Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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by her giving me valentines gifts and telling me she loves me everyday i got the idea we were in a relationship.
but after seeing that shyt on her facebook i guess its just dating.
you cant really expect no real commitment after a couple months i guess it is what it is though.

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You do understand in woman logic the fact you haven't (from what I can tell) reciprocated beyond going on dates with her is why she things she is single correct?
 

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was she ever like, "I met someone special" or gave any notifications that she was dating you at all on facebook? Like prior to this valentines day thing? on some, "met a very special guy" or "he makes me feel so loved" or is it like you were never mentioned at all?
nope you wouldnt know i existed lol thats why i said a few pages back i probably could never trust a chick if theres is no acknowledge of me be it a pic or status.
 

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You do understand in woman logic the fact you haven't (from what I can tell) reciprocated beyond going on dates with her is why she things she is single correct?
breh i have :what: where do y'all get the idea that im not being aggresive with what i want
 

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nope you wouldnt know i existed lol thats why i said a few pages back i probably could never trust a chick if theres is no acknowledge of me be it a pic or status.

that right there tells me something is funny. whenever a chick meets a dude she likes, she usually says something about him on social networking. She might not name him by name, but she might say stuff like 'feeling so loved.' Something seems off with her unless she is just this unbelievably emotionally cool woman, which I doubt.
 

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breh i have :what: where do y'all get the idea that im not being aggresive with what i want
Because all you keep mentioning is her buying you things and telling you how she feels. You haven't said you have done any of that. From what you tell us you just go on dates with her. Either you aren't doing which is fine or you aren't telling the whole story.

My only point is that it's easy to see why she is claiming single if you haven't told her how you feel in response to the gift and I Love yous.
 

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that right there tells me something is funny. whenever a chick meets a dude she likes, she usually says something about him on social networking. She might not name him by name, but she might say stuff like 'feeling so loved.' Something seems off with her unless she is just this unbelievably emotionally cool woman, which I doubt.
why would she buy me valentines day gifts and meet with me if it was all fake?
 

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that right there tells me something is funny. whenever a chick meets a dude she likes, she usually says something about him on social networking. She might not name him by name, but she might say stuff like 'feeling so loved.' Something seems off with her unless she is just this unbelievably emotionally cool woman, which I doubt.
why would she buy me valentines day gifts and meet with me if it was all fake?
 

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Because all you keep mentioning is her buying you things and telling you how she feels. You haven't said you have done any of that. From what you tell us you just go on dates with her. Either you aren't doing which is fine or you aren't telling the whole story.

My only point is that it's easy to see why she is claiming single if you haven't told her how you feel in response to the gift and I Love yous.
breh im a guy you know damn well i have done all the above
aint no chick that aggresive all on her own unless the nikka a celeb :pachaha:
 

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i could be wrong man... i ran the situation by a couple of my boys and one said it sounds like she's playing games and the other one says it sounds like she wants you to commit.
 

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i could be wrong man... i ran the situation by a couple of my boys and one said it sounds like she's playing games and the other one says it sounds like she wants you to commit.
shyt is quite complex if even you arent sure lol but ima just go with it being the usual game playing her making sure she has a hold of me while still keeping her options open.
 

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More tales from the wacky world of simpery:

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/365420/The-girl-I-adore-has-sex-with-anyone

I CAN’T turn my back without my girlfriend getting off with another guy.

It’s a sad fact, but I simply can’t trust her. She insists that she loves me, but she’s got a funny way of showing it.

In the past 12 months, she’s slept with three of my mates, two of her ex-boyfriends and her mum’s ex-lover too – and they’re just the people I know about.

One day I walked into my flat share and caught her naked with two of my flatmate’s brothers.


They claimed that they were simply playing strip poker – and that she was losing – but there was a half-drunk bottle of vodka on the table and I’m convinced that they’d all been bonking.

That’s the thing with my girl, she always blames booze for her downfall.

She claims that alcohol does funny things to her brain.

Yet when I suggest she gives it up she says that she can’t enjoy a night out without it – so we’re stuck in a Catch 22 situation.

Unfortunately, taking responsibility for her actions never occurs to her.

I suspect that most guys in my place would simply walk away from a girl like her, but my problem is that I love her and keep thinking that I can change her bad girl ways.

I’ve got a great Valentine’s weekend of treats all lined up, flowers, meals out, chocolates, and lingerie, in the hope that she’ll finally see that I’m the best thing that has ever happened to her.


So, this is what I need, Jane – tips on finally making the girl mine, all mine.





These dudes never cease to amaze me. :snoop:
 

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shyt is quite complex if even you arent sure lol but ima just go with it being the usual game playing her making sure she has a hold of me while still keeping her options open.

Pretty much why I say focus on life and treat these women as something that comes and goes, because you can't ever really know why in the world women do what they do. Woman will say she loves you every day, and do everything for you, but then say she doesn't know what love is when she's talking to someone else. I don't know why they do it, but after being exposed to the behavior, I see it for what it is. Women change like the wind. Honestly, I can't tell you 100% that your woman is doing right, but from my perspective, it doesn't seem right. A woman loves you, says she'll be with you forever, but never brings you up or mentions you at all in private? Just from my perspective it sounds like a woman that is cool with having you around, but is also keeping her options open in the event of an upgrade.
 

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More tales from the wacky world of simpery:

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/365420/The-girl-I-adore-has-sex-with-anyone

I CAN’T turn my back without my girlfriend getting off with another guy.

It’s a sad fact, but I simply can’t trust her. She insists that she loves me, but she’s got a funny way of showing it.

In the past 12 months, she’s slept with three of my mates, two of her ex-boyfriends and her mum’s ex-lover too – and they’re just the people I know about.

One day I walked into my flat share and caught her naked with two of my flatmate’s brothers.


They claimed that they were simply playing strip poker – and that she was losing – but there was a half-drunk bottle of vodka on the table and I’m convinced that they’d all been bonking.

That’s the thing with my girl, she always blames booze for her downfall.

She claims that alcohol does funny things to her brain.

Yet when I suggest she gives it up she says that she can’t enjoy a night out without it – so we’re stuck in a Catch 22 situation.

Unfortunately, taking responsibility for her actions never occurs to her.

I suspect that most guys in my place would simply walk away from a girl like her, but my problem is that I love her and keep thinking that I can change her bad girl ways.

I’ve got a great Valentine’s weekend of treats all lined up, flowers, meals out, chocolates, and lingerie, in the hope that she’ll finally see that I’m the best thing that has ever happened to her.


So, this is what I need, Jane – tips on finally making the girl mine, all mine.





These dudes never cease to amaze me. :snoop:

You can only blame the woman for so long when the dudes keep on letting the behavior to go on. Some of these cats reading this thread might think we're quick to kick a woman to the side, but when they see what really goes down, they'll understand. If you got a notion something is wrong, most likely it is.
 

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The thing about some dudes is that you can't even say they never went with their gut feeling, because to say that would imply the disrespect was more subtle than it was blatant. To have your woman cheat right in front of your face in your bed with no remorse, yet you're still gonna go all out to wine and dine her and spend your hard earned cash to "win" her over despite being burnt several times, then it's probably too late for you.
 
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