Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

Good movies even play their part in brainwashing men. One of my favorite movies, Coming to America, is guilty of this .

Remember that scene where Darryl (Soul Glo) tells Akeem women just want to be told what to do/led? Basically what he was saying was true, but that is flipped to make him look like the bad guy. Meanwhile, before Akeem became , Darryl was in Lisa's guts.


Be careful what you watch.

Hmmm.......I have to disagree with you on this one because I look at COA differently. On the other hand (and I've mentioned this very same movie in this thread) the movie also shows that when a woman loves you for YOU, then she will do anything for you and you don't have to be all thirsty and flash money around. Remember she was a rich girl who was into him so much that she was willing to visit his dirty ass apartment in the middle of the hood to COOK for him. Even when she wanted to have sex with him he was sweating it at all and told her he wanted them to wait.....making himself even more attractive and a challenge since most men would jump at the chance to fukk. This is all when she thought he was just a goat herder without a penny to his name. The movie is really a lesson that you don't have to flash money around, but just work on yourself as a person and you'll attract the right women who love you for who you are. She was so in love with his mind that she swore he must have had women falling at his feet back in Zamunda. That's the kind of effect you need to have on broads instead of thinking you have to flash money and buy a whole bunch of clothes, colognes, cars etc because dudes who do all that shyt already set themselves up to fail and then wonder why they keep attracting hoodrats and gold diggers.

Speaking of movies......

Wolf of Wall Street. Notice how quick Jordan's wife was to leave him when things started to go downhill? It was all well and good when he was on top of the world and raking the money in, but the minute he started to experience financial and legal troubles then all of a sudden its "you're a drug taking monster, I heard you're going to prison for 20 years I already spoke to my lawyer and I'm taking the kids blah blah blah". This is the same chick who was just as much a "monster" as he was when they first got together and had no problem stealing him from his first wife with no fukks given and indulging in the same drug taking and debauchery and spending all his money, but the minute he falls on hard times, she suddenly turns cold as ice with that same dead, emotionless look in her eye that we're all familiar with when a woman has made up her mind to bounce long before the relationship is over. The movie tried to make HIM look like the villain in that scenario when he got mad and hit her and tried to run away with their daughter not taking into account the the kind of shock that does to a man when his woman kicks him while he's down and suddenly and unexpectedly drops all these bombshells on him. I've got more beef with THAT than I do in anything in Coming To America.

Of course, he was to blame too because he knew she was trifling from day one so he should have known it would have ended badly with a chick like that. Plus he did cheat on his loyal first wife so he kinda deserved it.

 

[DaRealness]

Brehs, is it safe to say that if you're messaging a broad and she has no type of conversation skills--that means you should only try to fucc?
Maybe she's not used to having to talk and is used to instead dudes just hitting her up for a fucc session.

No, if a grown ass woman doesn't have any conversational skills then it's time to leave her alone. At least that's what I'd do. I don't mess with mimes.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

No, if a grown ass woman doesn't have any conversational skills then it's time to leave her alone. At least that's what I'd do. I don't mess with mimes.

I hear you on what YOU DO.
But what Im saying is does that mean that she's used to just being hit up to be fukkked and is not used to having to attempt a convo.

 

[DaRealness]

I hear you on what YOU DO.
But what Im saying is does that mean that she's used to just being hit up to be fukkked and is not used to having to attempt a convo.

The reasons could vary. Not a lot of broads have great conversational skills when it comes to speaking somewhat intelligently, so that may well be the case.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

The reasons could vary. Not a lot of broads have great conversational skills when it comes to speaking somewhat intelligently, so that may well be the case.

i Asked her what she was doing

 

[MikelArteta]

Since we are talking about movies , check out singers and forgetting Sarah Marshall two of my fav movies.

