Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

took this from that Tiny thread here:

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/t-i-...unniest-thing-i-seen-in-a-while.189464/page-5

, but this is flagrant advertising

Look at how she 'flips the script' on TI. That's textbook right there. She's showing off her butt on instagram, TI calls her out, she says naw baby, you're the one who is thinking perverted. if she was really trying to show off her 'waist', she'd take a front pic or one directly to the side... not a 3/4 with her butt showing... and who is she trying to show her 'waist' off to? Once you let a woman get too comfortable, this is the kind of thing that starts to happen.

 

[The ADD]

man everything was going great, i spent the weekend with her and now shes on this bs

shes like im so happy with you, but it bnothers me alot that something important to me (family functions, faminly dinners and crap) you have no interest in taking part of.
Like gosh damn you finally meet a good faithful guy with his ish in order and your already thinking of us married and me saying im not going to your mothers house or ish


i already told her im not changing who I am, I didnd't even attend my sisters birthday party and she lives 5 minutes away, so no im not going to go to some stupid family dinner that ain't even my flesh and blood whenever that is.

it may be the end brehs adn well shrugs, shes a good great girl and has the qualities i like but im not changing who i've been for 28 long damn years over something i have no interest in.

What the hell were y'all talking about when you were deciding to be in a relationship? I would think this would come up.

 

[The ADD]

it's crazy, but honestly, sometimes the only way a relationship work is if a man and woman are 'incompatible' in some areas and the man absolutely refuses to compromise. If he gives in to the family thing, she'll start viewing him as 'weak' in a way for changing up. If he was 'everything she wanted', including the family gathering loving type of dude, she'll start to say 'he's too perfect' in her mind and either get insecure or she'll think he's boring and cheat. It's like women always need some point of contention. It's better to be 'imperfect' than perfect and boring.

I don't think you can apply the general rules of the game to this one. At the end of the day damn near all women are going to have a high level of attachment to thier family. That is just the nature of the gender. That part just comes with being with a woman so you have to assume that's in play just to what level. If she wasn't you would know that ahead of time.

Let's be reality would you want a chick that didn't have a strong sense of family? Chicks get killed for not coming from two parent homes on here but now they can't want someone they are in a relationship to spend time with the most important people in their life?

Reincarnation isn't wrong but he has to know something like this is almost always going to be an issue.

 

[BreezyH]

Full details not available yet, but shorty was one if these IG models- this is what happens when you start losing your cool over these women. Plus he was living dirty in the first place and should've been smarter. And sorry to see this happen to the young woman but there's no doubt she knew what he was into all along.

Kew Gardens man charged with shooting his girlfriend in the head
STEVEN DIAZ ALLEGEDLY TRIED TO COVER UP THE SHOOTING WITH A FALSE REPORT

Christopher Barca / Reporter | Posted: Monday, February 10, 2014 2:08 pm


A Kew Gardens man has been arrested and charged with the attempted murder of his girlfriend on Sunday morning.

Steven Diaz, 30, was charged on Monday with second-degree attempted murder, first-degree assault, tampering with physical evidence and possession of marijuana after he allegedly shot his 22-year-old girlfriend in the head at their home at 84-15 127th St. in Kew Gardens around 9 a.m. on Sunday, according to police.

If convicted, Diaz faces up to 25 years in prison.

The woman is in critical condition at Jamaica Hospital Medical Center, police said.

According to a statement issued by Queens District Attorney Richard Brown, her condition is grave and if she succumbs to her wounds, Diaz's will be charged with murder.

"The defendant is accused of shooting his girlfriend in the head and causing severe damage to her brain," Brown. "If her condition changes and she does not survive, the charges will be upgraded."

Brown added that more than 10 pounds of marijuana was found in the home, which equates to a street value of over $64,000.

According to published reports, Diaz told police that three armed men had entered the home and, during a struggle, his girlfriend was shot when a gun discharged.

Diaz allegedly disposed of the 9-millimeter weapon by throwing it in a sewer, according to Brown's statement.

Police responded to a 911 call at the residence but Diaz had already driven the woman to Jamaica Hospital Medical Center, authorities said.

The woman's name has not been released by police.

http://m.qchron.com/mobile/editions...cle_b7483ff4-9286-11e3-b7d2-001a4bcf887a.html

 

[MikelArteta]

Don't you think she has a point tho?.....If Family is important to her and it's not important to you (and you're unwilling to compromise) that makes you two incompatible.

Relationships at this point of the game involves sharing your life together.......at the end of the day you gotta be into the same shyt or it probably won't work. It would suck for her to get attached and then 3 years down the line you don't wanna attend thanksgiving dinner at her mom's house because you're gambling on the Lions vs Packers. Not that there's anything wrong with that but it's better to work some things out from the door. From what I've seen from you on here, you're similar to me (although a lot more extreme) you probably need a chick who's gonna let you do your own thing & give you your space. I don't have much family either. It's just my mom dukes and my uncle so I was never really big on family aside from spending time with my moms, you just gotta know that many women, especially black women are really big on family.

good points , but i think everyone is incompatible somewhat in some ways.

