the difference between chasing and not chasing, doesnt mean that you dont go for yours. it just means, you dont keep chasing and following up on her trying to get with this woman. youre not doing a lot of extra. youre not buying gifts, being her friend, or wasting your time trying to convince her repeatedly that she needs to get with you
you spit at her, and move from there. either with her or without, depending on her response; but youre NOT going to do that tom and jerry chase scene to get her. thats what chasing means. that youre doing too much. youre spending your whole time chasing the p*ssy. youre playing yourself trying to do a bunch of things to get with a woman/women, and thats when you know youre trying too hard and youre losing