Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I havent talked to my woman since saturday and im struggling :wow:
I know she wants alone time due to her family problems but its hard to not text:wow:

Its almost a week,somebody got to break the ice.I never understood the whole "im busy but cant send a tet or call" all due respect to her family and her problems but she could send you a text if she TRULY cares about you and your feelings.Cause trust if she had you in mind you would have got a text.
 

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Its almost a week,somebody got to break the ice.I never understood the whole "im busy but cant send a tet or call" all due respect to her family and her problems but she could send you a text if she TRULY cares about you and your feelings.Cause trust if she had you in mind you would have got a text.

I feel you breh.
She emo too though. So she be all depressed and wanna stick to herself because the world don't understand her.
 

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How long yall been "together"? Time to cut the bytch off. Family issues my ass. :aicmon:

Its been a year.
And she does have issues.
It's a handful of people in the house and she the only one that works; Her mom is sick and she pays for her medicine but still gets mad at her; Her sister only worries about herself; etc.
I can't cut her off.
I just gotta let her deal with her problems til she's not being so emotional.
Plus she's on her cycle.

What I need is other broads to keep me focused on them for the time being.
Got shot down twice yesterday :wow:
 

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i be noticing at my job how when the second "doubt" enters my head when i glimpse on my right that the follow up customer is a hood bytch...that they smell the blood right away and i get something like "oh im not taking this" with them as if they are disregarding me ..even when you first greet them ...you get nothing in return....and not even a "thank you"

This is why like @FLYINHAWAIIAN i feel like i gotta struggle with this...i hate being "polite" cause they got no appreciation and do disrespectful shyt ....


and we keep talking about young women even though i asked ages ago if you guys could also discuss your experiences with OLDER WOMEN...and when i say older i don't mean 45....I mean like 60 and up......to basically show that they are all the same
you just have to apply the same principle. the problem with older women is that they feel double the entitlement for being female and old and no one has the heart to challenge them by fear of social judgement. it's just about learning to deal with the awkwardness and accepting it. being in control of your emotions if she disrespects you. putting her in her place without losing your cool. One thing i'd like to touch on is that staying in control of your emotions doesn't mean not displaying emotion. doesn't mean you can't be angry or show you are angry. it doesn't mean you can't yell if you have to. what it means is that even when you display it, you are still controlling the emotion, you're not just going along with it. you should only yell or hit someone when it's necessary (and it very rarely is...). but yeah, over all the same rules apply. you just have to be at peace with the fact that some will hate you for not going along with the BS. Be cool from the beginning of the interaction with the customer but you need to treat them accordingly from the very beginning. you really can't control how other people act. it's about controlling yourself first and foremost. As Patrice would say, you have to give her the option of her acting right.
 

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Using the same rules on family members...my sister is a manipulating bytch. It hurts brehs.:wow:

Saying she'll come visit me for months and finally comes to town for a appointment with her old doctor she had when she stayed her and to pick up some stuff I let her leave in my extra bedroom as storage. Stays for 24hrs. and bounces. Been visiting her guy "friend" and homegirls in a different city that's the same difference from me....multiple times. Had problems getting gas money to visit her bro, but has the cash to visit these fast bytches and some nikka.

Didn't think I'd have to use I'd had to have my guard up to my own flesh and blood as compared to the street women. :to:

family is the worst at it breh, you have to watch them the closest, especially if you are a dependable dude.
 

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we all mention it a thousand times on here but do any of you know what about women makes them age bad physically exactly? I mean besides the cliche answers about bad diets...i mean what about the way they are designed causes this?

:patrice:

:manny: lifestyle, wearing too much makeup all day everyday, genetics, stress, no set answer imo. Not all women age bad though. Basing their future appearance off of how their mama looks is a bit of a myth also. Men are designed to be able to produce longer than females though, so maybe it is correlated in some way :manny:
 

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:manny: lifestyle, wearing too much makeup all day everyday, genetics, stress, no set answer imo. Not all women age bad though. Basing their future appearance off of how their mama looks is a bit of a myth also. Men are designed to be able to produce longer than females though, so maybe it is correlated in some way :manny:


a lot of it has to do with makeup, its not suppose to be caked on all day everyday
 
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