Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

i've been talking/hanging out with a girl I use to date from high school on and off for the past 2/3 years. We dated my sophomore year of HS but I never smashed. We run in the same social groups so it usually happens we strike a convo/chill from time to time. I used to be a super nice simp and I tried to date her back in 2010 but she wouldn't give me time of day or would play really hard to get.

Fast forward to today "I miss the old you, you're kind of a jerk now to be honest." When I asked her about why she's interested in me now "I was in my early 20's and I wasn't ready for a mature relationship". She says this despite trying to change some lame so she could have her kids by 25. Now she's 28 looking at the shot clock like





You couldn't find a scale light enough to count the lack of fukks I give. I was 22 in 2010. That's when I finally caught a clue you can be a nice guy buy you need an edge dealing with 20 yr old women.

I always say there is nothing wrong with being nice, there is something wrong with someone taking advantage of you. I was a extremely extremely nice guy doormat before, then I wised up learned the game and nope. I'm still nice, I won't cheat, hurl insults names, belittle, but I won't take being taken advantage of, or being advantage of. I don't give my all without getting nothing in return and im not scared to walk away.

example a guy like greg popovitch/ rick carlisles, nice guys, players love playing for him no one has said a bad word about them, but if you disrespect or get out of line you will be steven jackson'd or dajuan blair

 

[61 Corpses]

Also, Im gonna start grocery shopping at places close to me but more near the city.

More chances to meet.

Low key the grocery is the goat spot for me to interact with hoes. I take either my infant or my five year old with me and just cook
Chicks love active single dads

 

[MikelArteta]

UPDATE

Asked shawty what's good, she said she's "taken," I'll humbly move on. But I still think I can smash

i never get why brehs do this?

there are oodles yes oodles of single women out there, that wont inflict you with drama etc.

 

[MikelArteta]

Low key the grocery is the goat spot for me to interact with hoes. I take either my infant or my five year old with me and just cook
Chicks love active single dads

have em run up
like my daddy thinks your cute

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Low key the grocery is the goat spot for me to interact with hoes. I take either my infant or my five year old with me and just cook
Chicks love active single dads

I got an infant

 

[Jesus]

Whats everyones opinion on younger chicks like 18-19.

Do you still holla if you're a lil older?

I ask that because theres this club that is gonna be packed with fine ass youngins. It doesnt hurt that I look like a college student still but I just couldnt see myself doing any club thats not 21+ and up.

The young chicks love me...got a hairless baby face so they always think I'm in highschool.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

stop looking for short cuts breh. you're looking for a silver bullet that will make a chick want to ride your dikk. you're like an obese chick who will spend tons of money and time on weaves, diet pills, clothing that give the illusion she's slimmer, make up, surgery, gym membership she never uses. everything except fukking exercise and eating a little better.

stop looking for a short cut and do the work that needs to be done on the inside. you don't believe in yourself. you don't believe these chicks should be fukking with you. you don't believe you're worthy of the p*ssy. and then wonder why they won't fukk with you. p*ssy should be the last thing on your mind right now. they smell the weakness on you breh. you're trying to trick a chick into giving you puss. coming up with all sorts of schemes like the fat chick from my scenario. throw all that in the bushes and get your mind right. the process is not quick. yes you will have to sacrifice some p*ssy along the way. but deep down, what you're doing now is not working either so you might as well invest in yourself. you often use the word "pretend". stop trying to play a role breh. be that dude.

Lets say I want to smash though and we're in the position to. *alone in a room*.
What should I do then?
As you can see, I tried getting to the point with her but it didn't work.
Had I would've just lied down in the bed the whole night she probably still wouldn't have gave in.

 

[MikelArteta]

low key sometimes i think how easy it is for a woman to destroy your life, you can be alone on a elevator with a woman and before the doors open she opens up he blouse and slaps you and your screwed.

