Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I hope you cats paid attention to the hierachy I mentioned earlier so use it to measure your women it can save you alot of time and $. Also You cats gotta also realize the "signs" if you kicking it or just meeting a woman.If your talking to a woman and she doesnt ask ?s or says one worded answers,she isnt interested.Im not not buying the shy/quet thing.If a woman isnt talkative and your rambling on its a wrap.Usually us men are the quiet ones.
 

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Exactly! A dude that doesn't take her on dates or give her attention.

yep it could be the case...or she's still seeing an ex (or on break), dating someone else, etc. She may also just see your as a Mr Right now if she just wants sex. However, last chick I was "hanging out" with also paid for our food/drinks sometimes. I never really took her seriously because she was a mess...but damn she had a great body :whew:. If I'm in a situation like that I try not to take her too seriously and not overthink things but just play it smart. Eventually you'll see if you're wasting your time or not, maybe just keep her as a friend or just need to keep it moving.
 
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Damn brehs I just saw this bad ass model looking latina at work and now I feel depressed because I know I will never have a chance with her in a million years :to: reality hurts
well that part about million years needs to get out of your head..I know what you mean about work though...when im on a register and I see a sexy woman I gotta hold in the hard on lol...instead of having the self defeatist mindset look at it like this....say to yourself everyone of them especiallh the ones dressing provocative are attention hoes looking to play you for fun...and instear focus on building yourself up
 

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Ive actually dated a model before. I had your attitude as well, didn't think I was good enough, while she was like a 10 in the looks department.

This is where I got my never sell yourself short, you may think you are a 6 and she is a ten. She may think she is a 6 and views you as a ten.

The beauty in life is you never know what women may be attracted to you, if therr is one thing through time that has always captivated women is confidence and a charming personality.

Lose that self defeatist attitude friend the world is yours.

Damn brehs I just saw this bad ass model looking latina at work and now I feel depressed because I know I will never have a chance with her in a million years :to: reality hurts
 

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I've done some of the biggest simping things a breh can do, I've been roasted across the coals and mocked and disrespected in front of my family, so everything I say is from experience :birdman:

So today I say any chick you are hanging onto that is using you, stringing you along, cheated or played on you, disrespected you cut that cord today. Its poison and will be detrimental to your sanity.

I've been there strung along, used. Hoped for another chance : dudes who didn't care if she was on the street or dead were being treated with more respect than I was.

For years I took that ish, until one day I said screw this. One day I just said no more and reclaimed myself. And since that day :banderas: when you cut that poison off the blessings will pour in.

Cut that poison off today, don't waste another second on some thot who doesn't respect you and just views you as a doormat to wipe your shoes on.
 

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Fam, friend of mine just asked me for $300 saying she would give me $400 back friday.

I'm pretty sure she actually does NEED it...but fukk that....I told her ass no. Go ask ya bf....where the fukk do these women get off thinking nikkas just gon up $300 for them for nothing.....

i actually love when they ask me so i can shut they ass down. shyt a shame. most my mom has ever asked me for was $100. Lmao.

None of these women were, are, or will be my gf/wife/smash buddy so i dont know why they think im their sucker. LMAO

I really hate when they test the waters like that, especially when they already have a man. I would cease contact with that chick personally.

Do women really care that much about being quiet brehs? When I went on my 1st date last year with an ex coworker she told me that I was too quiet and kept asking me why. Here's the part I don't get, I told her about why I moved to the bay, told her about me not wanting to drive, showed her pics of my mom and sis, asked about her life and whatnot and she still says I'm too quiet. She stopped talking to me after that day and ever since then I wanted to punch her in her throat for being a c*nt. This chick I met on Tinder said the same bs and that "Scorpios aren't suppose to be quiet" & that something was wrong with me because of it. She stopped contact a week later, quit looking since then and deleted all my dating profiles. I plan on traveling outside the country later this year so maybe I'll meet someone abroad who isn't stuck on that bs and move out there or some shyt, idk

LOL @ too quiet, they probably just don't like when somebody isn't fawning and simping over them too heavy.
 

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@Brandeezy only think more weird than that is when men say your too quiet. Its funny because just like your ex coworker one of my female bosses who is difficult to deal with said it to me with a smile when I was going on my break...its weird as fukk like you say...no matter how many times your talking...they complain about guys who seem too thirsty and hyper but then get scared if your serious and quiet....a bunch of birdbrains I tell you...dont know what the hell they want
 

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I'm taking a speech class(public speaking) this summer you guys think that'll help me with chicks?
 
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