 

[BreezyH]

fellas don't get caught up in the petty stuff - all it does is take your mind off the big picture.

i caught my sons mother in a heap of lies and general shady shyt and called her out on it. of course she got mad at me

anyway, dropped him off by her and had to use the restroom badly. i asked if i could and she straight said no


the first five minutes of my trip back to the crib (mind you it's a hour drive) i was kinda trippin, but then i just let that shyt go.

ultimately, i got what i wanted (spending time with my kid) and used my own damn bathroom. real talk, if she asked to use mine (which she has many times) i'd probably still say yes. I'm focused on raising my kid, advancing my career, and getting this $$. not gonna spend any amount of time getting petty or overly upset with a woman. also, please remember that they are the masters of that shyt so you're fighting a losing battle the second you entertain that nonsense. the ultimate is to win at life brehs.

 

[BreezyH]

Since we are talking about movies , check out singers and forgetting Sarah Marshall two of my fav movies.

swingers is the goat "getting over this broads" flick

 

[MikelArteta]

Would you ever marry your baby mother for your sons sake?

fellas don't get caught up in the petty stuff - all it does is take your mind off the big picture.

i caught my sons mother in a heap of lies and general shady shyt and called her out on it. of course she got mad at me

anyway, dropped him off by her and had to use the restroom badly. i asked if i could and she straight said no


the first five minutes of my trip back to the crib (mind you it's a hour drive) i was kinda trippin, but then i just let that shyt go.

ultimately, i got what i wanted (spending time with my kid) and used my own damn bathroom. real talk, if she asked to use mine (which she has many times) i'd probably still say yes. I'm focused on raising my kid, advancing my career, and getting this $$. not gonna spend any amount of time getting petty or overly upset with a woman. also, please remember that they are the masters of that shyt so you're fighting a losing battle the second you entertain that nonsense. the ultimate is to win at life brehs.

 

[BreezyH]

Would you ever marry your baby mother for your sons sake?

I spent the last 2 years campaigning and subconsciously, that was part of the reason. i grew up with both parents (she didn't) - so i would've liked to build that. but you cant fit a square peg in a round hole. i put up with a lot of mixed messages and general bs trying to keep the peace, but you just end up walking on eggshells and simping 9/10 times.

i could understand if you were offering a crappy situation, but if you present a complete family and all that to someone and they aren't cooperating, then there's really nowhere else to go from there. ever since the holidays, i really decided to put my foot down and not devote any energy into that situation because resources aren't infinite brehs. you waste your time with nonsense and it's gonna leave you with less for the real important stuff. I'm cool building myself up and letting somebody on the bus who is cooperative.

not gonna act like some feelings might flare up here and there - we all human, but my resources aren't going to be at the disposal of someone who isn't going to do anything but squander them

 

[DaRealness]

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jan...business-trip-antics-are-ripping-me-to-shreds

I GET blind drunk every time my partner goes on a business trip – because I know for sure that she is going to share a bed with another man.


Once a month she flies to Amsterdam where her firm’s head office is based.

She goes straight to a hotel where her boss is waiting for her with a bottle of champagne.

They drink, chat and then go to bed. How do I know all of this?

Because she is scrupulously honest with me. She tells me everything but the truth is ripping me apart.

The fact is, though, she’s the breadwinner earning a fortune.

Without her money we wouldn’t have this amazing apartment or our expensive lifestyle.

But everything comes at a price, doesn’t it? And the price she pays is sex with her boss in return for continued employment.

If she doesn’t “play the game” then she won’t be considered a team player.

She begs me not to think too deeply or take it too seriously – but what am I supposed to feel when I know my girl is getting rogered rotten by a smarmy creep?

She’s urging me to consider ours an open relationship.

Apparently I’m more than welcome to get off with other women while she’s out of the country. But I don’t want that.

The older I get the harder I’m finding it to blot out the truth.

Increasingly I’m turning to large amounts of booze to get me through her absences. Last month I drank five litres of vodka in four days.

Now she’s due to go away again and I don’t know how I will get through this next trip.

 

[kevm3]

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jan...business-trip-antics-are-ripping-me-to-shreds
I GET blind drunk every time my partner goes on a business trip – because I know for sure that she is going to share a bed with another man.

Once a month she flies to Amsterdam where her firm’s head office is based.

