Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

kevm3

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this here is a prime example of whatg you were saying about them acting different behind closed doors.but the total confusion is we are meant to be official she even went outta here way to buy me valentines gifts and over the past couple weeks has been sending me voicemails telling me she loves me and all that.

if you want to put it on the line and see what it is, you can do like hot boy ronald said... have one of your boys send her a message like, 'hey beautiful i seen ya and just had to contact u. do u have a man or are you talking to anyone?"

see how she responds and that'll tell you everything you want to know.
 

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i dont think its worth hiring a under cover facebook detective the fact that she put on her status that shes single on valentines speaks loud enough volumes to me.i just wanna know why she would buy me valentines gifts and fake a relationship with me.
which one is the truth her social media persona or what???
 

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ite brehs heres the low down total confusion this valentines season.
to cut a long strory i been supposedly seeing this chick for the past couple months shes doing the usual bs saying how she loves me and wants to spend her life with me after knowing me since december(:mjpls:).
we met up yesterday and went to the movies as she had work today to my suprise the bytch hands me a lil bag full of gifts (cologne,v day card.and heart shaped box of chocolate).
so i go on her facebook (she doesnt know that i know it) and i see a status from a couple days ago which says "single on valentines and i dont give a damn" :ld:
and another today saying her mom is her valentines you know the usual corny bs

wat the fuk does this mean brehs???im actually catching feeling for this broad but shes acting single on facebook shes religious and works goes to college my type looks wise :ohlawd:

and to top it off she texts me while im on my way home yesterday saying shes mad that i didnt kiss her and say happy v day but bytch you talking bout your single on facebook :mindblown:

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There's no point beating around the bush(es) because that's exactly where this chick belongs. She supposedly "loves" you after only a couple of months (that only is a sign she's full of shyt) and wants to spend her life with you, but totally ignores your existence on FB, pretty much advertising herself to other dudes. She's simply a deceitful bytch looking for an ego boost from you and nothing more. LOL @ "you never kissed me or said happy valentines". What a nerve.

There's nothing to think about in this situation because the writing is on the wall. If I'm your man and you deny me or don't acknowledge me to others, you ain't shyt.

She'll be asking for money and favours next. She needs to go, simple as that. Don't let her waste any more of your time.
 

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it is defined we are dating but shes hit me with the i love you and what to spend my life with you talk.

Don't read to deep into that. Gotta understand those feelings can change, if/once someone else gets her attention. In no way am I trying to discourage you, but now that you saw that FB and it clearly bother you...you should see what exactly the deal is. Don't make any assumptions. In the grand scheme of relationships, we're all dispensable.
 

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a lot of misinterpretations taken from my post.just to clear things up
1.i aint on facebook like that but i found out what hers is without her giving it to me.
2.we are dating
 

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the fact she put herself out there like she's feeling lonely says enough, but sometimes you need confirmation to really know what it is in your mind. What is her 'dating status' on facebook?
 

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the fact she put herself out there like she's feeling lonely says enough, but sometimes you need confirmation to really know what it is in your mind. What is her 'dating status' on facebook?
cant see any relationship status must be hidden but as i can see she aint claiming me on there anyway so fuk it.we all know women are the GOAT trolls when it comes to their emotions and feelings but why do you guys think she went as far as buying me valentines gifts then?
 
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cant see any relationship status must be hidden but as i can see she aint claiming me on there anyway so fuk it.we all know women are the GOAT trolls when it comes to their emotions and feelings but why do you guys think she went as far as buying me valentines gifts then?

I still trying to figure out what you told her you were thinking.

It's semantics but its sounds like y'all were "dating" but not in a "relationship" so she actually is single.

Are you claiming her in anyway?
 

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a lot of misinterpretations taken from my post.just to clear things up
1.i aint on facebook like that but i found out what hers is without her giving it to me.
2.we are dating

she posting like a single lady on facebook breh - you taking her out and giving her your time and energy but yall ain't "dating" cause she's putting herself in a position to choose or be chosen. take these last months for what they were, some ass (i hope :lupe:) and a semi-expensive lesson
 

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I still trying to figure out what you told her you were thinking.

It's semantics but its sounds like y'all were "dating" but not in a "relationship" so she actually is single.

Are you claiming her in anyway?
by her giving me valentines gifts and telling me she loves me everyday i got the idea we were in a relationship.
but after seeing that shyt on her facebook i guess its just dating.
you cant really expect no real commitment after a couple months i guess it is what it is though.
 

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was she ever like, "I met someone special" or gave any notifications that she was dating you at all on facebook? Like prior to this valentines day thing? on some, "met a very special guy" or "he makes me feel so loved" or is it like you were never mentioned at all?
 
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