with experience comes wisdom

Not saying it was easy, I was a big big simp and was blindsided many times, did all the wrong things, clinged to women I shouldn't have, sacrificed over and over again and got nothing in return but pain and suffering.........but I'm so much wiser and stronger now. Out of every bad situation/ relationship just chalk it up as a learnign experience, now i know when not to waste time with a woman, if she messes up i make my exit.
I'm not totally hard on hoes, i just hold myself to a higher standard. Regardless of how hot she is, her body, income etc. she disrespects me, does something I don't like that's it. I don't fight or argue, i don't tell them they mess up, where they can apologize or what women want to do drama etc. i just withdrawal and get on with my life.
example my ex , who went clubbing and to some ex male coworker birthday party i just withdrawled and got on with my life no "closure", not allowing her to try and play the sympathy sobbing role.
and a few days after that she messaged me that shes "done and not trying anymore"
I didn't even reply.