She goes straight to a hotel where her boss is waiting for her with a bottle of champagne.

They drink, chat and then go to bed. How do I know all of this?

Because she is scrupulously honest with me. She tells me everything but the truth is ripping me apart.

The fact is, though, she’s the breadwinner earning a fortune.

Without her money we wouldn’t have this amazing apartment or our expensive lifestyle.

But everything comes at a price, doesn’t it? And the price she pays is sex with her boss in return for continued employment.

If she doesn’t “play the game” then she won’t be considered a team player.

She begs me not to think too deeply or take it too seriously – but what am I supposed to feel when I know my girl is getting rogered rotten by a smarmy creep?

She’s urging me to consider ours an open relationship.

Apparently I’m more than welcome to get off with other women while she’s out of the country. But I don’t want that.

The older I get the harder I’m finding it to blot out the truth.

Increasingly I’m turning to large amounts of booze to get me through her absences. Last month I drank five litres of vodka in four days.

Now she’s due to go away again and I don’t know how I will get through this next trip.

This is the problem man. Men are acting like punks in this day and age. If he doesn't like it, LEAVE. Looks like he's looking for some kind of sympathy for being a male gold digger. He gave up his dignity to let his woman be man of the household. Instead of turning to booze, turn out of that relationship.

 

[kevm3]

If you read the whole article, you'll see how terrible that advice "Jane" gives him. What in the world is 'discussing his feelings' going to accomplish? She'll think of him even more as an emasculated punk who is in his feelings. This is why you never discard your respect when dealing with women or 'sell-out' to them. A woman goes and pulls this trash, it's time to get on the road.

 

[DaRealness]

If you read the whole article, you'll see how terrible that advice "Jane" gives him. What in the world is 'discussing his feelings' going to accomplish? She'll think of him even more as an emasculated punk who is in his feelings. This is why you never discard your respect when dealing with women or 'sell-out' to them. A woman goes and pulls this trash, it's time to get on the road.

Jane is a shining example as to why you should never take relationship advice from women. There's only been a few times where Jane has given tough advice to dudes to man up and leave their woman, but that's only in the most extreme cases and very rare. When it's a woman is dealing with b.s. from a man no matter how small, she never has a problem telling them to leave the guy and start afresh with their self esteem intact. Funny how dudes are always supposed to "see it from her point of view" and "talk it out" and other such nonsense.

Plus this dude is a loser of the highest order. Your woman tells you to your face she's sleeping with her boss and pretty much tells you to deal with it, but instead of leaving and making things happen for yourself like a man, you put up with it and turn to drinking because you want to live in a nice apartment your not even happy in? LOL.....many years ago a scenario like this would have never happened, but nowadays men have become bytches and bytches have become men. Sad.

 

[kevm3]

Jane is a shining example as to why you should never take relationship advice from women. There's only been a few times where Jane has given tough advice to dudes to man up and leave their woman, but that's only in the most extreme cases and very rare. When it's a woman is dealing with b.s. from a man no matter how small, she never has a problem telling them to leave the guy and start afresh with their self esteem intact. Funny how dudes are always supposed to "see it from her point of view" and "talk it out" and other such nonsense.

Plus this dude is a loser of the highest order. Your woman tells you to your face she's sleeping with her boss and pretty much tells you to deal with it, but instead of leaving and making things happen for yourself like a man, you put up with it and turn to drinking because you want to live in a nice apartment your not even happy in? LOL.....many years ago a scenario like this would have never happened, but nowadays men have become bytches and bytches have become men. Sad.

That's exactly what it is bruh. Role reversal. Men have taken on feminine characteristics and women have undertaken masculine characteristics... but sooner or later it will all come tumbling down because men aren't built to be women and women aren't built to be men. You can try to eat salad with a spoon, but it will never work quite as well as it does when you use a fork. You can try to use a fork to eat soup, but it won't compare to using a spoon. A society where the roles are flipped is one that will soon get dominated by a society where men are still men and women are women.

This is the kind of stuff going on in Sweden where feminism has really taken root