Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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find a way to watch them why they don't think u looking. people reveal their real side when they don't think anyone watching.


yes women do listen to family but ive seen ones act like they were listening so they could get money....then are back off to the same man that their family don't like.


sex is MEANS ALOT TO WOMEN. THEY WANT IT JUST AS MUCH AS MEN. you can hold a lot of power with women just using incredible sex. also depending on the woman...they love oral sex. but only do it if they do oral on you first.....ex...she gives you head 5 times you do it one time.(on a special occasion) why does sex means so much to women? because sex is like emotion to women. if u fukk her good then say I love you the most....she gone believe it because of the physical and mental emotion she is going through at that moment. if you can control sex you can control the emotions.....make her chase YOU for sex forever.


that brings me to this point. BE ATHLETIC AND FIT. women figure you can go longer if you are in shape....that's why you see football players and boxers have a lot women after them.

don't think money is the end and be all. if a woman complains to much about money its an excuse to get away from you bruh. a woman who wants u sticks by u and helps u build ur account.then you got broke nikkas pulling bad bytches and sending them to rich sterling types and getting them to bring the money back home. real pimp shyt....forget being a playa.



most important one ive seen with my own eyes. GET WITH A VIRGIN. ive seen nikkas be worth garbage(personality/morals/money wise) but that virgin sticks by them like sticky glue on cheap art paper.(if u cant get a virgin get with an inexp one that has had a guy that u can easily outperform sexually.......real talk)[/QUOTE]

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Asked the new lady friend if she wanted to hang out tonight...


... good lawd. I'm started to get them butterflies again that i missed so much when i was single.


LOL.


Dealing with the flakiness is one thing... accepting it is something my ego never allows.


Shiit, even after all these years of fickle results and trial/error... you really never get over it.


This must be the karma kicking in; or maybe because i've been in a relationship for so long, my game/approach isn't as suave as i'd like it to be, thus, i'm more anxious and impatient.


For a piece like her though... sometimes, it's just better to wait (even if you've done plenty of that the past year; how does one take so many L's? The lust/thirst is real).


SMH.



Carry on, my brethren.



This is getting more and more advanced and i put myself out on the market again. WOmen are getting smarter, especially the ones with many options.


How do you, the perceived champ, differentiate yourself and create strong enough attraction to where ---- ultimately... baby girl wanna be on YOUR team?



That is the question.



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in this day and age every women has so many options, even the women with 4 kids out of wedlock has more options than the man with his ish together that looks good i just don't care anymore. And to me you counter, realize that women change in a flash you may say one thing and it may upset her. I just literally don't care anymore, the last few women I've messed with once they messed up that was it, I don't give another opportunity
 

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in this day and age every women has so many options, even the women with 4 kids out of wedlock has more options than the man with his ish together that looks good i just don't care anymore. And to me you counter, realize that women change in a flash you may say one thing and it may upset her. I just literally don't care anymore, the last few women I've messed with once they messed up that was it, I don't give another opportunity


Emp... i used to be JUST like you doggie. I really did. I never assumed good when it came to women cuz i always was always under the impression that they were up to no good; i didn't trust none of them.

While most men ought to harness that mentality... i'm too stubborn and stuck on my own damn optimism nowadays to slide with that mindset.

I know how true the bell rings regarding the "multiple guppies in the pond" mantra... but being with my girlfriend now and getting tired of how her safety net of reliability has made things soo...

... mundane and routine. Essentially a bore fest!


Can you believe it? I'm leaving a good woman who would do no wrong, always available and cares for me more than my own mother... for a young, vivacious, lusty and fun chick that doesn't even have her shiit together yet?

(Let me reiterate that before my current GF, i got played by my last chick and that put me into "Mr. Philander Don Juan Casanova" standard and felt entitled to myself to just slang the wang; that was the most exciting time of my life. Au contraire to how long it would have lasted, it kept me driven in all aspects of life; there was literally, and i apologize for the cliche of sorts - no shame in my game.)


