Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

nikka you eating

What field you work in?

nah not a six figure coli nicca etc., just have no kids and i cut my bills by so much, no cable, cheap ass phone bill, basic internet plan, dont splurge on clothes, shoes etc. don't club drink, when i travel i get cheap ass flights and stay at hostels airbnbs or cheap hotels, i penny pinch.

I don't even mess with like take out anymore and buy food in bulk, esp not having a girl dont gotta waste my gas driving to see her etc.

and i work in publishing

 

[MikelArteta]

Downtown Brampton

Eeeeeeeeeveryone in the GTA (preferably urban wise) know each other it's unescapable

yeah man when i had a public facebook, id like talk to a girl add her then see she has a mutual friend

 

[karim]

at you thinking i'm trolling i actually despiseno reason to troll about something i'm dealing with...damn i would hate to think what you would say once i actually get the ass
EDIT: what makes this situation so i'm not even thirsty or needy for it so

i would say because that bytch is a fat slore

 

[Rocket Scientist]

nah not a six figure coli nicca etc., just have no kids and i cut my bills by so much, no cable, cheap ass phone bill, basic internet plan, dont splurge on clothes, shoes etc. don't club drink, when i travel i get cheap ass flights and stay at hostels airbnbs or cheap hotels, i penny pinch.

I don't even mess with like take out anymore and buy food in bulk, esp not having a girl dont gotta waste my gas driving to see her etc.

and i work in publishing

 

[CASHAPP]

Would you stay with your boo after he looses the job and doesn't have any income and no savings?

 

[Beerus]

lol iono what happening but i cant stop thinking bout this girl, and I only just got her number like this wednesday
I'M CATCHING FEELS HELP
and I can't stop overthinking god damn wtf
I mean shyt I just gotta stop and just ask her out next time I see her(which I fully intend too).
shyt I NEED TO PUT SOME COLD WATER ON ME
man she's and we sorta clicked from the get go
brehs brehs brehs I ain't tryna get played the SHELL IS CRACKING GIMME ADVICE ANYTHINGGGGGGGGG

 

[RealAssanova]

lol iono what happening but i cant stop thinking bout this girl, and I only just got her number like this wednesday
I'M CATCHING FEELS HELP
and I can't stop overthinking god damn wtf
I mean shyt I just gotta stop and just ask her out next time I see her(which I fully intend too).
shyt I NEED TO PUT SOME COLD WATER ON ME
man she's and we sorta clicked from the get go
brehs brehs brehs I ain't tryna get played the SHELL IS CRACKING GIMME ADVICE ANYTHINGGGGGGGGG

why are you like this with EVERY girl my nikkaa?

why?

are you not a man? do you not have a brain? can you not simply say..wassup ___ i wanted to kno what days you are available cuz i wanted us to kick it..preferably on tuesday night?

Is that so hard to do bruh? she is a NORMAL EVERYDAY WOMAN. She isn't a prophet or something sent down from the heavens that you gotta heap praises on.

here's some advice...stop coming onto this thread...cuz nothing ain't helping you. Matter fact, don't ask anyone for help. Do sh!t on your own and learn from it. You wanna be good wit women? Postin here won't help you at all. Rather it will just add to your already overanalyzing, overthinking mind.

Imagine the coli never existed and you bagged this girl on your own (which ofcourse you obviously did). Now continue with that. If shorty isn't feeling it, chop it up to the game, dap yourself for taking a step in the right direction and get to steppin onto another chick or something else.

THAT IS ALL.

 

[Beerus]

why are you like this with EVERY girl my nikkaa?

why?

are you not a man? do you not have a brain? can you not simply say..wassup ___ i wanted to kno what days you are available cuz i wanted us to kick it..preferably on tuesday night?

Is that so hard to do bruh? she is a NORMAL EVERYDAY WOMAN. She isn't a prophet or something sent down from the heavens that you gotta heap praises on.

here's some advice...stop coming onto this thread...cuz nothing ain't helping you. Matter fact, don't ask anyone for help. Do sh!t on your own and learn from it. You wanna be good wit women? Postin here won't help you at all. Rather it will just add to your already overanalyzing, overthinking mind.

