Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Grams]

say fukk it and go holla at more chicks

There's no point anymore breh I'm bout to just fukk these one night thots and call it a day. For ugly nikkaz there's no girl that won't play games with you :longforman:

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Fam I beg you, tell me why I will get a girl's number and every-single-time these heauxs take HOURS to respond?

Am I the ugliest nikka on Earth?
Am I boring as fook?
What's the point of bytches giving me their number if they're just gonna fade man

Possible ego boost.
She probably wanna make it seem like you deserve her time and she wants you to sweat her.

 

[Grams]

Possible ego boost.
She probably wanna make it seem like you deserve her time and she wants you to sweat her.

Every single girl I deal with though?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Every single girl I deal with though?

Maybe you keep dealing with attention whores with multiple dudes hitting them up

 

[Grams]

Maybe you keep dealing with attention whores with multiple dudes hitting them up

I'm uggz

 

[kevm3]

That's just how the modern 'dating scene' is. A woman, if she's young and pretty, has countless options and you're just one of many. She's like a kid who is let to run free in the candy store. In her mind you're a Tootsie Pop amongst countless varieties. While she may come and eat that Tootsie Pop every once in a while, she's got a lot of other candy she's sampling as well.

I tell these fellas, if you got you a solid one, you better do that right, because the dating scene in this day and age is no joke. A pretty little skirt isn't worth losing a loyal one.

 

[Grams]

That's just how the modern 'dating scene' is. A woman, if she's young and pretty, has countless options and you're just one of many. She's like a kid who is let to run free in the candy store. In her mind you're a Tootsie Pop amongst countless varieties. While she may come and eat that Tootsie Pop every once in a while, she's got a lot of other candy she's sampling as well.

I tell these fellas, if you got you a solid one, you better do that right, because the dating scene in this day and age is no joke. A pretty little skirt isn't worth losing a loyal one.

There's no point in tryna date anymore. I'm gonna start telling these girls straight up that I'm gonna smash and that's it take it or leave it

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Brehs, I know it's hard but if you can control your dikk you will wield immense power you never knew you had.

This whole world revolves around sex and men are the biggest targets. You'll start to see the world differently. Imagine if you didn't care about getting p*ssy? Imagine how powerful you could be?

Just some reflection I wanted to share. I realized that most of my dumb mistakes in life were either the direct result of p*ssy or a byproduct of the chase for poon.

 

[Grams]

Brehs, I know it's hard but if you can control your dikk you will wield immense power you never knew you had.

This whole world revolves around sex and men are the biggest targets. You'll start to see the world differently. Imagine if you didn't care about getting p*ssy? Imagine how powerful you could be?

Just some reflection I wanted to share. I realized that most of my dumb mistakes in life were either the direct result of p*ssy or a byproduct of the chase for poon.

That's all I know *Boosie voice*

 

[Ohene]

say fukk it and go holla at more chicks

yup

 

[kevm3]

Brehs, I know it's hard but if you can control your dikk you will wield immense power you never knew you had.

This whole world revolves around sex and men are the biggest targets. You'll start to see the world differently. Imagine if you didn't care about getting p*ssy? Imagine how powerful you could be?

Just some reflection I wanted to share. I realized that most of my dumb mistakes in life were either the direct result of p*ssy or a byproduct of the chase for poon.