As for what i'm doing now, I know for a FACT that this shiit is gonna bite me in the ass. I don't even want to make this one a side piece project. I want her! I feel compelled to delve into this one full steam and dream ahead and make her the project that my minds garage needs to fix, modify from the ground up and make the ultimate road machine. And i plan on riding this one the fukk out and feel accomplished when its done (that is, at least my desire at this point - see? Something to strive for).


That aside, the girl never got back to me. (I know, i know what y'all sayin', but i'm not giving us, especially considering the circumstances and how we had such a great time last weekend - she kissed me twice and i'm dumbfoundedly hooked. Been there, done that, but now i feel like I won't mess this one up because as the maxim states, "If i knew then what i knew now". Well --- i know now and i can't lose).

Like you said, i may have said something in the duration of the text that may have upset her or made her turn a blind ass cheek. Or... uncharacteristically of you... can "I" just give her the benefit of the doubt? I know we all have our opinions, approaches/methods on how we tread the world of date-dom, but i was always taught to never give up. How can this not apply to something you're so attracted to?


I'm a taurus... so perhaps, it's just the stubborn nature of my astronomical attribute (if you believe in that, i stubbornly do. LoL).


Irregardless of what's been said, the year and the half that i was with my girlfriend, i missed the shiit like this; the uncertainty and anxiety and thrill of being with somebody new (and i know what i'm doing now is, albeit typical, still taboo for me because i'm usually the committed type).


Reincar/Gems Thread Patrons, father forgive me for I am sinning, but i was damn near obsolete from this thread and my life was in full android mode and i don't want that kind of consistency. They say variety is the spice of life... and although i'm playing with fire, it keeps my endorphins and testosterone revving.


Can you blame a vigga for that? I wanted to feel young again.


And to do so with arm candy...


... that's making me chase the fukk out of her. OJ in a Bronco.



Does anybody feel the way I do or is this too unorthodox and time consuming for many?



Let's make this some interesting dialogue fam. Tell me i'm crazy. Are there cats that want to take their game to a whole 'other level and experiment the same way?



I see this kind of dynamic as progression. And in a sense, reminiscent to an embedded sociologist seeking to find qualitative answers by collecting data to support his theories on dating.



I am that student creating his life's dissertation.



And i have my subject.



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Howie you're confusing me because I thought Taurus men loved reliability and predictability. This behavior is very uncharacteristic of your sign.

I know this is the boys' club, but I wanted to get some male opinions on a situation that I encountered recently. I don't want to make a thread because I don't want to have to sift through a lot of silly responses and risk getting it derailed. Is it okay if I post the scenario here?
 

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:patrice: got my tinder set up in NY been racking up matches.
I'm going down there in 3 weeks for like 12 days. might as well set some shyt up :leon:

i did the same for vancouver
going there in a week

lets jsut say

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funny thing my tinder in my city dried up dont evne get matches anymore, whenever i put myself anywhere else it flows like the river nile :sadbron:
 

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Howie you're confusing me because I thought Taurus men loved reliability and predictability. This behavior is very uncharacteristic of your sign.

I know this is the boys' club, but I wanted to get some male opinions on a situation that I encountered recently. I don't want to make a thread because I don't want to have to sift through a lot of silly responses and risk getting it derailed. Is it okay if I post the scenario here?

And ur absolutely right. I do prefer reliability and predictability...

I dont think, as a person, that im muy spontNeous and untrustworthy.

My conclusion is that, with the exception of the aforementioned, my dilemma is that i get bored too quick. Since 2009 i dated 8 different women and cant seem to really latch onto one long enough.

My psyche is probably fukked from being awkward in my early 20's and then, in a short period, investing in the experimental lifestyle/splurging in the gina when i should have ultimately seeked quality off the bat like louieville slugger (but i fel compelled to make up for lost time... But look what it turned me into? Im not happy about it one bit... Just find it so hard to change from the mode of a womanizing conquester).


Do i get this out of my system (at the tender age of 32) or just force myself to become a monk?


Feels like the only options are radical/extreme ones.


This is the voice of a man on alcoholism and in dire need of help.


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Me: Lets do something next week

Her: Ok but I havent got an invite

Me: Are you interested or nah lol

Her: Yea but how old are you :usure:

She ended up being 19. End post. I'm pissed :mad:
 
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