Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Broad Street Bully]

Its not that hard to go to places where non hood chicks chill at and bag them. Messing with hood chicks gets you 20+ years of child support and a free trip to Stamford, CT for the Maury show.

am not in the business of cuffing them lol.

 

[Broad Street Bully]

I feel you.
I can't even bring myself to approach because I know what they like and Im not that.
*I been charged by a few hoodrats in my day*

fukk em then

go to the next one. you'll find one thats feeling you for you breh. dont think, just do.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

fukk em then

go to the next one. you'll find one thats feeling you for you breh. dont think, just do.

idk breh
Hood hoes cause too much of a scene

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

KevM with the gospel again.
Just like how he said its amazing in the beginning when she knows nothing about you or trying to learn about you,
the texts, the phone calls, not cancelling plans, women go crazy for men who seem mysterious and/or indifferent.
Guys who have a take it or leave it attitude, guys who are if she doesnt talk to them again or if she does.
That's the mentality as a man imo you should have, if a woman doesn't reach out to you or show interest cut her out ,
fear is the one thing women hate, fear that she will never hear from you again. you ever wonder why exes reach out, or women you ignore
come back? Because of your inaction to what most men continually do CHASE.
A woman dumps a guy and offers friendship, men will say ok with hoping that it leads to something more, or they will say no. But at the drop
of a text message will reply and google what does it mean if my ex texts me after a week of no contact etc.
In a woman's mind she still has you, I remember when I tried to be friends with a ex and i said after awhile this isn't working, she told me
you'll come back, you always come back and that got me angry and I never said a word to her again (4 years and counting).

Women are attracted to guys whose feelings they are unsure of. He cheats but he says he loves me, does he? he treats me bad, but he does so many things,
he said he cares about me but bought me nothing for valentines day. He says he hates me but he still replies to my texts and comes over.
When females are certain of how you feel for them, "im attracted to you", "i love you", "im thinking of you all the time", "ill do anything for you"
that's when the bulb comes on oh hes not a challenge anymore, they don't have to work to get him anymore he's defeated, hes now predictible and boring the tingles are gone.

So is it safe to say to never give a straight forward answer to a female.
Like if she asks WHATS WRONG, WHY YOU AINT BEEN TEXTING, WHERE WE GOING, etc.
I think I have a problem with that cuz my woman used to do something I didnt like and when she asked what was wrong with me I'd tell her then she end up being the one mad at me cuz im mad at her.

 

[MikelArteta]

Communication is important in relationships if something is bothering speak up.

Thing is I don't sugarcoat my answers.

So is it safe to say to never give a straight forward answer to a female.
Like if she asks WHATS WRONG, WHY YOU AINT BEEN TEXTING, WHERE WE GOING, etc.
I think I have a problem with that cuz my woman used to do something I didnt like and when she asked what was wrong with me I'd tell her then she end up being the one mad at me cuz im mad at her.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Communication is important in relationships if something is bothering speak up.

Thing is I don't sugarcoat my answers.

Yea but women get upset when you let them know things are their fault.

 

[MikelArteta]

Who cares I'd they get upset.

Women get upset at the truth. Stop being the nice guy wussy pushover whose to scared to say anything because he may no longer get puzzy.

Yea but women get upset when you let them know things are their fault.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Who cares I'd they get upset.

Women get upset at the truth. Stop being the nice guy wussy pushover whose to scared to say anything because he may no longer get puzzy.

The job is to keep the peace though.
If you and a woman go out to the movies, dinner, dave and busters or something.
You don't wanna sit there and have her with a frown on her face fukking up the vibe.
You go there to enjoy yourself.

 

[Atlrocafella]

The job is to keep the peace though.
If you and a woman go out to the movies, dinner, dave and busters or something.
You don't wanna sit there and have her with a frown on her face fukking up the vibe.
You go there to enjoy yourself.

If you can't be truthful with your woman, you don't need to be with her, because at the end of the day you aren't being yourself. How many more things are you going to let slide just to keep the peace?? That's how nikkaz end up with massive headaches after a chick leave you for messing up 1 time. You gotta let them know upfront not to try you with any nonsense.

 

[CrossBones]

The job is to keep the peace though.
If you and a woman go out to the movies, dinner, dave and busters or something.
You don't wanna sit there and have her with a frown on her face fukking up the vibe.
You go there to enjoy yourself.

its not about that though - you want to be able to enforce the rules more than just keep the peace. imagine if you were a parent and you had this attitude. no one would take your authority serious, because youre not willing to shut them down for acting up. youre supposed to let everyone know what they can and cant do, not be the guy who lets anyone do whatever they want.

if she goes fukking up the vibe, you have to be able to toss her. its on her if she wants to act up, because there needs to be consequences in place for this type of thing. you cant be looking at her to make things right by being complacent and soft, its on you to do whats right. be able to look at her, speak to her, and treat her like she better not fukk up or its her ass.

the ones who act up, they like that shyt anyways.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

If you can't be truthful with your woman, you don't need to be with her, because at the end of the day you aren't being yourself. How many more things are you going to let slide just to keep the peace?? That's how nikkaz end up with massive headaches after a chick leave you for messing up 1 time. You gotta let them know upfront not to try you with any nonsense.