Men in this society are brainwashed to worship sex. There is so much more to life than dealing with and pursuing women. In life, you win when you establish a proper ORDER for things. There needs to be a hierarchy. There is an order in life that if you pursue it correctly, you will be rewarded. The problem is that most men were taught by television, simps they are surrounded by, etc., that you need to pursue and obtain sex by any and every means necessary, thus making them slaves to sex, and ultimately, subservient to women. A woman is PART of your existence, not the whole of your existence, and when you establish proper order... when you are more focused on everything else in life, you will be in a much better POSITION to deal with women. "Chasing women" will, 9 times out of 10, put you on the losing side of the equation, since you are coming into the scene presenting yourself as someone who is of lower value and you are attempting to impress her and procure her by any means necessary. On the other hand, a guy like Trey Songz or some other famous musician, they don't have to pursue the woman. They say come here, I want to talk to you, and the woman will go right over there without hesitation. She'll rush over there in fact. What is the big difference? Position. If Trey loses his positioning, what came easy will not come nearly as easy anymore. This is not to say you need to chase status and money in order to procure women. It IS to say that when you solidify yourself as a man and stop chasing women, you will be in a position to deal with them on your terms... and your life will ultimately be about much more than chasing skirts.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Men in this society are brainwashed to worship sex. There is so much more to life than dealing with and pursuing women. In life, you win when you establish a proper ORDER for things. There needs to be a hierarchy. There is an order in life that if you pursue it correctly, you will be rewarded. The problem is that most men were taught by television, simps they are surrounded by, etc., that you need to pursue and obtain sex by any and every means necessary, thus making them slaves to sex, and ultimately, subservient to women. A woman is PART of your existence, not the whole of your existence, and when you establish proper order... when you are more focused on everything else in life, you will be in a much better POSITION to deal with women. "Chasing women" will, 9 times out of 10, put you on the losing side of the equation, since you are coming into the scene presenting yourself as someone who is of lower value and you are attempting to impress her and procure her by any means necessary. On the other hand, a guy like Trey Songz or some other famous musician, they don't have to pursue the woman. They say come here, I want to talk to you, and the woman will go right over there without hesitation. She'll rush over there in fact. What is the big difference? Position. If Trey loses his positioning, what came easy will not come nearly as easy anymore. This is not to say you need to chase status and money in order to procure women. It IS to say that when you solidify yourself as a man and stop chasing women, you will be in a position to deal with them on your terms... and your life will ultimately be about much more than chasing skirts.

I tried to tell my friend this the other day.

He's an insecure guy who was in a relationship from age 21 until 27 with a girl he met at my school. She really wasn't the right girl for him. Spoiled brat, ivy league, daddy's girl who got anything she wanted and never let this guy be himself around her. He never told me this specifically but I figured it out, he basically stayed with her because he felt he couldn't do better. I told this story before but this was the girl who gave him a concussion because she was mad at him, literally hit this man repeated over the head with an umbrella and now he's Troy Aikman status. I remember me and him were hanging out to watch the Pacquiao/Clottey fight at a bar and she literally came to the restaurant and picked this nikka up and told him he had to leave. I'm just sitting there stunned like and she was just like . It was easily the most bytch made shyt I've ever seen in my life. Anyways, they ended up breaking up....He got her pregnant and even though he wanted her to have a baby he convinced her to have a abortion. His life really isn't together job wise so it was the right decision......but you know often times that abortion leads to resentment and they ended up breaking up. She moved on quickly and got pregnant by some Brownsville nikka.......now my friend his still hurt a year later talking about that should have been his baby and why she move on so quickly? He's still stuck over this girl who really wasn't a good match for, knows logically they needed to break up. His real problem just stems from not being able secure to be alone and love themselves and just being a slave to p*ssy. You start to accept any behavior when you're at that point. He's back on the dating market but it seems he's not doing too well at all. He called me last week on my birthday drunk and crying about how women aren't treating him like a king. Basically he's been pursuing this young lady for months, taking her out and what not but she still has him in the friend zone. He so insecure tho, he actually convinced himself he's not doing well because he's fat (he's not even that fat). I have multiple ex football players and a friend who is basically Rick Ross' twin who do very well.

He told me how he wants to get in the gym and lose weight. Tried to explain to the guy he needs to get his life together, get his work situation right, get in the gym, not to just lose weight but to get your health right, build self confidence, discipline and good things will come your way. He still doesn't get it tho. He just seems to have no dreams of his own outside of just wanting to be a regular guy with a girlfriend who gives him time and p*ssy regularly. It's sad. He can DJ and do music but he's basically quit. I know last year his job situation wasn't the best and I tried my hardest to get him to DJ some of my gigs that I was double booked for. I literally had $300 for 4 hour gigs for him and he'd make some excuse and turn me down.

 

[and 47 others]

I tried to tell my friend this the other day.

