Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CrossBones]

when it comes down to it, we all are gonna have to stop putting the blame on others and learn to respond with problems by dealing with our own actions. use your own mind and strength to save you

we can always point to the manipulating, favor asking, money grabbing ho to blame, but what did YOU do about it? in your life, just how far were you willing go let someone get with you? we can look at men who are dealing with cheaters and they knew the signs, but what are they doing to get out of the situation? wheres their nuts, their initiative to take a stand/ make choice? if youre in a situation which isnt working for you, then what are YOU doing about it?

accepting your personal responsibility is about a constant awareness, and is the most important choice we can make in life. while stopping to point the finger and gain pity is the weakest choice.

with that said, Im not letting anybody off the hook for their treacherous actions they may make, Im just self aware enough to the point that Im not letting myself be a part of their games. you have to realize your role in everything, and realize your choices to get out.

this thread is best for its knowledge and experience that others can use as a survey of the area, of our time. maybe even relate. after that, its on you to know where you stand and what youre willing to take. if you lack the courage to specifically own up to what youre doing at all times in your life, and you lack the courage of being honest with yourself, then youre going to continue to be used as target for everyone else who does know what your weakness is

 

[kevm3]

Absolutely one of the best threads on the coli, and any message board I've been on. I'll be the first to say that I changed how i used to do things based on this thread, and there is always something new to learn. to all the brehs that have dropped powerful gems in here, especially the breh @kevm3

that's what's great about this thread. no one is hating on each other, trying to compete with each other or talking down. everyone is just sharing knowledge and people applying to their life if it works. to me that's how men should interact amongst each other instead of catty hating and slick tlaking

 

[Mr210]

this thread is so so powerful

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

i didn't mean like a 'reveal you hand' typ'a thing. I meant, make your intentions known so that shorty knows you are a potential nikka she can fukk and perhaps develop a relationship with rather than being a nikka that is a pu$$y and a nikka she knows can be manipulated and used.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with tellin shorty you find her attractive and that even though ya'll may not know each other that well, you don't see why that can't change.

vs

talking to her whenever you get a chance to about common stuff and other mundane shyt

2 different actions with 2 very different outcomes.

and the reason why i say always do the former is because, if shorty agrees, you will almost always get what you want and if she doesn't, you can be at peace with yourself knowing that you tried and she just ain't the one. This also goes back to the point @Turbulent made about setting the frame from the jump and how it will dictate future interactions and actions between you and da b!tch.

I feel you.
But why let a chick know you think she's attractive? Most likely she dond heard that a ton of times

 

[Spin]

I feel you.
But why let a chick know you think she's attractive? Most likely she dond heard that a ton of times

I want to fukk = physical escalation and actions(grab her hand, put your hand on her waist/back/etc)



I think you're pretty = friendzone

 

[RealAssanova]

I feel you.
But why let a chick know you think she's attractive? Most likely she dond heard that a ton of times

attractive doesn't necessarily have to be a physical trait. Maybe you can say summin bout her outfit or eyes. Point i'm tryin to make is, you gotta let shyt be known from the jump. That will dictate whether or not she comes at you with lust and responds well to your advances or stiff arms you.

 

[CASHAPP]

we all mention it a thousand times on here but do any of you know what about women makes them age bad physically exactly? I mean besides the cliche answers about bad diets...i mean what about the way they are designed causes this?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I want to fukk = physical escalation and actions(grab her hand, put your hand on her waist/back/etc)



I think you're pretty = friendzone

I been fukking up

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

attractive doesn't necessarily have to be a physical trait. Maybe you can say summin bout her outfit or eyes. Point i'm tryin to make is, you gotta let shyt be known from the jump. That will dictate whether or not she comes at you with lust and responds well to your advances or stiff arms you.

Im lame as fukk b.

 

[RealAssanova]

Im lame as fukk b.

Nikka take that self-pity and

Be real wit yourself and wit shorty and let everything else fall into place.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Nikka take that self-pity and

Be real wit yourself and wit shorty and let everything else fall into place.

Breh I can't get nttn but nerd bytches.
Those the only ones I feel more confident with.
Problem is most women I encounter are hood.
I can't get them cuz im a square root.

 

[RealAssanova]

Breh I can't get nttn but nerd bytches.
Those the only ones I feel more confident with.
Problem is most women I encounter are hood.
I can't get them cuz im a square root.

if you doubt yourself, then yeah you prolly right.

You'd be surprised at yourself and the reaction a shorty gives you when you step to her.

 

[CASHAPP]

if you doubt yourself, then yeah you prolly right.



You'd be surprised at yourself and the reaction a shorty gives you when you step to her.

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Breh I can't get nttn but nerd bytches.
Those the only ones I feel more confident with.
Problem is most women I encounter are hood.
I can't get them cuz im a square root.

i be noticing at my job how when the second "doubt" enters my head when i glimpse on my right that the follow up customer is a hood bytch...that they smell the blood right away and i get something like "oh im not taking this" with them as if they are disregarding me ..even when you first greet them ...you get nothing in return....and not even a "thank you"

This is why like @FLYINHAWAIIAN i feel like i gotta struggle with this...i hate being "polite" cause they got no appreciation and do disrespectful shyt ....



and we keep talking about young women even though i asked ages ago if you guys could also discuss your experiences with OLDER WOMEN...and when i say older i don't mean 45....I mean like 60 and up......to basically show that they are all the same

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

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i be noticing at my job how when the second "doubt" enters my head when i glimpse on my right that the follow up customer is a hood bytch...that they smell the blood right away and i get something like "oh im not taking this" with them as if they are disregarding me ..even when you first greet them ...you get nothing in return....and not even a "thank you"

This is why like @FLYINHAWAIIAN i feel like i gotta struggle with this...i hate being "polite" cause they got no appreciation and do disrespectful shyt ....


and we keep talking about young women even though i asked ages ago if you guys could also discuss your experiences with OLDER WOMEN...and when i say older i don't mean 45....I mean like 60 and up......to basically show that they are all the same

Your comment confused me.
But im not built for hood hoes and thats all I be around so im pretty much doomed unless I find a square

 

[CASHAPP]

Your comment confused me.
But im not built for hood hoes and thats all I be around so im pretty much doomed unless I find a square

basically i meant how all our stories in here are about bad experiences with women up to the age of 45...but how we barely mention really old women as if they are pure and don't cause problems