... Also, develop a huge reserve of skills so if one job doesn't pan out, you'll have your pile to fall back on and you'll be so skilled another company would love to take you on.

Last thing you want to do is get stuck in a job you hate and that won't pay you much. Honestly, I'll tell any dude here... put the women in the background and focus on getting your skills up. I learned a while back that these women ain't really thinking about me like that. As soon as she's 'bored' with me, its like I never existed, so why spend all this time and effort worrying about women like that when you will become nothing to them in an instant? As a man you got to keep your mind focused on getting your ship stable.

In fact, I'd much rather talk about subjects like this than the rehashed conversations about what women are doing. As men we have to share knowledge about how to build each other up... things are getting tough and you got to have your mind right to make it. Unlike women, nobody will feel sorry for you as a man and take you in, so you got to stand up and make sure you're ready when the storm comes.

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

Let's shift gears to a different subject and talk about what you should be doing as a man. Every man needs to focus on finding that solid ground and focusing on that.


That's why it's important when you get money not to spend it on useless stuff like superfly clothes, jewels, rims and other assorted junk. You always want to build a big pile so you can walk off a job without much of a concern.
Monetarily, it's important to get rid of all your debts, minimize your expenditures and stack that money up to the ceiling... Also, develop a huge reserve of skills so if one job doesn't pan out, you'll have your pile to fall back on and you'll be so skilled another company would love to take you on.

Last thing you want to do is get stuck in a job you hate and that won't pay you much. Honestly, I'll tell any dude here... put the women in the background and focus on getting your skills up. I learned a while back that these women ain't really thinking about me like that. As soon as she's 'bored' with me, its like I never existed, so why spend all this time and effort worrying about women like that when you will become nothing to them in an instant? As a man you got to keep your mind focused on getting your ship stable.

In fact, I'd much rather talk about subjects like this than the rehashed conversations about what women are doing. As men we have to share knowledge about how to build each other up... things are getting tough and you got to have your mind right to make it. Unlike women, nobody will feel sorry for you as a man and take you in, so you got to stand up and make sure you're ready when the storm comes.

U saying some real shyt. Gotta stack that paper

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I feel bad for the cats who are stressed and pressured by their woman to do something for Valentine's day

 

[MikelArteta]

Let's shift gears to a different subject and talk about what you should be doing as a man. Every man needs to focus on finding that solid ground and focusing on that.


That's why it's important when you get money not to spend it on useless stuff like superfly clothes, jewels, rims and other assorted junk. You always want to build a big pile so you can walk off a job without much of a concern.
Monetarily, it's important to get rid of all your debts, minimize your expenditures and stack that money up to the ceiling... Also, develop a huge reserve of skills so if one job doesn't pan out, you'll have your pile to fall back on and you'll be so skilled another company would love to take you on.

Last thing you want to do is get stuck in a job you hate and that won't pay you much. Honestly, I'll tell any dude here... put the women in the background and focus on getting your skills up. I learned a while back that these women ain't really thinking about me like that. As soon as she's 'bored' with me, its like I never existed, so why spend all this time and effort worrying about women like that when you will become nothing to them in an instant? As a man you got to keep your mind focused on getting your ship stable.

In fact, I'd much rather talk about subjects like this than the rehashed conversations about what women are doing. As men we have to share knowledge about how to build each other up... things are getting tough and you got to have your mind right to make it. Unlike women, nobody will feel sorry for you as a man and take you in, so you got to stand up and make sure you're ready when the storm comes.

tom leykis mentions this thing called a f u fun, basically its stacking enough paper that if you hate your job, get treated by crap by a manager or somethign you just say basically say f u and quit as you have paper stacked.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

If your in a non union state it's more important to stack paper.Companies are laying off just to lay off these days.

 

[Futuristic Eskimo]

Brehs look at this shyt I just saw on facebook

Men celebrating their women being temperamental whores

 

[Art Barr]

Spoiler

I must be honest and say that there has to be a "mystery" factor to getting to know someone. I don't want him to reveal too much of himself too soon because then it's a turn off and it comes off as desperate. And if I learn a lot too soon, yes, it can and often does kill the vibe. I prefer for dude to learn how to gauge the amount of himself he should disclose as things progress if we like each other. As a woman I need time to figure out if I truly like you (out of the sexual desires I may have) and that time frame varies. but If I do like you then yes, I do want to know more and will be as interested as you are.

