Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Jahmal

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Out of all the women you fukked whats the percentage of them do you still have any relations with...friends or sex
Not many. Most of the women from my past are married, juggling multiple dikks or have kids. I have no desire to remain in contact with them. I've moved around a lot so I dont see the point in trying to be friends with chicks from my past scattered in different states.
 

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Alright brehs. Some more gems from me as I stumble in from the casino

1. Do not reward bad behavior. You have to nip that shyt in the bud asap when you're dealing with a new chick. If she throws a tantrum, don't reward it by giving her the attention she wants.

2. When in doubt walk away. The minute you find yourself stressing a chick or a situation, just leave. All that worrying about "what could have been" is for the birds.

That's all I got right now. Learn from my recent mistakes.


Someone just dapped this and made me remember this post. :wow: Two years ago and still valid to my life. :wow:
 

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Went on a date in NYC tonight. Grabbed coldstone and ate outside then hit up Dave and Busters. Total of $23:ehh:

Y'all were dead on with the $25-30 date 1 rule. We had a good vibe but i couldn't care less if she flakes out going forward. Way less attached when you dont invest much $ wise
 

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The bottom line is you just have to stay within the zone of women that like you. When you step outside of that zone and you like the woman too much, that's when you start all that sucker behavior. If a woman really likes you, it's not about 'where' you take her. She just wants to spend time with YOU. She'll be wherever you choose to go. It's when you start liking this woman too much and she doesn't really feel you all that much but you get it in your mind that you HAVE to have her is when you will get taken for a sucker. The last thing you want to have is to be put into Mr. Meals on Wheels or Money Man category where she associates you as the guy to hit up when she's hungry or needs some shoes for the mall. If a woman is trying to charge you for her time, she gotta go.
 

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Here's something to keep in mind at all times. You will never win with a woman with the attitude of thinking you have to 'give her something' or come up off some cash to mess with her. Once a woman starts dropping hints about something you need to buy for her or her rent, she's trying to play you and you'll end up spending all this time and money and some other guy will be reaping the benefits. Remember, women constantly try to test men. Don't fail.
 

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You mean she's lesbian or bisexual?

The point is as a man if a chick played you or left you for someone else to don't even think about reconciliation. Live your life enjoy it, and this is coming from someone who pinned for a girl for nearly 5 years.

Ubless she moved away and came back is the only way I'd ever consider going back to a ex.



If a chick played you for a stud female, do yall think she'll eventually try to come back?

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You mean she's lesbian or bisexual?

The point is as a man if a chick played you or left you for someone else to don't even think about reconciliation. Live your life enjoy it, and this is coming from someone who pinned for a girl for nearly 5 years.

Ubless she moved away and came back is the only way I'd ever consider going back to a ex.

I don't want her back.
Im just curious through reading this thread whats the chances of her trying to contact me again.
 

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Chances of her contacting you are as always 50-50.Its ether she will or wont.Its your choice whether to answer or not.IMO I wouldnt.Always be careful of not only women who come out of the blue,but people.Not everybody who contacts you after months or years really cares that you were gone or mia.
 

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Another thing my brothas I notice more and more these days women asking the ? "what do you do" .Now more then ever Status is becoming too important to women.Whenever a woman ask me that I use to :troll: them and give them an answer which they wouldnt expect.The looks on their face are priceless. Then I would give them my card and all of a sudden they would go :krs: (not sayin im a big time baller or anything) lol Im basically saying this.Alot of women will like you for you and alot will like you because of your bragging potential. We all know women talk,but women love to brag about men who have big time jobs and status (frats,social clubs,military etc) you guys can dispute this but this is truth.Be on lookout for one of the first things out of a womans mouth "what do you do"
 
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