I always remember this ons , i was fingering a girl and she was moaning then she suddenly flipped and yelled stop it , your hurting me , i was like :kony:

 

[Turbulent]

Lets say I want to smash though and we're in the position to. *alone in a room*.
What should I do then?
As you can see, I tried getting to the point with her but it didn't work.
Had I would've just lied down in the bed the whole night she probably still wouldn't have gave in.

if you're alone with a chick in a room and you want to smash, you make your move. if she's not feeling you then you can either waste your time by playing her game and hope you will somehow convince her to be attracted to you, or you could charge her to the game, cut your losses and use your time and energy on the chick who actually wants to fukk you. i have no Konami code to give you breh. either she wants to fukk with you or she don't.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

if you're alone with a chick in a room and you want to smash, you make your move. if she's not feeling you then you can either waste your time by playing her game and hope you will somehow convince her to be attracted to you, or you could charge her to the game, cut your losses and use your time and energy on the chick who actually wants to fukk you. i have no Konami code to give you breh. either she wants to fukk with you or she don't.

Outside of this chick though, is it better to act like you don't wanna fukk or just make your move asap?

 

[Turbulent]

Outside of this chick though, is it better to act like you don't wanna fukk or just make your move asap?

again, you're going ahead of yourself. it's like you're trying to learn calculus but you haven't even learned basic algebra yet. one step at a time.

is it better to...

depends what you mean by "better". there are many ways to see this and it depends on your philosophy. i personally believe that it's better to be straightforward (doesn't mean you can't be smooth and tactful). i believe in "let them choose". the only thing you have to be at peace with is that she may choose not to fukk with you (and this will happen) . once you learn to accept that and be at peace in your heart whether she chooses you or not, a lot of doors will unlock in your mind. it's like in the matrix when Neo was fighting Agent Smith and he was blocking all the hits effortlessly. it's like you start to just "get it". like playing ball and having one of those games where everything seems like it's in slow mo and you're ahead of everyone else.

the other philosophy is that instead of being you and letting them choose, you become a chameleon and adapt to whatever will make her give up the p*ssyhole. this is basically playing the game. so depending on the girl's personality, her environment, present circumstances, etc, you become whatever will get her there. this is a very dangerous game though because at this point, you are in the business of deceiving women. either you'll end up fukking with the wrong chick (boiling a rabbit type chick) that could kill you/make your life miserable OR you'll eventually end up meeting your match and fukking with a female hustler/player and you'll be her prey. but sure, you'll get p*ssy along the way.
As far as that side of it (the player side), i guess the best way is to act like you're not trying to fukk her. then again it's all about timing and calibrating to the situation. so many nuances and facets to this game. once you get into mind games, no one really knows how deep the rabbit hole goes.




The truth is, most of us fall somewhere between these two extremes. both sides will have people labeling you as a sociopath to be honest.

 

[EnzoG]

Question i hit a girl up about a month ago on pof i was interested in her when we spoke she told me that she wasn't looking for a relationship at the time she wanted to focus more on her studies. school's over now and she has a okcupid account do you guys think she's worth hitting up again ?

 

[Jesus]

IRL I never let anyone see me down, but sometimes I miss my ex.

Then my brain kicks in and goes, fukk her.

Does it pay to be a heart on my sleeve type of nikka? Sometimes the poker face wants to release.

 

[Rich Spirit]

Question i hit a girl up about a month ago on pof i was interested in her when we spoke she told me that she wasn't looking for a relationship at the time she wanted to focus more on her studies. school's over now and she has a okcupid account do you guys think she's worth hitting up again ?

Do what u wanna do

YOLO

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

IRL I never let anyone see me down, but sometimes I miss my ex.

Then my brain kicks in and goes, fukk her.

Does it pay to be a heart on my sleeve type of nikka? Sometimes the poker face wants to release.

No you're done with them for a reason. Destroy your rearview mirror. Look at the broken mirror and let it remind you of what happens when you go back.

Your ex is still the same negative person. A new relationship to an ex is just them buying a brand new grace period. Its just an hourglass away until they get used to them too and show their true colors. They call it a "honeymoon phase" for a reason.