I already know females do this.
yet, it is the dumbest shyt alive.
literally, I am into being the mystery guy.
only because I learned if you give a female the entire comix collection.
complete with the origin,..
they act like it is desperate.
when, opening your book to let someone know who you are.
is really to let you get to know a person.
females only want the mystery guy.
so, they can take and not be put in a position of being the guilty party on the take.
which is primarily what this time is about when it comes to females.

females are on the take,...
guys, don't get taken.
don't give them anything to take.
meaning no personal information, no money, no emotion...nada nuffin.
only thing, you give a female is your man's.



art barr

 

[Art Barr]

Have you seen the Melyssa Ford latest interview? I'm not talking about the one with the Breakfast Club that got alot of pages on here....she just did aanother recent one on Hot 97:



Go to the part towards the end of the interview where she starts talking about Flo-Ride....mentions they dated 3 different times and mentioned at first she was hesitant because she was a "veteran" in the game and he didn't have much experience like her and said something about how "improve your self young man" something like that im paraphrasing but she just threw in the "young man" ...that is the part i remember

now with older folks callling people in their 20s and 30s "young man"....that i understand.....but these are both grown ass people BOTH in their 30s....and she is being condescending with him? She mentioned how she dated recently a Swedish/Russian guy and predictably had nothing bad to say about him(gee i wonder y...but thats for another thread)
There is a reason why she is single.....

these females be having too much mouth.....another day at my cashier job today and like @World War Z i'm getting more and more pissed everyday...these broads need to start getting popped in their mouth...don't wanna bother getting into stories that happen today but at this point i've given up trying to see if there will be ONE DAY where i don't get an unclassy female customer....its pointless.....


In regards to this smut .....the fact that she went to whine on social media and magazines about what happened goes to show the footballer's assumptions were correct about her....sometimes its best to listen to your gut....

I remember back when i was naive i use to laugh at @Art Barr and his comments about how no many should be going on "Dates" with women unless they are a wife,etc but through experience and seeing examples like these you really realize that its gospel advice to heed....

preciate it,...handshake..

for a reminder.

don't take a female nowhere.
if she not trying to let you come by.
delete her number and go on to the next one.
you will save more than your money.
you will save your dignity.
on top, of the fact....
females do not respect the dinner date guy.
although,...as a man...
your whole entire life...
you were told to adhere to this dance of courtship.
when, that entire courtship and the ideals behind it.
all are a fukking lie.
that females use for free meals, and go fukk the guy who does none of that shyt.
believe me,..i am the guy who does none of that shyt.
I learned from my own experience.
plus, I learned from actually reading up and studying this shyt.
all the shyt,...people have told you as a boy to get a female was a fukk'n lie.
no, I will not say a lie.
it is outdated as females are on the take.
as this country has created a matriacrch based society.
since, this is capitalism and females expend more capital, than any male.

so, all the old values of traditionalism are all outdated and you will play the fool subscribing to them.

just realize we won the battle of the sexes, and all that courtship shyt is a lie, a fukk'n farce.

get rid of it,..........
that boyhood bullshyt!
you have been fed a lie.

trust me,...
it wasn't until I learned and up'd game for real.
did I learn all the a$$hole shyt my friends had to say was welled in some truth.
they just did not acquire all the actual game and to emotionally built around p*ssy as players.
to fully master,...
man, hit that issue of Popular Mechanic....
I will give you the shyt to google to help you out.
as I believe females actually research these thoughts.
so, shyt I used I don't want coming into the hands of a female.
as it allows them to much and a way to win.

if I give you the shyt...
don't disclose it to females, either.
don't break kayfabe.......
then, have a period of weakness and reveal any of it.



art barr

 

[Art Barr]

tom leykis mentions this thing called a f u fun, basically its stacking enough paper that if you hate your job, get treated by crap by a manager or somethign you just say basically say f u and quit as you have paper stacked.

I wish I could say this is a general possibility.
yet, the war of old money versus new money was lost.

old money won and they have eliminated in general the ability to revenue grab.
so, if you have a job.
you just have to weather the storm and treat you payday.
like it is that frugal wack nba ballplayer who doesn't spend any of it.
in the eventual happenstance, his career is over, in one game.

all the cliché general speak you hear about athletes trying to hold on to their money in those rookie seminars.
you have to employ the same idea from those seminars.
as you never know if you will get a payday, again.
it is not promised and this country and the world is not in revenue grab mode, anymore.
nor, will it ever be again.
it is simply all about the one percent, and fukk any and every part of the other ninety nine percent.
scientifically,..
they have crafted this world to make you a pauper.
if you are not part of the one percent.



art barr

 

[Art Barr]

Breh.....I need your help.....one more day and I am about to punch the fukk out of one of these female customers.....i know we are supposed to certain women don't change but i cannot continue to tolerate "consistent disrespect"....its not like other jobs where its less often but everday?

should i just work hard towards finding another job?i always thought that "you should endure being in bad situations" is a bit cliche especially when it comes to jobs...

never let a female cause you to get out of your body and go to jail.
just shut up and walk away.
you have nuffin to prove.
all the yelling is going to make the disgruntled bytch bitter bytch in the vicinity.
pick up the phone and call the police.
which ends all bad for you even if you do nuffin.


art barr