Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

@NerdBird
@CrossBones

U guys are all about "checking" women, buy, are real vague about it



Read a great book on relationships

Women sometimes just wanna express themselves and sometimes they have promblems

Always capin', and tryin to give a solution is demeaning, as if she can't handle it

Soetimes she just wanna talk..yea, weird, but they're different than us

So how would we know when we should try to help or just be on some "oh damn" "forreal" "get outta here!"

 

[Easy-E]

So how would we know when we should try to help or just be on some "oh damn" "forreal" "get outta here!"

Of course, if she starts with, "I need your advice, on this decision..."

If she just letting off steam, hug her and listen and move on.

IMO, you also have to look at how men act as if women can't do anything for themselves..mite b a source of insecurity

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Of course, if she starts with, "I need your advice, on this decision..."

If she just letting off steam, hug her and listen and move on.

IMO, you also have to look at how men act as if women can't do anything for themselves..mite b a source of insecurity

hmmm...
I feel you.
But males *animal/human* naturally are the comforters/problem solvers

 

[CrossBones]

@NerdBird
@CrossBones

U guys are all about "checking" women, buy, are real vague about it



Read a great book on relationships

Women sometimes just wanna express themselves and sometimes they have promblems

nothing vague about it. set a boundry and make it clear to your female what it is. let them know what you will accept or not. see Ive been clear everytime Ive spoken on that. and second of all, I dont play that slick talk homie. so dont be coy if you wanna cape out here, just say what you want to say. I dont believe that you are that unfamiliar with the term or what we're saying at all, and if you are, its only because youve never checked someone before in your life. so then this real simple concept would seem foriegn to you, and that I could understand. but if someone has to out and out explain what checking someone means, then maybe you want to sit and think on this some more next time instead of playing cute with it

 

[CrossBones]

This shyt be confusing breh.
I be wanna adjust myself to make sure my woman is happy.
I don't wanna just go all out and be too "I dont take shyt-ish" cuz then she'll stay mad and not want to go places with me in public because Im always getting into over something.

"damn he got us kicked out cuz he fought that dude who skipped us"
"damn he got us kicked out cuz he fought that dude that stepped on his shoe"
"damn now everybody in the restaurant looking at us funny cuz he making a big deal over his drink. im uncomfortable"
"damn i need to just break up with him cuz he crazy. he always yelling at me and he might hit me"
*all this while the dude is thinking "Im winning breh. Im showing her I dont take shyt "
etc.

heres what doesnt sit well with me. youre real worried about making someone else happy instead of looking at whats going on. Im not telling you to start fights with people so you can look a certain way in public, Im telling you that you need to hold it down, and make sure youre good with your choices in life so you can be who you are. you shouldnt be changing for someone elses sake, I say all of this so you can do better for self

be who you are, and if someone is neglecting you or not accepting what youre really about, then its time to look at that seriously. this is a grown woman we're talking about here, she knows what shes doing and what effects it has on others. and if she doesnt consider that, then what does that mean. if all of its getting to be too much for you, dont look at changing who you are for their sake, instead think about what youre trying to do in your life. think about who you would want to be with, and how they would act. look someplace where you can be with someone like that. you want harmony in your life, not preoccupying this little game where youre worried about how you look to others, or what you can do thats going to change her mind. stay consistent with who you are, accept it, and live life like that. the women will follow or get left.

you dont have to be an a$$hole to your girl, just give her space, make it clear where youre at, and do your own thing. if she cant keep up, then what can I tell you that you dont already know

 

[Easy-E]

nothing vague about it. set a boundry and make it clear to your female what it is. let them know what you will accept or not. see Ive been clear everytime Ive spoken on that. and second of all, I dont play that slick talk homie. so dont be coy if you wanna cape out here, just say what you want to say. I dont believe that you are that unfamiliar with the term or what we're saying at all, and if you are, its only because youve never checked someone before in your life. so then this real simple concept would seem foriegn to you, and that I could understand. but if someone has to out and out explain what checking someone means, then maybe you want to sit and think on this some more next time instead of playing cute with it

Wasn't tryna be slick

Checking anyone could be one or two things; "Look, I need you to understand..." or " SIT DOWN, WHO YOU THINK"

Y'all suggesting dude checks his girl, but; how?

 

[CrossBones]

Wasn't tryna be slick

Checking anyone could be one or two things; "Look, I need you to understand..." or " SIT DOWN, WHO YOU THINK"

Y'all suggesting dude checks his girl, but; how?

different women and situations call for different measures. ultimately its gotta become natural and something that you just know that you have to do when youre in certain situations. if somethings not feeling right, then you have to act on it, even speak on it. if its urgent, then respond accordingly. if its something you been thinking of, take some time and then say it. at the least, I can suggest that its best to always take at least a moment or two before answering or telling someone anything important. its a good habit to have so we can form our thoughts better and not be all emotional about it.

I cant really tell him what degree to use all of the time, as its a case per case basis. you just have to be perceptive enough to know that some women want it more brolic than others, and on the other end, some women get offended if you even bring up the fact that youre not with what theyre doing. those are brats, and theyre not concerned with your feelings, so they need to be put in a corner and left alone. but its still always on the man to tell her whats good and what isnt if he wants to check her. you have to let her know shes not acting right and give her a chance to correct herself. tell her that you wont put up with a certain kind of behavior. that you dont appreciate her attitude and to check that, or that you dont really take people who do "so and so" seriously. after a certain point, we all have our limits and then we're not fukking with someone. see Im not telling him to wild out, and choke a woman, but my point was that a lot of women (also people in general) need to know where you draw your line in the sand. checking a woman involves just that. if theyre not respecting your boundries, then theyre not respecting you.

 

[Easy-E]

Okay, I can get with that @CrossBones

its more than just puffing out ur chest, to u

 

[iBrowse]

Hey gurls how sexy am i?

@Sunshine
@MarsPunka
@Token
@awkwardblackgirl
@DarlingNikki
@honestly?
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@Phoenix_Knightly23

 

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@Sunshine
@MarsPunka
@Token
@awkwardblackgirl
@DarlingNikki
@honestly?
@Raedawn07
@BonitaChelz
@Elle Driver
@Milk N Cookies

















@Phoenix_Knightly23

What is the context here? What did you tag me for?

 

[Larry Lobster]

What is the context here? What did you tag me for?

To rate my dance

 

[no.]

To rate my dance

A strong 0 out of 10.

 

[Larry Lobster]

A strong 0 out of 10.

You mad cause im prettier than you

 

[iBrowse]

What is the context here? What did you tag me for?

no reason i literally clicked this thread...saw it and said "fukk it time"

 

[Raava]

@Sunshine
@MarsPunka
@Token
@awkwardblackgirl
@DarlingNikki
@honestly?
@Raedawn07
@BonitaChelz
@Elle Driver
@Milk N Cookies

















@Phoenix_Knightly23

Needs more cowbell