Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[George Gooney]

Wifey taking me out to dinner tonight. Whats good wit y'all?

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm up north at my girls cottage

 

[BreezyH]

Second time Ive been told that "you don't like black women and you will end up with with women". Black women told me that based on my disdain for weave and attitudes.

Don't pay that nonsense any attention. Girls say that stuff to try to rationalize things in their heads if they think you're the type of brother that's above their station. In other words that's just their insecurity rearing its ugly head. I've been told on countless occasions that I seem like the kind of guy that only likes white girls. It's so stupid because these girls have nothing solid to base that theory on. Meanwhile I just laugh because I was engaged to a Jamaican woman and my most recent shorty was from Kenya. I just let them talk themselves into oblivion and right out of my consciousness.

"End up with a white woman" = You're not going to put up with some of the sassy bs that a lot of the sisters will pull.

Men need to stop selling themselves first

heres a example we all know who katy perry is right, i mean katy perry is prob a top 5 singer at the moment in terms of popularity, sales, merit etc.

married some scrub english guy russell brand, thought she was having a happy marriage and she got the

" Russell texting her with: I AM DVRCING U K THX BYE"

if even a chick worth millions, many guys would at her, still got tossed to the curb who the hell does these average ass chicks with horrible credit and debt think they are?

i was kinda mad he didn't take the divorce money - like 20 mil. people were calling him noble.. let him have been the breadwinner and every broad would've been like "GET IT ALL GURL!!!!"

she's in a 'fading relationship', aka she's waiting for other males to show up before she gets rid of her current man, and you are one of the 'fall back' options. Think of the male equivalent. When a man wants a woman's favors but doesn't want to commit, he'll do all of that relationship stalling.. "well we're coo ma... I don't want to ruin our friendship. I just want to take this slow... yada yada." She likes your company, but she doesn't want to go exclusive with you because she wants to explore, and the fact you said she's in a 'fading relationship' shows what kind of mentality she has. She's 'just got out' of a relationship, but has been talking to you all this time? What do you think she'll do when she's with you? She'll have guys she's 'friends with' until she finds someone she feels is an upgrade, and then she'll need to have a 'talk' with you and will disappear and fade into her next relationship. as of right now, she just wants to keep you around as an option while she searches for whatever else, and if she doesn't find it, she will 'fall back' on you. remember, a cool conversation with a woman doesn't mean anything other than that. A woman that really wants to be with you, you almost got to beat her off with a stick.

this is the main thing that ticks me off about most women - no logic. you're staring and dealing with a good dude and would jeopardize it for a roll of the dice. then rather than say "i crapped out" they'll try to pull you back into their bs. women don't even act in the self interest, it's always some warped mentality they have. don't entertain that nonsense fellas. i could understand if you were offering some kind of fukk buddy situation , but the guy kev is addressing was coming to her on some righteous stuff. either cut the brother loose and go after the next man, or cooperate.

 

[kevm3]

a lot of women are doing wrong, but don't let that make you hate women. i see some guys are taking that hard on women movement to the extreme and celebrating women getting beat up, peed on and all of that. if you don't like what a woman is doing, cut her off and keep it moving. No need to grow in hate and do all kinds of devious actions. Never lower your character, even if others do you wrong.

 

[MikelArteta]

a lot of women are doing wrong, but don't let that make you hate women. i see some guys are taking that hard on women movement to the extreme and celebrating women getting beat up, peed on and all of that. if you don't like what a woman is doing, cut her off and keep it moving. No need to grow in hate and do all kinds of devious actions. Never lower your character, even if others do you wrong.

yep like i said in that thread where the chick got peed on, her bf or whatever lost already for even wifing a broad like that, I mean if you are dating a chick who has pictures of her booty and boobs wearing scandalous clothing all over social media do you actually expect her to be faithful?

if there is one thing i learned with my new chick, even if we break up etc. is I'll never settle with a cihck no matter how pretty she is etc. who doesn't offer the traits i want, dudes wifing chicks with a private instagram and 3,000 followers then crying when they get played

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Kevm kickin the truth

 

[Atlrocafella]

yep like i said in that thread where the chick got peed on, her bf or whatever lost already for even wifing a broad like that, I mean if you are dating a chick who has pictures of her booty and boobs wearing scandalous clothing all over social media do you actually expect her to be faithful?

if there is one thing i learned with my new chick, even if we break up etc. is I'll never settle with a cihck no matter how pretty she is etc. who doesn't offer the traits i want, dudes wifing chicks with a private instagram and 3,000 followers then crying when they get played

Boy them nikkaz be so stupid.You think they going to stop taking a million selifes a day for their "fans" just cause you get with them?