Imagine the coli never existed and you bagged this girl on your own (which ofcourse you obviously did). Now continue with that. If shorty isn't feeling it, chop it up to the game, dap yourself for taking a step in the right direction and get to steppin onto another chick or something else.

THAT IS ALL.

Ok, but I was going to ask her what she doing this weekend and tell her well im taking you out to ____, cool?


Yeah but u right, good thing I never ended up doin some flagrant dumb shyt cuz it aint in my personality like that. Jusst when i panic its a complete meltdown in my head

 

[kevm3]

Doing things for women will NOT keep them loyal. That's something that has to be drilled through every man's head. You could have paid everything for her, took her from the gutter, stayed by her side when she was obese and taught her how to be slim or whatever, but that's not going to keep her loyal. If she doesn't have 'those feelings' for you and if she doesn't have an extremely strong moral base, then she's going to do her thing. How many of these stars get cheated on and they have all the looks and money? I'm sure some dude will try to put the blame on the dude and say, "UHH WELL he should have offered MORE", but the bottom line is that when most of these women get bored, they will look for more entertaining pastures.

 

[MikelArteta]

Doing things for women will NOT keep them loyal. That's something that has to be drilled through every man's head. You could have paid everything for her, took her from the gutter, stayed by her side when she was obese and taught her how to be slim or whatever, but that's not going to keep her loyal. If she doesn't have 'those feelings' for you and if she doesn't have an extremely strong moral base, then she's going to do her thing. How many of these stars get cheated on and they have all the looks and money? I'm sure some dude will try to put the blame on the dude and say, "UHH WELL he should have offered MORE", but the bottom line is that when most of these women get bored, they will look for more entertaining pastures.

women are not wired like men, you could save a homeless woman suffering from terminal cancer of the street take in her and her children, be there for every day during chemo, look after her kids and she will still you if the mailman gives you tingles.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Doing things for women will NOT keep them loyal. That's something that has to be drilled through every man's head. You could have paid everything for her, took her from the gutter, stayed by her side when she was obese and taught her how to be slim or whatever, but that's not going to keep her loyal. If she doesn't have 'those feelings' for you and if she doesn't have an extremely strong moral base, then she's going to do her thing. How many of these stars get cheated on and they have all the looks and money? I'm sure some dude will try to put the blame on the dude and say, "UHH WELL he should have offered MORE", but the bottom line is that when most of these women get bored, they will look for more entertaining pastures.

You are absolutely right about loyalty. I had a friend of mine call me this weekend to fill me in on some shyt he had going on with his woman. We're both in the military, so is his girl. She was originally stationed here in Virginia with me. Caught orders down to Oklahoma to follow her husband. I worked with her for close to four years before she left. She would always tell me about the problems in her relationship and how "evil" her husband was. Basically dropping not so subtle hints that she wanted me to pursue her to get something sparked between us. I never took that bait because I just don't deal with married women, and that can really get me jammed up on a professional level. I kept flirting though just in case she ever did cut her man loose. They ended up having a kid maybe a year before she left and I really fell back from her after that.

Ok so fast forward now. She gets her orders and I know a dude at the base she's going to. I hit him up to see if he can show her around. He asks me what most guys would "is she cute?". I tell him yeah but she's married. You could easily hit but I wouldn't recommend anything beyond that. Now fast forward again- she's divorced, and now my homie is smashing on the regular which led to them becoming an item, after I specifically told him that was a dangerous proposition. Shorty was married twice before she divorced her third husband. That doesn't happen without BOTH parties having culpability. I noticed that the guys in her stories were always these monsters but yet you laid with these men, and you married them. What does that make you? Not only does he date her, he decides to take her son on as his own. Another bad move.

I get a call from him telling me he caught her flirting with a dude at her gym. Sending messages to the guy detailing her unhappiness in her current relationship (we seeing a trend here?). I just let him vent about it all but I just couldn't feel sorry for him. I gave dude valuable intel about her character and he chose to ignore it because she's pretty with a nice body. Apparently he caught her in numerous lies throughout the week which led to them breaking up. Afterwards she still continued to message homie from her gym against my boys wishes. He's hurt now because he feels as though she destroyed their "family" dynamic. I couldn't tell him it was never his family to begin with. He's too far gone at this point. I'm pretty sure he's going to do something irrational that will put his career in jeopardy.

