Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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She already messed up and told me how she let somebody hit before 30 days cuz she was desperate and ain't had none in a while :mjpls:
the fact that she's even tellin you about how she smashed other nikkas is laughable :heh: basically sayin she liked them more than yo ass

she'd be in the bushes til that 30 was up :camby:
 

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the fact that she's even tellin you about how she smashed other nikkas is laughable :heh: basically sayin she liked them more than yo ass

she'd be in the bushes til that 30 was up :camby:

Nah I wouldn't say that.
I think she created this 30 day rule a while ago that she tries to live up to so she won't seem like a hoe. *she 25 and got 3 kids from 3 dudes*
All i got to do is butter her up, put up with her lil small rejections on how I need to stop feeling up on her cuz this the first time we met, then she'll end up "accidentally" sliding her panties off. :steviej:

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Nah I wouldn't say that.
I think she created this 30 day rule a while ago that she tries to live up to so she won't seem like a hoe. *she 25 and got 3 kids from 3 dudes*
All i got to do is butter her up, put up with her lil small rejections on how I need to stop feeling up on her cuz this the first time we met, then she'll end up "accidentally" sliding her panties off. :steviej:

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nikka why are you even wasting your time with that :what: that's the best you can do?

tighten up nikka :upsetfavre:
 

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"1.) Unless you’re pushing mid 6 figures, you can’t support a family of 4 on any reasonable level, without wifey working, which instantly gives her 1/2 the trousers. That makes her 1/2 man and you by default 1/2 woman. Plus she’s out and about, instead of under your roof and thus temptations and hypergamy are going to catch all but the unicorns. Que any excuse (minor squabble over who puts the trash out) to start an affair. How can hubby compete with her dynamic boss, co-worker, client etc. – In the long run her cannot.

2.) Stay home moms, have way too much free time with modern technology etc. so that even if you can afford to keep her off someone else’s payroll (and away from hungry alphas in the work place) – assuming you can sling her a generous monthly allowance, she’ll either get bored, or worse start dabbling in mischief (the devil makes work for idle hands). Plus once the kids pass 7-8 years, she’ll have less and less todo and now start feeling anxious and resentful that she’s not productive in some other way and her career now has a huge hole in it. Kids grow up faster these days and need to get out of the stuffy home environment and do their own thing…. momma is semi redundant before she even started.

3.) If you are a high earner, it’s likely that your career is interesting and exciting and also demanding, (and probably a lot more interesting than little tommy’s bath night). Thus the time you spend with your family can very well feel like a burden and a chore. An evening downer, when you need refreshing relaxation. A lot of fuss with the kids all weekend when you want some fun. A tedious family holiday with kids, when you could be clubbing, or treking the Himalayas.

4.) A wife and kids is an accessory to a man. It’s not obligatory by any means, and without the earnings to support it all, it’s just a massive burden. In the 21st Century, there are so many more entertaining, enjoyable and rewarding pursuits than supporting a wife and raising kids. Sorry… FACT!

5.) In the long run a woman can only love a man like a mother or a sister – Red blooded men appreciate neither dynamic in more than very small bursts. The old expression “for every hot chick there is a guy bored of fukking her”. Plus she’s aging and less attractive on an absolute scale. But the real problem here is spending ‘quality’ time together is a complete myth. You can little in common and a man is better enjoying almost any pursuit outside of sex, with other men, not with women.

6.) A man spending too much time with his SO – the ‘best friend’ blue pill ideal, will start thinking and talking more and more like a woman, while she will start taking on more male traits. The attraction is depolarized and while the woman may benefit from a little male vibe, if she wants a high powered career…. the man can only lose out, as he starts to be more and more beta, just by virtue of keeping too much female company.

The whole LTR thing is just a redundant mess these days. I don’t know what you do about the kids, they love the ideal of momma and poppa…… but the problem is that these ideals just simply don’t exist anymore."
 

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Nah I wouldn't say that.
I think she created this 30 day rule a while ago that she tries to live up to so she won't seem like a hoe. *she 25 and got 3 kids from 3 dudes*
All i got to do is butter her up, put up with her lil small rejections on how I need to stop feeling up on her cuz this the first time we met, then she'll end up "accidentally" sliding her panties off. :steviej:

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with experience comes wisdom :obama:
Not saying it was easy, I was a big big simp and was blindsided many times, did all the wrong things, clinged to women I shouldn't have, sacrificed over and over again and got nothing in return but pain and suffering.........but I'm so much wiser and stronger now. Out of every bad situation/ relationship just chalk it up as a learnign experience, now i know when not to waste time with a woman, if she messes up i make my exit.

I'm not totally hard on hoes, i just hold myself to a higher standard. Regardless of how hot she is, her body, income etc. she disrespects me, does something I don't like that's it. I don't fight or argue, i don't tell them they mess up, where they can apologize or what women want to do drama etc. i just withdrawal and get on with my life.

example my ex , who went clubbing and to some ex male coworker birthday party i just withdrawled and got on with my life no "closure", not allowing her to try and play the sympathy sobbing role.

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and a few days after that she messaged me that shes "done and not trying anymore" :sas2:

I didn't even reply.
you could have played your cards better here, bro. This was her closure, while you end up looking bitter, :whoa: not saying you are bitter, but your response was. If you wanted closure, you should have broke it off first, you should have been the one who just abruptly said "done and not trying anymore." You would have fukked her world up.
 

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you could have played your cards better here, bro. This was her closure, while you end up looking bitter, :whoa: not saying you are bitter, but your response was. If you wanted closure, you should have broke it off first, you should have been the one who just abruptly said "done and not trying anymore." You would have fukked her world up.

I broke up with my female last week.
Told her she ain't hot what I want no more.
She put a broken heart and sad smiley and said she could tell from the day before.
She ain't hmu yet and she been messing with a butch female so I guess she ain't fukked up about me. :yeshrug:
 

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I broke up with my female last week.
Told her she ain't hot what I want no more.
She put a broken heart and sad smiley and said she could tell from the day before.
She ain't hmu yet and she been messing with a butch female so I guess she ain't fukked up about me. :yeshrug:

SO YOU WERE THE nikka WHO WAS ASKING ABOUT WHAT IF YOUR bytch GOT TAKEN BY A STUD..:patrice:

You still love that girl..

you need to break her outta ya mind and move on
 

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SO YOU WERE THE nikka WHO WAS ASKING ABOUT WHAT IF YOUR bytch GOT TAKEN BY A STUD..:patrice:

You still love that girl..

you need to break her outta ya mind and move on

I mean the shyt happened last week so yeah thoughts still gone be in my mind but im not focused on her.
I just wanna see her try to come back so I can hit her with the :ufdup:
 
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