Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

trying to convince a woman you're in a relationship of something by providing a well reasoned argument is just going to piss her off. it's like talking to the wind. never argue about an event, an incident, etc. if she's a good woman, just bring it back home and talk about the fundamentals of the relationship...

"baby do you think i would do anything to hurt you?"

"i trust you and I assume you trust me..."

yeah it's a little "game", but in a good relationship, these things should also be true. you're just short circuiting the usual male/female disconnect that happens when you try to argue your case.

I'll keep that in mind.
I keep forgetting women don't understand logic

 

[TheArchitect]

I think my main problem is my convo, I THINK. See, it's not that I can't carry a conversation, it's that..ehhh, I sometimes have trouble keeping a female's attention (usually this is when I'm speaking to someone new). IDK if they just can't carry a convo worth shyt or what. It frustrates me because my thought process is " So how did the others that hit manage to hold a conversation with this broad? Talking to her is like talking to a damn poodle; what am I doing wrong"....

I also think I may lack "charm" (I've never been told this, but I'm thinking maybe that's what it is). It's like, people have told me I seem mean or unapproachable (probably because of eyes)....

Basically, I'm just trying to at least be able to stay on a chick's mind/keep her attention after I've left.....

 

[MikelArteta]

Breh im starting to think that if a female catches you doing something wrong she'll always stay with you if you act like you ain't faded.

Her: fukk you sending pictures of yo dikk to bytches fuh?

You:

Her;

You:

Her: *I love him though*

sad to say but women want what other women want. Knowing that you as a man can get another girl or are talking to other girls shows that you are wanted, that your attractive that she has to fight to keep you and keeping you is a accomplishment.

It's why in all my years I've rarely heard of a woman divorcing, breaking up with a man on the first time he cheated, talked to another girl, sent a dirty picture etc., she may get angry but he always gets another chance. Yes women will say i dumped my ex he cheated, but you dig deeper that wasn't the first time he cheated.

sad to say its why you sometimes have to keep your friends that are females in the picture or still casually flirt, a large segment of women don't want you to feel that they are the best you can do.

@BonitaChelz speak on this

 

[MikelArteta]

I think my main problem is my convo, I THINK. See, it's not that I can't carry a conversation, it's that..ehhh, I sometimes have trouble keeping a female's attention (usually this is when I'm speaking to someone new). IDK if they just can't carry a convo worth shyt or what. It frustrates me because my thought process is " So how did the others that hit manage to hold a conversation with this broad? Talking to her is like talking to a damn poodle; what am I doing wrong"....

I also think I may lack "charm" (I've never been told this, but I'm thinking maybe that's what it is). It's like, people have told me I seem mean or unapproachable (probably because of eyes)....

Basically, I'm just trying to at least be able to stay on a chick's mind/keep her attention after I've left.....

stop overthinking it and just be natural.

if you dont have alot to say perfect, be the mysterious brother.

 

[The Frozen One]

talking to this stupid bytch.

me: why you playing hard to get
her: i am hard to get.
me:
her: lol
me:
her: seriously

then i didn't respond to her after that.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

sad to say but women want what other women want. Knowing that you as a man can get another girl or are talking to other girls shows that you are wanted, that your attractive that she has to fight to keep you and keeping you is a accomplishment.

It's why in all my years I've rarely heard of a woman divorcing, breaking up with a man on the first time he cheated, talked to another girl, sent a dirty picture etc., she may get angry but he always gets another chance. Yes women will say i dumped my ex he cheated, but you dig deeper that wasn't the first time he cheated.

sad to say its why you sometimes have to keep your friends that are females in the picture or still casually flirt, a large segment of women don't want you to feel that they are the best you can do.

@BonitaChelz speak on this

So how would I be able to give my woman that feeling without her having to catch me doing something wrong?

 

[Atlrocafella]

Make this week the week of boldness! Do not fear anything.

 

[Two Stacks]

Old ass shyt from an article dealing with Bishop Eddie Long:

If you ask Kissy, women should really stop saying they want a man be of the church, of God or God fearing.. I bet that’s what his wife asked for. (You always get what you ask for) A man going to church has no determining factor on how he is going to treat you and the lifestyle he is going to lead when your back is turned. Stop falling for everything you hear everyone else say.. . If he is a preacher and blackening your eye every other month will his “God fearing” church ways still matter to you? No, I don’t think so. People commit all types of crimes in the name of God.. This is done so easily because people don’t think for themselves. Pray for a man who will treat you well and spoil you. Pray for a man who will give you good loving, be a good provider and a good family man. Pray for a man who adores you.
Bishop Eddie Long has that LOOONG Money. He settled out of court for 25 million | Ask Kissy.com - Celebrity Gossip http://askkissy.com/2011/06/10/bish...ed-out-of-court-for-25-million/#ixzz2wBXBCAYA
AskKissy.com

:stephena2:

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

This chick told me she never had a orgasm. I'm tryna change that..

 

[Medio]

This chick told me she never had a orgasm. I'm tryna change that..

good luck, some women have a condition where it's VERY VERY hard for her to receive one, no matter what you do.

 

[Gus Money]

Let's discuss the stupidity of dating a chick you work with

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

good luck, some women have a condition where it's VERY VERY hard for her to receive one, no matter what you do.

Yea I think she's like that but you know my ego thinks I can do it. I been googling about it and all lol

 

[Medio]

Yea I think she's like that but you know my ego thinks I can do it. I been googling about it and all lol

yea, that's good. you need to really find that spot with you penis, in addition play with her clit like crazy, do crazy ass foreplay, talk to her about how much you care about her (if she's you're gf), anything to turn her on besides your dikk can help with cases like this.

i've had to read up on this too lol

 

[CanesMiamiLakers]

yea, that's good. you need to really find that spot with you penis, in addition play with her clit like crazy, do crazy ass foreplay, talk to her about how much you care about her (if she's you're gf), anything to turn her on besides your dikk can help with cases like this.

i've had to read up on this too lol

She's not my girl just some chick I'm a knock off but once she told me that I was intrigued. But from what I read it says a lot of foreplay with a lot of teasing. Like licking around the nipples and kissing around the V which is good cause I don't eat. Basically have her begging for penetration

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

There's two types of dudes when it comes to relationships. You got the dudes that are looking for excuses to keep a chick. And then you got the dudes that are looking for an excuse to get rid of a chick. the former is a simp. the latter increases his odds of prospering because he automatically has a higher standard and compromises a lot less on what he wants and his happiness.

this one might sound a little extreme but whatever.

I'm definitely the latter. But maybe that's why I'm single... Everyone says I'm too picky.

Not gonna lie, this life aint for everybody. shyt gets lonely sometimes. A few times I thought about settling with a chick I wasn't really into but I'm glad I didn't. I'm a finicky dude, I'll scroll through some facebook pics later and be like "Glad I didn't commit to that."