Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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That's why I quit going to clubs and parties...that shyt is the worst...annoying ass females only want to dance with each other, then get an attitude like your not supposed to bother them as a man....
In a couple months when I do go out I can finally hit bars. Clubs ain't for me bytches just wanna be seen.
 

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I usually do better going to parties by myself...when I was a freshman in college I ate well. Too risky these days to do it...rather no be around a bunch of drunk hooligans solo. :beli: I usually just scope around the room and see which females are giving me the look and go from there.
 

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I usually do better going to parties by myself...when I was a freshman in college I ate well. Too risky these days to do it...rather no be around a bunch of drunk hooligans solo. :beli: I usually just scope around the room and see which females are giving me the look and go from there.
tonight was actually good i'll give my update about this one later on
 

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The moment you wish you could teleport back to your room for relaxation and serenity :ahh: <<<<<<<<

That feeling when you realize you got dressed, convinced yourself you taking a W, went outside, and it wasn't worth it at all <<<<<<<<<<<

I can feel you on this one.

That feeling when it's the only time of the week where you can fukk girls cuz they're drunk out of their mind and you still don't take one home <<<<<<<<<<

That feeling when you try to bag but she L's you <<<<<<<<<<<<<

The taste of alcohol <<<<<<<<<<

I gotta stop you right there on this one. You're a 'Take Back The Night' group hug away with being charged with date rape. You know all those females posting up that stupid #YesAllWomen hashtag this weekend, and talking about how their rapists and sexual assaulters don't know that they raped them or sexually assaulted them?

They're talking about you. Not the L's, but that attitude and the actions to make a W.

It's hard, but leave drunk bytches who are drunk out of their mind, or black out drunk, alone. Don't even test the waters. A buzz is one thing, white girl drunk is another thing entirely. Thank you for not pushing it when a drunk bytch Ls you. Be wary of the ones you W with, because they're still drunk -- and brothers have been charged with rape for taking a 'drunk yes' as a 'yes' instead of a 'no'.
 

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last night i actually got out there and did the whole hi thing with at least few chicks while it was the same crowd i was with alot more bytches to fukk with even there was misty stone look a like(a skinny version of her at least) i was like :whoo:. one plus was the fact that i was comfortable around where i was at unlike last time like last time girl on girl action dancing wise and some chicks had bf's which sucked because i was eyeing one chick and i didn't want to be THAT GUY so i just :manny: and chilled. i managed to get one on one time with the party's "host" so i got to practice my social skills a bit more she tends to attract alot of couples and bi bytches(she's bi too) so alot that was there. i also needed to learn how to be alot better in approaching as well this guy there read my whole personality some key things he told me I'm not the approaching type i like to be approached, i'm passive(whatever that meant),i'm a good listener,people are comfortable around me, and i was disorganized it left me :dwillhuh: :gladbron:and feeling like i got work i need to do but overall it was straight just got to work on being more social
 

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I haven't been here in months, but I'm so proud of all the progress that has been made.

Brothers are still building. Here's some gems for relationships.

Regardless of what you are your woman are going through in private, protect her reputation in public. It will be in your best interest.

Never hang your woman out to dry in the public jury unless you are positively sure that you're getting rid of her for good

And even then, as men, we shouldn't be complaining to everybody about our woman. All that says is that we can't control our situation. Silently get rid of her.

Public humiliation to some women is worse than being cheated on.

You don't want to be enemies with somebody that you don't give 2 shyts about anymore.
 

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Another aspect you have to integrate in your mentality is just the love of being sharp and on point. A lot of guys workout, dress well, become social, etc., solely for the purpose of getting a single woman. As soon as they get that woman, their old, reclusive nature reemerges and they stop working out, stop getting out the house, stop dressing well, etc. They turn flabby and then they end up losing their woman and then they get stuck in a huge rut when they are older, out of shape and just out of the loop.

You should look at improving yourself and embracing your style as something that is fun and something that is part of your lifestyle. Don't do it for the women, and you should STILL do all those things even after you have a woman. For example, you still should dress crisp because you just love dressing sharp... You should still be hitting that gym... You should still be getting out the house. The benefit of this is that even if your current woman peels, you'll still be extra sharp and you'll be occupied with living life so you won't be so hard up on her and you'll have a lot of other women who want to take her place.

Something EVERY man needs to realize is that longevity with women can never be guaranteed, only promoted. In other words, it means there are no magical actions you can do that will guarantee a woman will never leave... you can only do what you think will help promote her staying around, but even with you doing all of that, you still have to be prepared for her to leave at any moment... Your preparation will consist of you steadily being 'on your game', which is what we just discussed, so that if she leaves, you won't have a huge void... and you should also be mentally conditioning yourself not to get overly emotional if she leaves because you are prepared for it... If you realize ahead of time that any interaction with a woman may not necessarily be permanent, you will learn to limit your emotional attachment and dependence, which will save you a lot of trouble if she peels out ahead of time. finally, you always have to analyze the woman you are with and her position in relation to yours in order to minimize what she is able to walk away with. You do not want a woman doing a 'smash-and-grab' and taking as much of your stuff as she can on her way out the door.
 

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Fam, friend of mine just asked me for $300 saying she would give me $400 back friday.

I'm pretty sure she actually does NEED it...but fukk that....I told her ass no. Go ask ya bf....where the fukk do these women get off thinking nikkas just gon up $300 for them for nothing.....

i actually love when they ask me so i can shut they ass down. shyt a shame. most my mom has ever asked me for was $100. Lmao.

None of these women were, are, or will be my gf/wife/smash buddy so i dont know why they think im their sucker. LMAO
 

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I can feel you on this one.



I gotta stop you right there on this one. You're a 'Take Back The Night' group hug away with being charged with date rape. You know all those females posting up that stupid #YesAllWomen hashtag this weekend, and talking about how their rapists and sexual assaulters don't know that they raped them or sexually assaulted them?

They're talking about you. Not the L's, but that attitude and the actions to make a W.

It's hard, but leave drunk bytches who are drunk out of their mind, or black out drunk, alone. Don't even test the waters. A buzz is one thing, white girl drunk is another thing entirely. Thank you for not pushing it when a drunk bytch Ls you. Be wary of the ones you W with, because they're still drunk -- and brothers have been charged with rape for taking a 'drunk yes' as a 'yes' instead of a 'no'.
So go to functions and seek out sober women? :patrice:
 
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