Im not saying don't be truthful.
But I think its certain circumstances where you should avoid something that will start an issue.
If the plan is for yall to go out and enjoy yall selves. Go out and have a good time.
If she did something that bothered you, don't salvage the whole date..just say AINT NTTN WRONG when she asks.
But bring it up later at the end of the date.

It depends on what the issue is though.
I remember when we went to dave and busters one time and I got a beer *she don't like me drinking*. Soon after she wasn't talking and looked bland. I asked what waz wrong with her and she wouldn't crack.
I ended up walking without her to the exit because she had already fukked up the vibe and it wasn't no point in us being there no more.

We ended up staying and enjoying ourselves but I just wanted to let yall brothers know that im not some ol pushover. But the moral of the story with me is that I cause more problems when I speak my mind than when I let the person think there is no problem.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

its not about that though - you want to be able to enforce the rules more than just keep the peace. imagine if you were a parent and you had this attitude. no one would take your authority serious, because youre not willing to shut them down for acting up. youre supposed to let everyone know what they can and cant do, not be the guy who lets anyone do whatever they want.

if she goes fukking up the vibe, you have to be able to toss her. its on her if she wants to act up, because there needs to be consequences in place for this type of thing. you cant be looking at her to make things right by being complacent and soft, its on you to do whats right. be able to look at her, speak to her, and treat her like she better not fukk up or its her ass.

the ones who act up, they like that shyt anyways.

I addressed this in my newest post.
But go in on that last statement you made.

 

[CrossBones]

I addressed this in my newest post.
But go in on that last statement you made.

loud women are really not as big as their mouth is. they will still bow down to a man if he knows how to handle her. treat her like really, she aint shyt, if shes without him. you have to be able to freely check her and tell her what its gonna be.

actually, this is not always easy for everyone, so I dont suggest doing it and getting with those kinds of women unless you really know what youre doing.



in a general sense, women are testing you because they are usually given a lot of leeway, and a lot of value for doing little or nothing. so theyre used to getting what they want, when they want it, so to deny them that and to show her that youre in charge is how you show them youre not some regular fukk boy that brings nothing to the table but ass kissing. that authority and that power is a feeling that they secretly crave. they act out hoping someone will sit their ass down and put them in their place. they like when a man is telling them whats its going to be. when something is going to happen and it does. they like following. they like it when a man isnt weak and doesnt take shyt, from her or anyone. its all a strength test. they might not even realize it but its true. and as much as they fight it, they really need and want order and purpose in their lives. without that, theyre just birds.

but for you, I would say start small and just learn to toss any wack responses and attitudes to the door. in fact, you feel froggy, you can check em and bounce. no argument, you just put it down and let it go.

if youre not able to walk out the door, or send a woman out the door, then theyre going to constantly feel like youre a push over and that youre not important. you have no boundries, so whats to stop them from doing anything? theres no meaning to something that has no definition or boundries. so set your rules and enforce em. thats not too much.

I'll leave you with this quote: the man who knows best how to deal with women, is the man who knows best how to deal without them.

 

[Larry Lobster]

Hey gurls how sexy am i?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

loud women are really not as big as their mouth is. they will still bow down to a man if he knows how to handle her. like really, she aint shyt, if shes without him. you have to be able to freely check her and tell her what its gonna be.

actually, this is not always easy for everyone, so I dont suggest doing it and getting with those kinds of women unless you really know what youre doing.



in a general sense, women are testing you because they are usually given a lot of leeway, and a lot of value for doing little or nothing. so theyre used to getting what they want, when they want it, so to deny them that and to show her that youre in charge is how you show them youre not some regular fukk boy that brings nothing to the table but ass kissing. that authority and that power is a feeling that they secretly crave. they act out hoping someone will sit their ass down and put them in their place. they like when a man is telling them whats its going to be. when something is going to happen and it does. they like following. they like it when a man isnt weak and doesnt take shyt, from her or anyone. its all a strength test. they might not even realize it but its true. and as much as they fight it, they really need and want order and purpose in their lives. without that, theyre just birds.

but for you, I would say start small and just learn to toss any wack responses and attitudes to the door. in fact, you feel froggy, you can check em and bounce. no argument, you just put it down and let it go.

if youre not able to walk out the door, or send a woman out the door, then theyre going to constantly feel like youre a push over and that youre not important. you have no boundries, so whats to stop them from doing anything? theres no meaning to something that has no definition or boundries. so set your rules and enforce em. thats not too much.

I'll leave you with this quote: the man who knows best how to deal with women, is the man who knows best how to deal without them.

Sometimes women act like they don't want you to show that you don't take respect.

Another day when we were at dave and busters she complained and said somebody bumped into her. I stopped what I was playing and looked around to see if I could tell who it was. I told her that I would catch them at some point. Not too long after I saw my woman glance at somebody and I said YOU WAS TALKING ABOUT HER? It was some ol Hispanic broad witha child. I started walking towards thd woman strong and my woman grabbed my wrist and told me to leave it alone.

You would assume she would want me to go off so she could see I wasn't a bytch.

I wish I could rewind time cuz I woulda got on that hoe something serious.