 

[CASHAPP]

You know what I realized has not been discussed...what are you guys thoughts on "wedding proposals" and getting on your hands and knees to beg a woman to "please marry me"

 

[The Frozen One]

So I'm just doing my thing and I got a FaceTime call from my ex... ..

I didn't pick up of course. I don't know what she wants. I'm just convincing myself that it was a mistake on her end. She didn't text or make any contact before that. It's just so strange. I don't wanna initiate contact.. Cause most likely she'll tell me oh it was a mistake or something.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Brehs, is it safe to say that if you're messaging a broad and she has no type of conversation skills--that means you should only try to fucc?
Maybe she's not used to having to talk and is used to instead dudes just hitting her up for a fucc session.

 

[Jone2three45]

Brehs, is it safe to say that if you're messaging a broad and she has no type of conversation skills--that means you should only try to fucc?
Maybe she's not used to having to talk and is used to instead dudes just hitting her up for a fucc session.

I would like to know this too

 

[kevm3]

yep like i said in that thread where the chick got peed on, her bf or whatever lost already for even wifing a broad like that, I mean if you are dating a chick who has pictures of her booty and boobs wearing scandalous clothing all over social media do you actually expect her to be faithful?

if there is one thing i learned with my new chick, even if we break up etc. is I'll never settle with a cihck no matter how pretty she is etc. who doesn't offer the traits i want, dudes wifing chicks with a private instagram and 3,000 followers then crying when they get played

Exactly, just as they have 'mousetraps' to take out rodents, these booty models are mantraps. Their looks are the cheese. Negroes willingly walk into it and get snapped on. One thing a man would be critical to learn to do is to realize that when you see a fine woman, he needs to think 'I like how she looks, but I can't say I like her yet because I don't know her' instead of thinking 'I need her by any means necessary.' They used to tell us back in the day over and over, you have to let a hoe be a hoe and you can't change a hoe into a housewife, and yet this new generation think they have some new-age game they can discard this time-tested advice and they are getting the fruits of their disobedience. What is 'new-age' more times than not isn't new. It's just something that didn't work in the past that is being resurrected because people want to do something different or they are too lazy or not real enough to do it the way that has worked throughout time.

 

[kevm3]

Man something I've figured out is that the vast majority of women don't really like 'you' for you. They just like the fact that you're a puzzle they haven't figured out yet. The more you reveal of yourself, the more common you become. We were told growing up that it was all about common interests and 'communicating' and a whole bunch of nonsense like that. Men did their best to have conversations about interests held in common ('what music do you like?', 'what movies do you like?, etc.) and come to find out, the more you shared about yourself, the more likely she was to peel off. Come to find out, when you attempted to solve issues by 'talking it out', she got bored and left. There are only a few women you will come across in life that really like you and what you're all about, and you better not miss those. You get one of those 'puzzle seekers' and they're bound to leave at any time because once you stop bringing something 'new' to the table, they will get bored and leave. These women only 'act right' as long as they are under the thrill of a mystery. You really have to filter these women out and see if they are mystery seekers or if they are really interested in who you are.

 

[DaRealness]

You know what I realized has not been discussed...what are you guys thoughts on "wedding proposals" and getting on your hands and knees to beg a woman to "please marry me"

As a man, you're the leader, therefore you're supposed to assume a dominant position at all times. So no, none of this getting on your knees rubbish as if you're cleaning the floor with a sponge. When your manager wants to promote you, does he get on one knee and ask? LMAO.

Nothing wrong with holding your woman's hand while you both sit down and looking into her eyes and popping the question. You can still make your woman feel loved and special (provided she's already proven herself worthy of that of course) without taking all these sissyfied positions. I never understood this whole getting down on one knee crap with your woman towering over you. I didn't do that when I proposed and I never will if I ever remarry. These are the same dudes that would walk around with the shopping bags while their woman walks in front of them and shyt.

As for these elaborate, public proposals with cornballs doing cartwheels and parachuting and all that....don't even get me started.

 

[DaRealness]

So I'm just doing my thing and I got a FaceTime call from my ex... ..

I didn't pick up of course. I don't know what she wants. I'm just convincing myself that it was a mistake on her end. She didn't text or make any contact before that. It's just so strange. I don't wanna initiate contact.. Cause most likely she'll tell me oh it was a mistake or something.

Yeah, "mistake" my johnson. If she deleted your details in the first place she wouldn't make that "mistake". Most times they just do little shyt to make sure they're still on your mind.