Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Jone2three45]

how would i sound if i send a girl this message?

"i've been trying to get you to hang out for the past 3 months. Maybe you're not feeling it. But i just want to be friends and get to know you better. If that's not cool with you, then let me know and we won't waste each other's time."

this bytch messages me here and there .. asks me questions then disappears. I've asked her to chill with me a couple times but i get the runaround. Last night she messaged me out of the blue, chatted with her for a bit then told her i'm going to bed. But before saying bye i said you still owe me a cake (something we talked about a few months ago) .. bish just says good night.

She's just not interested.

Bushes breh.

 

[The ADD]

She's just not interested.

Bushes breh.

^^^

And dont even think about sending her that message. Take the sack and punt.

 

[Jone2three45]

^^^

And dont even think about sending her that message. Take the sack and punt.

Word.

 

[The Frozen One]

She's just not interested.

Bushes breh.

bytch is already in the bushes breh. I don't even hit her up no more. She hit me up last night so maybe she doesn't know my intention with her. So I thought of that message. It's already rock bottom with her, what's more left to lose right?

But anyways, didn't send her the message.

 

[Jone2three45]

bytch is already in the bushes breh. I don't even hit her up no more. She hit me up last night so maybe she doesn't know my intention with her. So I thought of that message. It's already rock bottom with her, what's more left to lose right?

But anyways, didn't send her the message.

Good man.

 

[Broad Street Bully]

^^^

And dont even think about sending her that message. Take the sack and punt.

ya breh, listen to this.

man i wish i was on the coli when i had this lightskin bytch gimme the runaround around last year smh.

i was like the cowboys defense tryna sack McNabb that game when when he was scrambling around the pocket for like twelve seconds

 

[The Frozen One]

ya breh, listen to this.

man i wish i was on the coli when i had this lightskin bytch gimme the runaround around last year smh.

i was like the cowboys defense tryna sack McNabb that game when when he was scrambling around the pocket for like twelve seconds

What was the interaction like? Did she know you were trying to hit? Or were you looking for long term thing? I think the issue is that getting your intention right. So if you upfront from the beginning then you save a lot of time. How long did you know her for?

 

[BreezyH]

how would i sound if i send a girl this message?

"i've been trying to get you to hang out for the past 3 months. Maybe you're not feeling it. But i just want to be friends and get to know you better. If that's not cool with you, then let me know and we won't waste each other's time."

this bytch messages me here and there .. asks me questions then disappears. I've asked her to chill with me a couple times but i get the runaround. Last night she messaged me out of the blue, chatted with her for a bit then told her i'm going to bed. But before saying bye i said you still owe me a cake (something we talked about a few months ago) .. bish just says good night.

nah, i'm messing with you breh. i know where your heart's at with this man, and on the surface it seems logical - hit person with layout of the situation and let them decide. women don't function like that - it's a bunch of misdirection, mixed signals, all designed to keep you on your heels and at a distance until she exhausts her other options. unfortunately, only actions tell you about what a person wants. if she wanted to chill, she'd walk through a snowstorm just to meetup and then walk back home with a smile. even though it just seems to be texts at this point, she's wasting your time. just the fact that you're spending brain power thinking about it is too much for a woman who has made no significant investment in even getting to know you. cut her off cold turkey and let her thoughts swirl a little.

 

[The Frozen One]

nah, i'm messing with you breh. i know where your heart's at with this man, and on the surface it seems logical - hit person with layout of the situation and let them decide. women don't function like that - it's a bunch of misdirection, mixed signals, all designed to keep you on your heels and at a distance until she exhausts her other options. unfortunately, only actions tell you about what a person wants. if she wanted to chill, she'd walk through a snowstorm just to meetup and then walk back home with a smile. even though it just seems to be texts at this point, she's wasting your time. just the fact that you're spending brain power thinking about it is too much for a woman who has made no significant investment in even getting to know you. cut her off cold turkey and let her thoughts swirl a little.

ya that's what i did. i stopped talking to her. then she hit me up out of the blue asking me what i've been upto and how come she hasn't seen me at work.

 

[kevm3]

@kevm3 Dude, those two articles, by the askmen cat, was not that bad.

I grow tired of cats being upset at the idea we still must strive to be better people, regardless of the behavior of others.

I can understand the impatience associated with the constant "advice" aimed at exclusively men, to be better partner. But, the dude writes for a site called ask men.

Again, we scream "LET US LEAD," but, we pass responsibility of the state of relationships to women and we constantly chase women that are no good for us. You guys really think ya'll can mold ANY WOMAN into an ideal partner? Find a woman that respects you and will follow your lead. And stop trying to fit square pegs into round cubes.

If you follow that advice, have fun ending up in the friend zone. That's what's so dangerous about the advice. In a perfect world, following that advice would lead you to the glorious life of finding a loyal woman, but go ahead and put it to the test if you don't believe me. There's a reason that the majority of people agreeing with his advice are females.

http://jamesmsama.wordpress.com/2014/02/01/8-acts-of-chivalry-to-bring-back/

There's a reason chivalry has all but disappeared, and it's not because men have decided to be mean out of nowhere.

 

[George Gooney]

Had a talk with my homegirl who said she doesn't count oral sex as real sex and doesn't count nikkas she gave dome to or dudes she let eat that thang but ain't put their Johnson in in her "number". How y'all feel about this? @kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf @colibrehs.

 

[Broad Street Bully]

What was the interaction like? Did she know you were trying to hit? Or were you looking for long term thing? I think the issue is that getting your intention right. So if you upfront from the beginning then you save a lot of time. How long did you know her for?

i was a total simp breh. like i would put gambino to shame when it comes to this simp shyt lmao. i was looking to be with her, she wasnt feeling it but it took her till like december to tell me she wasnt feeling me like that. its crazy, she dogged the shyt out me.

thats when i found out the hard way that that wining and dining an courting a bytch is wack, dont do it.

 

[CrossBones]

Had a talk with my homegirl who said she doesn't count oral sex as real sex and doesn't count nikkas she gave dome to or dudes she let eat that thang but ain't put their Johnson in in her "number". How y'all feel about this? @kevm3 @reincar @colibrehs.

sex is sexual contact. if shes out here touching/sucking dudes dikks to get them off, or if shes getting off on having them eat her out, then thats sex. if it wasnt sex, then their bodies wouldnt be involved with giving each other sexual pleasure. thats pretty much all it comes down to.

this is more female double talk and hiding the truth from what it is. theyll change the definition of words to get by with some mess. sometimes you just got to break things down to see exactly what is being said. the best thing though is to just go with that feeling in your gut to see it seems right, or if what theyre saying is bullshyt. we know deep down whats right for us and what we should or shouldnt accept. no need to worry about what someone else thinks of our opinions, it should only matter in the end for you

 

[Broad Street Bully]

Had a talk with my homegirl who said she doesn't count oral sex as real sex and doesn't count nikkas she gave dome to or dudes she let eat that thang but ain't put their Johnson in in her "number". How y'all feel about this? @kevm3 @reincar @colibrehs.

idk man, so what, she aint tryna add up her body count or something?

 

[The Frozen One]

i was a total simp breh. like i would put gambino to shame when it comes to this simp shyt lmao. i was looking to be with her, she wasnt feeling it but it took her till like december to tell me she wasnt feeling me like that. its crazy, she dogged the shyt out me.

thats when i found out the hard way that that wining and dining an courting a bytch is wack, dont do it.

ya i'm trying to avoid all that crap. I haven't simped her in anyway. I've had just regular conversation. Either face to face at work, or here and there through text/fb.

i just wanna hang out with her so she can get to know me.