Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Kenny West]

I feel kind of dumb asking this but...is there like some sort of "magic words" or body language that would tell a female your not trying to be friend-zoned, but not come off as creepy or anything?

I always had problems with not being aggressive enough, but I damn sure ain't trying to have any with being TOO aggressive....

I read a good quote once that goes: "Lead physically, but follow emotionally"

Basically means you can convey your sexual intent physically, without saying anything thirsty or just isn't you.

Give women waist level hugs, put a hand on her leg/thigh in a convo and LEAVE it there, lots of infrequent touching. shyt like that. It really helps make your intentions clear better than anything else. I remember hanging with a female friend one night after we got done blazing. We known each other over 2 years at the time and I felt like she kinda digged me but she never really overtly chose. I casually slapped her ass and bruh, this chick's face lit up like . Turns out she wanted to try me since day one. Had I not smacked her cheeks I woulda never knew. And if I stated intent verbally she coulda just played it off. kino still king

For verbal statements of intent you just have to say some slick innuendo that can be interpreted sexually. I think these up off the cuff so I don't really got anything for ya there. It's a very fine line with those. If you just meeting a chick tho a good idea is to ask her questions that screen her for wifey traits/red flags. Sets a good tone, since no simps will ask her if she can cook and shyt like that

 

[TheArchitect]

I read a good quote once that goes: "Lead physically, but follow emotionally"

Basically means you can convey your sexual intent physically, without saying anything thirsty or just isn't you.

Give women waist level hugs, put a hand on her leg/thigh in a convo and LEAVE it there, lots of infrequent touching. shyt like that. It really helps make your intentions clear better than anything else. I remember hanging with a female friend one night after we got done blazing. We known each other over 2 years at the time and I felt like she kinda digged me but she never really overtly chose. I casually slapped her ass and bruh, this chick's face lit up like . Turns out she wanted to try me since day one. Had I not smacked her cheeks I woulda never knew. And if I stated intent verbally she coulda just played it off. kino still king

For verbal statements of intent you just have to say some slick innuendo that can be interpreted sexually. I think these up off the cuff so I don't really got anything for ya there. It's a very fine line with those. If you just meeting a chick tho a good idea is to ask her questions that screen her for wifey traits/red flags. Sets a good tone, since no simps will ask her if she can cook and shyt like that

How'd you come to that conclusion? Reason I ask is because I'm a bit oblivious at times, so I've heard....

 

[Mr.Plan B]

That's a good thing. It indicates to her you're interested, seeing that she openly flirts with you.

You're thinking about it too much, if she's cute and great eyes and openly flirts, go for the kill next time you see her my nig

Let us know what happens

Well today went bad.

She said hi to me i said wasup still being her flirty self. Her friend also work with us,is from Africa she okay looking. One day last week i made small talk with her about some food she was making and i smiled. Just being nice trying to pass the time........

Now the chick super like me. Today she made me a dessert and i did not even ask for it. Everything she locks eyes with me she smiles. Now it awkward because i still want the other chick. Also the first chick had two rings on her fingers so idk about even talking to her now. Which finger is the ring fingers? So i check tomorrow i can see if she taken.....

And all the girls in the kitchen where standing around talking about me with the African girl then girl one come and walk up to me ask me age i tell her 20 she walk back to the girl group and they start talking then laughing .This lasted 15 mins until my work day was over.........

I tired to tell myself fukk it im not about to make myself seem awkward about the whole thing but they kept staring at me and laughing to themselves i check my face i had nothing on it idk what the fukk is wrong with them.....................

kinda done with the whole thing now im just duck them at work..........

 

[NormanConnors]

Well today went bad.

She said hi to me i said wasup still being her flirty self. Her friend also work with us,is from Africa she okay looking. One day last week i made small talk with her about some food she was making and i smiled. Just being nice trying to pass the time........

Now the chick super like me. Today she made me a dessert and i did not even ask for it. Everything she locks eyes with me she smiles. Now it awkward because i still want the other chick. Also the first chick had two rings on her fingers so idk about even talking to her now. Which finger is the ring fingers? So i check tomorrow i can see if she taken.....

And all the girls in the kitchen where standing around talking about me with the African girl then girl one come and walk up to me ask me age i tell her 20 she walk back to the girl group and they start talking then laughing .This lasted 15 mins until my work day was over.........

I tired to tell myself fukk it im not about to make myself seem awkward about the whole thing but they kept staring at me and laughing to themselves i check my face i had nothing on it idk what the fukk is wrong with them.....................

kinda done with the whole thing now im just duck them at work..........

ring finger is on the left hand, next to the pinky, yeah definitely check for that, i've learned the hard way on two occassions

those girls in the kitchen sound kind of young, nevertheless they are plotting though, you can probably eat well with at least a couple from the group if you're into dealing with chicks at the job.

 

[Jesus]

Chick I've been smashing talking about she doesn't really like sex and she won't have sex again until she's in a relationship. Allegedly her intention was to wait, but I got her caught up.

 

[Kenny West]

How'd you come to that conclusion? Reason I ask is because I'm a bit oblivious at times, so I've heard....

honestly it was more of a hunch just from the various times hanging out. She did try to wrestle me one time when she was drunk tho

I'm oblivious too tho. My system is to just go for it if I get 2+ go signals. Prolonged eye contact, the hair flip, biting lip, crossing legs in your direction while standing, body towards you and - like acceptance to any type of physical advance.

 

[Rich Spirit]

Chick I've been smashing talking about she doesn't really like sex and she won't have sex again until she's in a relationship. Allegedly her intention was to wait, but I got her caught up.

Yea chicks say shyt like that when they find new dikk


how did you catch her?

 

[MikelArteta]

Chick I've been smashing talking about she doesn't really like sex and she won't have sex again until she's in a relationship. Allegedly her intention was to wait, but I got her caught up.

aka she feels like a whore now and is pondering if you actually like her for more than sex, now she's trying to pressure you into exclusivity and commitment by withholding sex.

i hope you her, mainly because she's using manipulation tactics, this isn't the first or the last time shes set the trap and then pulled the mat under a dudes unsuspecting self

 

[sixsixtwo]

Chick I've been smashing talking about she doesn't really like sex and she won't have sex again until she's in a relationship. Allegedly her intention was to wait, but I got her caught up.

Dumb broad is trying to the put the genie back in the bottle, get her the fukk out of here!

 

[DaRealness]

Chick I've been smashing talking about she doesn't really like sex and she won't have sex again until she's in a relationship. Allegedly her intention was to wait, but I got her caught up.

One word - bushes.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

it will be interesting to see if this chick hits me up im tired of chasing havent text this chick since monday and its now friday i refuse to text first yet again

 

[Medio]

it will be interesting to see if this chick hits me up im tired of chasing havent text this chick since monday and its now friday i refuse to text first yet again

when she's bored she will

 

[Shameonyou]

when she's bored she will

90 percent of women hit people up because they are bored

 

[MikelArteta]

sometimes movies have great scenes in dealing with women couple of my favs

 

[Jone2three45]

when she's bored she will

This. She's not interested in you and will only think of you when she's not giving her attention to others guys. Dude should have been thrown her away in the bushes.