He's an insecure guy who was in a relationship from age 21 until 27 with a girl he met at my school. She really wasn't the right girl for him. Spoiled brat, ivy league, daddy's girl who got anything she wanted and never let this guy be himself around her. He never told me this specifically but I figured it out, he basically stayed with her because he felt he couldn't do better. I told this story before but this was the girl who gave him a concussion because she was mad at him, literally hit this man repeated over the head with an umbrella and now he's Troy Aikman status. I remember me and him were hanging out to watch the Pacquiao/Clottey fight at a bar and she literally came to the restaurant and picked this nikka up and told him he had to leave. I'm just sitting there stunned like and she was just like . It was easily the most bytch made shyt I've ever seen in my life. Anyways, they ended up breaking up....He got her pregnant and even though he wanted her to have a baby he convinced her to have a abortion. His life really isn't together job wise so it was the right decision......but you know often times that abortion leads to resentment and they ended up breaking up. She moved on quickly and got pregnant by some Brownsville nikka.......now my friend his still hurt a year later talking about that should have been his baby and why she move on so quickly? He's still stuck over this girl who really wasn't a good match for, knows logically they needed to break up. His real problem just stems from not being able secure to be alone and love themselves and just being a slave to p*ssy. You start to accept any behavior when you're at that point. He's back on the dating market but it seems he's not doing too well at all. He called me last week on my birthday drunk and crying about how women aren't treating him like a king. Basically he's been pursuing this young lady for months, taking her out and what not but she still has him in the friend zone. He so insecure tho, he actually convinced himself he's not doing well because he's fat (he's not even that fat). I have multiple ex football players and a friend who is basically Rick Ross' twin who do very well.

He told me how he wants to get in the gym and lose weight. Tried to explain to the guy he needs to get his life together, get his work situation right, get in the gym, not to just lose weight but to get your health right, build self confidence, discipline and good things will come your way. He still doesn't get it tho. He just seems to have no dreams of his own outside of just wanting to be a regular guy with a girlfriend who gives him time and p*ssy regularly. It's sad. He can DJ and do music but he's basically quit. I know last year his job situation wasn't the best and I tried my hardest to get him to DJ some of my gigs that I was double booked for. I literally had $300 for 4 hour gigs for him and he'd make some excuse and turn me down.

I have known several people like this. I'm strongly convinced that people like this that refuse any type of advice, just cant be helped and years and years will go by before they even consider your advice. They'll be like, "Give me advice! Give me advice!" and then when you give them advice, they reply with what their problem is. It's like, bytch ass, I just told you the fukking solution and you want to repeat your problem to me? FOH, stay single.

 

[re'up]

One thing I'll say @Atlrocafella, is I always like your posts I think were the same age or close, but sometimes I think we on here, (in general) in theory and in practice can sometimes take some of the guidelines and gems a little too far to the extreme. Like, some of that shyt comes of as a little vindictive imo…I've been in the same spot, and I'll be there again, but as far as blocking someone, who didn't respond to a text? It'd depend on the nature of the text and the circumstances, but I'm an adult, and if someone chooses to not like one, thats on them, but I'd keep the communication line open, because who knows what use or purpose that women/person may be able to serve for me? Kinda like I think that the block makes it seem like that shyt was a big deal to you, instead of just shrugging her and the little situation off like it was nothing, which in the scheme of things, it is. It's a toss up tho maybe, cuz I may feel like people THINK they got over on me, or outmaneuvered me, when really I saw it all unfold, and just know that the person has those tendencies. It's not some Machavellian mind game, but I'll treat them accordingly. Not criticizing, just throwing out my opinion, seeing what the consensus might be.

 

[Stone]

I have known several people like this. I'm strongly convinced that people like this that refuse any type of advice, just cant be helped and years and years will go by before they even consider your advice. They'll be like, "Give me advice! Give me advice!" and then when you give them advice, they reply with what their problem is. It's like, bytch ass, I just told you the fukking solution and you want to repeat your problem to me? FOH, stay single.

this is because it's 23049583049x easier being miserable than being happy. Happiness requires work and sacrifice. You may have to change your beliefs about the world and people and that is scary to some.