This chick hasn;t even been in a relationship in 3 years because of her pickiness, i just don't see why its such a big deal everything was going great.

It's iimpossible imo to find everyone who is what you want in a person just relax and enjoy the ride.

 

[The ADD]

good points , but i think everyone is incompatible somewhat in some ways.

This chick hasn;t even been in a relationship in 3 years because of her pickiness, i just don't see why its such a big deal everything was going great.

It's iimpossible imo to find everyone who is what you want in a person just relax and enjoy the ride.

That's a big issue to gloss over. You said yourself she mentioned marriage so in her mind this goes against what she thinks you MIGHT be working towards long term. You might not be thinking that way but if she is this a big issue.

Like I said you aren't wrong and if you don't want to do then don't but I doubt you are going to run across many women where this is going to go over well.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

best way to truely get to know a chick these days is to observe her social media accounts its pretty much their diary you know these bytches genuine feelings they dont hide a damn thing i dont use fb,twitter or none of them shyts but i dont think i could ever trust a chick if theres no reference to me on it be it a pic or status

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

good points , but i think everyone is incompatible somewhat in some ways.

This chick hasn;t even been in a relationship in 3 years because of her pickiness, i just don't see why its such a big deal everything was going great.

It's iimpossible imo to find everyone who is what you want in a person just relax and enjoy the ride.

that chick tell you she love you yet?just know that dont mean shyt but im "entertained" with you at this precise moment.

 

[DaRealness]

@His_Excellence_Reincar The thing is, she's actually right because think about it.....it's best to nip something like this in the bud now than stay with someone for a few years and be unhappy and argue about things like that. That's way better than wasting each other's time.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm being grilled this morning I can tell its almost over. I just hit her with the I'm sorry I can't be who you want me to be.

And maybe I'm a a$$hole whose not sacrificing but shrugs. I remember back in the day id miss like the Superbowl, NBA draft etc being stuck at my girls house or at q dinner and I told myself no more.

Yes I'll admit I'd rather watch a footbakl game than being at my girls mom bday party .

Im at the point where I don't care anymore I was fine being single and I will again if it goes that way.

 

[MikelArteta]

@His_Excellence_Reinca
True.

I'll just end it today if she doesn't, I'm not changing my ways for any chick again.


r The thing is, she's actually right because think about it.....it's best to nip something like this in the bud now than stay with someone for a few years and be unhappy and argue about things like that. That's way better than wasting each other's time.

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

I'm being grilled this morning I can tell its almost over. I just hit her with the I'm sorry I can't be who you want me to be.

And maybe I'm a @sshole whose not sacrificing but shrugs. I remember back in the day id miss like the Superbowl, NBA draft etc being stuck at my girls house or at q dinner and I told myself no more.

Yes I'll admit I'd rather watch a footbakl game than being at my girls mom bday party .

Im at the point where I don't care anymore I was fine being single and I will again if it goes that way.

Do what you have to do. You just may need to find someone who is not as "family oriented" as her. My former boss wife is close to her family and he hates that shyt but can't do nothing about it. He wants to move to another state but his wife keep tell him that she doesn't want to leave her family and he is stuck in Columbus. You have to find someone who is on the same page as you when it comes to stuff like family, religion, money habits and so forth. Don't be like my former boss living in a area that you don't want to stay because of your wife and her close attachment to her family.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

I'm being grilled this morning I can tell its almost over. I just hit her with the I'm sorry I can't be who you want me to be.

And maybe I'm a @sshole whose not sacrificing but shrugs. I remember back in the day id miss like the Superbowl, NBA draft etc being stuck at my girls house or at q dinner and I told myself no more.

Yes I'll admit I'd rather watch a footbakl game than being at my girls mom bday party .

Im at the point where I don't care anymore I was fine being single and I will again if it goes that way.

But breh, why wouldnt you go to your own sister's birthday party that was 5 minutes away?

You do shyt like that but expect your brother in-law to always take your side against the mother of your god-son and one of his flock.

You are clearly anti-social but trying to date someone. We all know what the outcome is gonna be.

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't celebrate birthdays. Last family birthday I attended was my moms 50th.

And she's turning 56 this year.

But breh, why wouldnt you go to your own sister's birthday party that was 5 minutes away?

You do shyt like that but expect your brother in-law to always take your side against the mother of your god-son and one of his flock.

You are clearly anti-social but trying to date someone. We all know what the outcome is gonna be.

 

[The ADD]

I don't celebrate birthdays. Last family birthday I attended was my moms 50th.

And she's turning 56 this year.

Man you got to start laying your cards on the table earlier and saving yourself the trouble.