I say all that to say this- Your actions and deeds are meaningless. All that matters is the level of reverence your lady has for you. When that dissipates, you're no different than a stranger to her. Keep your resources at all costs. That's all you'll have when she decides to pop smoke on you. Us gentlemen need to be smarter about the women we choose to share in our world. Don't be so eager to give away your resources (time, and money) to someone who hasn't shown you they deserve it. And when I say show you I mean through actions, not words.

 

[stepbackj34spud]

This shyt has 1 million views

 

[mamba]

I'll take the waste of 5-6$ for a date over the 45-50$

I've had a situation where I paid for a date, talked to a chic for like 2 months and bought Hero burger one day with her and then a few weeks later the bullshyt started and was getting those non-responsive texts so I bounced and haven't heard a peep outta her since

Lesson learned though

A lot of these women have several men in rotation. Why should you be the sucker to pay the most to get the least when one of the dudes in the rotation is probably paying the least but getting the most?

 

[mamba]

You are absolutely right about loyalty. I had a friend of mine call me this weekend to fill me in on some shyt he had going on with his woman. We're both in the military, so is his girl. She was originally stationed here in Virginia with me. Caught orders down to Oklahoma to follow her husband. I worked with her for close to four years before she left. She would always tell me about the problems in her relationship and how "evil" her husband was. Basically dropping not so subtle hints that she wanted me to pursue her to get something sparked between us. I never took that bait because I just don't deal with married women, and that can really get me jammed up on a professional level. I kept flirting though just in case she ever did cut her man loose. They ended up having a kid maybe a year before she left and I really fell back from her after that.

Ok so fast forward now. She gets her orders and I know a dude at the base she's going to. I hit him up to see if he can show her around. He asks me what most guys would "is she cute?". I tell him yeah but she's married. You could easily hit but I wouldn't recommend anything beyond that. Now fast forward again- she's divorced, and now my homie is smashing on the regular which led to them becoming an item, after I specifically told him that was a dangerous proposition. Shorty was married twice before she divorced her third husband. That doesn't happen without BOTH parties having culpability. I noticed that the guys in her stories were always these monsters but yet you laid with these men, and you married them. What does that make you? Not only does he date her, he decides to take her son on as his own. Another bad move.

I get a call from him telling me he caught her flirting with a dude at her gym. Sending messages to the guy detailing her unhappiness in her current relationship (we seeing a trend here?). I just let him vent about it all but I just couldn't feel sorry for him. I gave dude valuable intel about her character and he chose to ignore it because she's pretty with a nice body. Apparently he caught her in numerous lies throughout the week which led to them breaking up. Afterwards she still continued to message homie from her gym against my boys wishes. He's hurt now because he feels as though she destroyed their "family" dynamic. I couldn't tell him it was never his family to begin with. He's too far gone at this point. I'm pretty sure he's going to do something irrational that will put his career in jeopardy.

I say all that to say this- Your actions and deeds are meaningless. All that matters is the level of reverence your lady has for you. When that dissipates, you're no different than a stranger to her. Keep your resources at all costs. That's all you'll have when she decides to pop smoke on you. Us gentlemen need to be smarter about the women we choose to share in our world. Don't be so eager to give away your resources (time, and money) to someone who hasn't shown you they deserve it. And when I say show you I mean through actions, not words.

Some kats will never learn, man. Sucks he had to learn the hard way. I hope he doesn't do anything stupid.

 

[Reality]

Ok, but I was going to ask her what she doing this weekend and tell her well im taking you out to ____, cool?


Yeah but u right, good thing I never ended up doin some flagrant dumb shyt cuz it aint in my personality like that. Jusst when i panic its a complete meltdown in my head

post her pics/social profiles so we can point out all indicators of thotness you're probably missing and help you take her off that pedestal.